A Scared Newbie

rduke4923's Avatar
If you're really afraid, don't go see Alyssa. She just got back from a year long ban for outing member's personal information... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Hi
I am the Everlast TRoll and i am here to help!
rduke4923's Avatar
I know you can't offer me any guarantees, but I'm just plain afraid. The provider I have an appointment with is extensively reviewed on ECCIE. Her reviews go back years and part of my attraction were many references to safe play. I was not opposed to her verification process which included my sending my business card from my personal email account. I was involved in this hobby 20 plus years ago in the ASPD days, but it appears to be a brave new world out there. Suggestions? Originally Posted by ybar1001
Get on P411 and avoid all the BS.

R Duke
Wakeup's Avatar
OP, the providers here in this thread who have outed member personal information are Alyssa and Fancy. The ones who have outed my personal information are Champagne Brown, Amber Does, and Dee Siren.

I'd stay clear of them all...
Wakeup's Avatar
What did she ever do to you personally that she deserves this kind of hatred. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
She outed other members of this site...but you know that...

Have you ever considered a truce so you can each go about your business without personal attacks. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
It's not a personal attack...I'm stating facts...as you well know. You want a truce? Why?
Fancyinheels's Avatar
OP, the providers here in this thread who have outed member personal information are Alyssa and Fancy. The ones who have outed my personal information are Champagne Brown, Amber Does, and Dee Siren.

I'd stay clear of them all... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Unless someone has full PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE of all circumstances, which Chicken Little cannot have at least in MY case as he was in NO WAY involved and it was not a public issue, making dire warnings based on speculation is about as helpful as stating when a shooting star passes in the sky we should all duck and cower in panic.

I'm willing to let my reputation on the board, my posts, my 100% positive reviews, my longevity, my continuing efforts to educate newbies (providers AND clients) and assist them in negotiating our intimidating wicked world, speak for me.

We all make at least one mistake sometime, and goodness, how quick some are to jump on a crack and turn it into the Grand Canyon. What we do to atone for our transgressions indicates the type of person we are. Rubbing others' errors in their faces long after the fact with no indication that they have repeated the behavior (and with no understanding of the situation in the first place) is a poor rehab technique. Seems surprisingly contradictory that perfect people frequent a site so fought with moral dilemmas.

But rduke is right; The OP's best bet in avoiding the bulltwinkie and drama here and Hobbying with the most safety and discretion is to become a member of P411.
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Outing is outing. There are very severe penalties available for outing someone on purpose. There are lesser penalties available for outing someone accidentally. But those lesser penalties do include a ban, just of lesser duration.
The ones who have outed my personal information are Champagne Brown, Amber Does, and Dee Siren.

I'd stay clear of them all... Originally Posted by Wakeup
ProTip: ... On second thought
OP, if you have to pick a potty mouth outing whore, pick Fancy. I will go out on a limb and say she is the least likely to be a repeat offender...........although, I could be wrong. Originally Posted by dearhunter
It's early yet....and remember, she didn't even serve out her full sentence.
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It's early yet....and remember, she didn't even serve out her full sentence. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
Because of circumstances you aren't privy to, so this isn't in your realm of purvue. I'm done discussing this, as much as a few of you wish to make it a continuing issue for time immemorial. So sad that some people grin and point when others fall hard and bleed. How sharky, er, snarky.

Considering that YOUR personal ATF is allegedly one of the greatest offenders yet someone I've never said a negative word about, why do you continue to spotlight me, GS? Toss rocks at the glass house in your own direction.
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her verification process which included my sending my business card from my personal email account. I was involved in this hobby 20 plus years ago in the ASPD days, but it appears to be a brave new world out there. Suggestions? Originally Posted by ybar1001
It's too late....you already stepped on your dick...ijs

You stalk all of her reviews Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
This part is incorrect. Of course now that it's been pointed out maybe he'll go back and hit the ones he's missed.
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Considering that YOUR personal ATF is allegedly one of the greatest offenders yet someone I've never said a negative word about, why do you continue to spotlight me, GS? Toss rocks at the glass house in your own direction.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
Well it's all mod-said-she-said....even you noted "allegedly" but she did her time. You paid only a 1/12 th of your time.

btw, where is your potty-mouthed friend Lexie-in-Banville?
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Well it's all mod-said-she-said....even you noted "allegedly" but she did her time. You paid only a 1/12 th of your time.

btw, where is your potty-mouthed friend Lexie-in-Banville? Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

I did MY time, too. Sentence served in full as determined by the powers that be. No further explanation warranted.

I speak for no one but myself.

Old news. Move along, bored, irritable child.

I did MY time, too. Sentence served in full as later shortened by the powers that be...... Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
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TheCat'sMeow's Avatar
OP, the providers here in this thread who have outed member personal information are Alyssa and Fancy. The ones who have outed my personal information are Champagne Brown, Amber Does, and Dee Siren.

I'd stay clear of them all... Originally Posted by Wakeup
The moral of the story is for the smart John to avoid all whores that regularly frequent the boards in one way or another.
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The moral of the story is for the smart John to avoid all whores that regularly frequent the boards in one way or another. Originally Posted by TheCat'sMeow