What's a HJ worth?

What's an HJ worth?

1 job in hand is worth 2 in the bush. Wait, maybe it should be the other way around?

I do not think it is rude to ask.Most likely it is hard to get a straight answer to your question because everyone is looking for something different.I have always believed that it is smart to stay within your budget.The only time I would suggest otherwise is when you are not finding what you need at the price level you are at. Enjoying multiple hours with an escort does not have to be about how many times you come.In some situations it just allows you the extra time to feel comfortable with each other.Well that, and many hours of foreplay.

Your other option may be to find a part time semi pro.There would probably be a lot of hit, or miss involved, but if you can meet one who you really hit it off with you might end up better off. Originally Posted by Becky

Thx for the advice.

I hate the phone too. Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Why is it that guys dislike talking on the phone so much? I dislike writing emails. So I guess it makes things pretty even. After screening through email, I would much prefer a couple of phone calls. But I'll warn you I can be pretty chatty.

Thx for the advice. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Anytime

Why is it that guys dislike talking on the phone so much? I dislike writing emails. So I guess it makes things pretty even. After screening through email, I would much prefer a couple of phone calls. But I'll warn you I can be pretty chatty. Originally Posted by Ansley

I have always been a little too chatty on the phone to the point where I can talk myself right out of an appointment.One gentleman once said that I remended him of his sister.I knew that I would never hear back from him again lol .I guess I need to find a healthy balance.Talk enough to see if there is a connection, but not so much where they feel like they are comitting incest.

Why is it that guys dislike talking on the phone so much? I dislike writing emails. So I guess it makes things pretty even. After screening through email, I would much prefer a couple of phone calls. But I'll warn you I can be pretty chatty. Originally Posted by Ansley

I can't speak for anyone else, but I miss the extra communication that comes with talking to someone face to face or the body language that goes along with the conversation.

Which is interesting since with all forms of communication, I prefer "in person" first, and email 2nd. I type at about the speed I think, so the communication is pretty smooth. However, I don't speak at that speed...I bumble and stumble about and often times don't even get across verbally that which has gone through my mind.

Ansley, I think you are unlike most providers...at least the ones I've run into. Most of the ones I've run into are not chatty. It increases the amount of time they have invested in the client. If you start engaging in chatty conversations, pretty soon your hourly rate has been reduced.

I have been given phone numbers by providers. I called one and regretted the droning chatter. So I have yet to call another.

I have always been a little too chatty on the phone to the point where I can talk myself right out of an appointment. Originally Posted by Becky

I have been known to do that also. This man had passed my screening and we made plans to talk on the phone. We were like sand paper to each other. We just rubbed each other the wrong way. Shortly after the conversation I received an email stating that we would only agitate each other. Those damn liberal lawyers.

Those damn liberal lawyers. Originally Posted by Ansley

Yeah, I guess we can be a real pain.

Yeah, I guess we can be a real pain. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Now y'all can't take all the credit. I can be a pain in the butt too.

Now y'all can't take all the credit. I can be a pain in the butt too. Originally Posted by Ansley

Ahhhh, but such a beautiful one!

But in the end, it is still a roll in the hay. And I have to price it out for myself. If I were younger, I would probably think differently than I do now with my tinge of gray. But, maybe if I win the lottery... Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Rule #1 in this world is the same as it is in the world of gambling: "Don't bet (spend) what you can't afford to lose (spend)"

Whether it is a hundred or a thousand or more, if it is too much, it is too much. (and you are much more likely to experience buyer's remorse, or say "what a waste")


At the risk of equating "it is still a roll in the hay" with NPOA is worth....I posed the question because I suspected (at least in my experience), there is something more at the higher end. Even though it costs more you are getting more than a physical release. You are very much less likely to have buyer's remorse.

without trying to quote the half a dozen or so points on phone calls....

...and I've said this before, but....

...3 minutes on the phone is my screening....

I think you do yourself a disservice if you don't make the effort to spend a few minutes on the phone...IMO far more predictive than a bunch of reviews full of acronyms....

Even though it costs more you are getting more than a physical release. You are very much less likely to have buyer's remorse. Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I guess the question then becomes: are you less likely to have buyer's remorse because the experience was that much better, or because psychologically, with that much $$$$ at stake, you are less likely to think it was a foolish expenditure?

I think you do yourself a disservice if you don't make the effort to spend a few minutes on the phone...IMO far more predictive than a bunch of reviews full of acronyms.... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Interesting observation. Maybe I'll try that with the next lady.

[Could have been Ansley until she disclosed her aversion to liberal lawyers. lol ]

[Could have been Ansley until she disclosed her aversion to liberal lawyers. lol ] Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I don't save it all for liberal lawyers. It would be any person that discredited my beliefs and tried to cram their own agenda down my throat.

Back to expensive hand jobs and chatty conversations. lol

Back to expensive hand jobs and chatty conversations. lol Originally Posted by Ansley

At your service: