Divorced after 30+ years, where to start.... Suggestions?

My recommendation is go to the strip club, specifically Baby Dolls. I recommend you find one of the older waitresses and let them guide you. You'll have some fun, spend less money, enjoy a few drinks, you won't be alone... and you'll learn how to talk to the girls again. A great way to get rid of all of the corny lines and brush up on your game.

Congratulations! and Welcome back to the game. Originally Posted by Sameraux

Oh god... 'how to talk to girls again' -- For 30+ years I've had to practice how to talk to women without ever showing a hint of even the possibility of 'interest' -- being the 'happily married' nice but unavailable male. Some of that is the business world where others I've known have been sued or fired, etc., I strived to build a certain reputation -- especially when there might have been a dangerous attraction if I'd let it go anywhere. Never let the eyes betray you or worse, wander for even a moment. Now, I certainly am not going to do a 180, but how to figure out the best balance going forward? I'm the same person, but now I'm not... unavailable?

If you are looking to see providers, then the only special skills you need is their donation rate, have clean hygeine and be respectful of their time and person. No seduction skills or verbal wit required for a happy ending!

Papers signed today. I haven't been on a date with someone else since before Reagan was President. Where to start? Have heard bad stories from friends who've done dating sites (violent ex's, etc) and very crazy people...

So, I thought I'd see what you folks think. Help me make a list -- maybe some small steps first? Originally Posted by BozMan

This is not a dating site. You really need to leave this site and never look back. This is the best advice anyone can give you.

You need the "Berkleigh Experience"

DO NOT date or fall in love with any of them until after you've written your 100th review.

Remember that part at the end of Raiders of the Lost Ark when the Nazi's open the Ark? Harrison Ford and Karen Black are tied up and Harrison yells to her," Look away dont look at it!"

My suggestion to you is the same....Look away! Run for your fucking life and dont ever look back at this Jungle!

If you got the cash, get on SA and start banging all the young girls that can't host. Lucky bastard

Only see visiting girls so you don’t get too attached.

It probably takes most people around two years to get over a divorce. Bang providers for two years. Don’t talk about your divorce and be glad you get to save a lot of money. Lol

Bozman
You have already lost half your money. If you hang around here you will loss the other half. The difference is, here you do it with a smile on your face.

Remember that part at the end of Raiders of the Lost Ark when the Nazi's open the Ark? Harrison Ford and Karen Black Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

Karen Allen.

If you go down the Rabbit Hole there is NO TURNING BACK, with that said Pick a lady that is newbie friendly and go for it, DONT TAKE SEX FOR ANYTHING OTHER THEN SEX...................

Dude, drop the pay for play, women who want a man THROW pussy at you if you have any game. You can't get away from the ass unless you try. Get a vasectomy, shave your junk and have fun.

Dude, drop the pay for play, women who want a man THROW pussy at you if you have any game. You can't get away from the ass unless you try. Get a vasectomy, shave your junk and have fun. Originally Posted by onlyAMPs4menow

“You don't pay women to have sex with you. You pay them to leave when you’re done.”

Charlie Sheen

Although that might not be true quote in the literal sense, much of the appea; to pay for play is to avoid the inevitable drama that tends to always come with relationships. I don’t know that I’d pay for them to go away when I’m done, but I’d sure pay for them to go away the next morning, or afternoon, when they start badgering me about where I put my dirty clothes, or that I left a dirty tea cup or paper plate in my office. Why did the maid do this or that? Did I know that the neighbor’s tree was doing this and so to our fence? The cat needs an allergy shot and it’s my turn to take her. So and so married his girlfriend, why won’t I marry her.

Just go for OP have you yet ?