Can I Get a Witness?---Not What You Think

True maturity brings a sexy level of confidence. I don't care how "grown up" a teen or 20-something lady "appears" it's been my experience that inside is a young girl that's still unsure of herself and striving to shake off the last vestige of self-consciousness.

Women over 30 are usually there. They've had enough "been there, done that" moments and actually lived a life that their self-confidence is firm and the sexualty they express comes from years of learning and experience. I swore off "little girls" after an uninpsired blowjob that consisted of her basically just dropping and lifting her open mouth. Not what you call "exciting." Give me an older woman that's had enough of them in her mouth to have an understanding of which buttons to punch when you're with a man.

I would hope it's the same thing for women in terms of older men but I digress!

I've hobbied for quite some time and for close to 95% of that time have had a great time. I still enjoy the company of Providers; especially the tactile difference of womens' bodies and the reactions each of us can bring to the other; especially the orgasms. However, lately I've found myself feeling uneasy whenever I see the new round of ads from young Providers. They're all incredibly beautiful hardbodies and certainly another kind of experience. But theyy're growing increasingly too young for me! I know that some men find the sight, feel, taste and touch of a 19 year old hottie equivalent to the Fountain of Eternal Youth. I find it too complicated a concept to handle that she's younger than my youngest daughter!

Am I alone in this? Are there any other Hobbyists out there that find themselves feeling the same way. Don't get me wrong, I love being with a younger woman, just not THAT young! Originally Posted by txcwby6

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! I'm 31 almost 32 and I have men tell me this all of the time. Not only that...I HATE seeing really young guys too!! Now my son is only 7 lol but 7 and 18 or 19 for a guy is the same thing LOL...I need you to slow down and show me you have some experiance!!!

Good to know the selection of 30+ women is so deep here in Dallas. Holly, that's one hot tub shot!

A co-worker put this in perspective for me. He said he realized he was getting too old to see the teenage-looking girls when he looked at the last one and said to himself, "Gawd, I'll bet her mother's hot!!"

Call me different, but even in my teens and twenties I felt a woman at 35 was far more sexy than those my age. And now, having experienced young and old, I find 30+ the best there is.

More patient, comfortable with their bodies, and willing to let you know if your "talented" tongue is hitting the right spot(s).

I've always stayed within the 25-30y/o group, but have occasionally strayed into the uncharted waters of the 18-19 y/o's and have, without fail, regretted it every time. I see a few that are 21-25 who are extremely reliable and have their lives in order, but I think they are the exception.

Being only 20 years older than an 18 y/o, I've found I have absolutely nothing in common with someone that young. So someone in their 50's-60's who believes someone that young is really "into them" is just laughable and downright creepy at best. Overall, I'd consider myself progressively hip and even that hasn't helped to overcome the simple thing that is the age barrier...

Can't beat the 30+ Lady's

Hell I like em all. Age is just a number as long as its LEGAL. LOL I do prefer the 30's plus women because the sex always seems better and I seem to see mostly that age. Now I have seen the 20 year olds and some are wonderful but, most are dramatized and that kills it for me. Although I did see a 22 year old that was built like a 30's plus and made love like a 40's plus and it was a fantastic experience. She was tall, DD naturals, Long Dark Hair, Great Kisser and overall passionate. Very easy to schedule with and a very dependable Young Lady. Need more like her.

When I first saw The Graduate I started beating my meat like it owed me money. Older women exude confidence and experience and the ones I got inside whilst getting older were THE best teachers.