Falling for a provider

One time, at band camp...

I think it can go both ways. What if a provider falls for a hobbyist? Will that hobbyist ever see her past being a provider? Originally Posted by FirePhoenix

Nope... Once a whore... always a whore and ya can't take a whore home to momma.....

Nope... Once a whore... always a whore. Originally Posted by Whispers

you say that like it's a bad thing ,,...

I like whores...they are fun and without them we would all be lonelier then we are now.

Tips to not fall for a provider, tie your shoes, concentrait as you aproch the incall, take note of objects on the floor once in the incall, no skate shoes, good core training, limit in air positions to your fitness level........


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Nope... Once a whore... always a whore and ya can't take a whore home to momma..... Originally Posted by Whispers

I Respectfully disagree. You know of whom I speak of, and I would have left this life in a minute and never looked back had it worked out. But he also had the means to take care of me, so I wouldn't ever hobby again.

Alas, it didn't work out as many hobby relationships don't.

You know, I don't have any regrets about the two come to think if it. They both taught me a lot. But in his case, I think he should be very careful not to play with fire.

You know the counselor told us to never speak of it again! Lol... Originally Posted by VLombardi

Which hooker/therapist would that be?! The one who watched us last time or the one who joined?! Hehe.

Not again, please ...

Follow three rules: 1. Pay. 2. Have fun. 3. Leave.

You'll be so much happier. Originally Posted by Beachcomber512

Good response!!

Which hooker/therapist would that be?! The one who watched us last time or the one who joined?! Hehe. Originally Posted by Scarlett De Rossi

Damn, I just realized we did once have someone watch us and we did have a third join us another time. Ok, time for another visit. See what kind of trouble we can stir up.

Nope... Once a whore... always a whore and ya can't take a whore home to momma..... Originally Posted by Whispers

And once a Hobbyist, always a John.

Every guy (and girl) who has anted up for a session will always be smote with that mark.

I guess some guys just don't care about that.

Nope... Once a whore... always a whore and ya can't take a whore home to momma..... Originally Posted by Whispers

So true, but who says you have to take her home to meet momma?

Just kidding, I'm assuming the topic is with regard to a serious relationship.

Considering the average whore and trick, it would be a train wreck waiting to happen for the trick.

You have to realize that your average whore is a master manipulator who will expertly carve up the naive or spineless beta male trick.

It all comes down to the whore mentality.

I'm sure there are outliers that are mature and level headed enough to make it work. But, don't think it's you, the reader.


Oh, it works both ways, can't take a trick to meet daddy.

Anyone every got carried away with the idea and fall for a provider? ...Damn, I recently had a tremendous time with a provider. It was like a movie. Originally Posted by Tpcgolfer

Don't beat yourself up, golfer. It happens often enough and even has its own genre.

There’s a whole body of film and literature about guys who fall in love with their prostitutes. These come quickly to mind: Never on Sunday, Irma la Douce, Pretty Woman, The Blue Angel.

Here’s a thread from last year with a couple pages of examples.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1046540

Monk

p.s. Of course it's happened to me. More than once.

Nope... Once a whore... always a whore and ya can't take a whore home to momma..... Originally Posted by Whispers

I can and I have

In the hobby, lust is good, love is bad.
The hobby is not a dating service.
The hobby is a business.
Remember all those things she does for you like so much she does for all the other guys she sees.
Keep your perspective, be honest with yourself and don't make a big mistake.

I'm quite happy when they do not fall in love with me! I fall in love with all of them, but I know that after awhile I'll want to have sex with other women. My criteria for a relationship with a woman is this:

1. She has to like girl-girl
2. She doesn't mind me watching porn whenever I like
3. She doesn't mind me paying other women and massage therapists for sex, sometimes several at a time.
4. She practices safe sex.
5. She doesn't lie to me.
6. She signs a pre-nup if we take it too far.
7. She doesn't want any more children.

I believe a majority of men here are married or in some manner of relationship.

(can't be certain, I don't think there is peer reviewed scientific data about the horndogs on Eccie)

Many of those relationships are bad. But some are just fine and normal with one typical exception being that some men like to dive balls deep in strange moist lady pubis every chance they get.

But other than that, they're perfectly capable of having mostly healthy relationships. But somehow when it comes to providers having healthy relationships, well, it seems like the general consensus here is we can't which makes me laugh.

Hate to break it to you but there are married providers here, providers with boyfriends and family units: all functioning quite well thank you. It likely requires a complete 180 on Puritanical and Stone Age views on sexuality and ridding oneself of assumptions and pre-conceived notions about sexuality and relationships. Most find that impossible (as displayed in Co-ed all over the place), and a lot of people just don't want to put the effort into taking on that difficult proposition when there are civilian women with whom to have a relationship,with without all these complications and I understand that. But a lot of people are perfectly capable of having healthy relationships within and outside of the hobby.

And I have to laugh at people who say providers are "all about the money" Of course we are diddums. And so are you at your 9-5 corporate shill job. Unless of course you throw away your paycheck, because working for a living is kinda all about the money. That's how free markets work. I'm happy to explain the basics of capitalism to you but it will cost you.

I can't speak for other providers but I know I can have of having a healthy relationship with someone. I've always been a rad as fuck girlfriend and I will always be a rad as fuck girlfriend. I say as long as you have your eyes open and you're an open minded and reasonable person and she is too then go for it!