any first time tips?

Now right above me is some bad advice...asparagus??? Nooooo...broccoli & cheese casserole works best...and have at in 69, with you on top! Pfffffttttt...

OP, if you can separate the good advice from the bad here, you will be a man, my son.

Just eat onions and garlic an hour before your appoinment. Ladies love it

Bring an appropriate gift. Examples include:
macaroni glued to a plate in the shape of boobs
a bottle of vodka that you've chugged half of on the way over
a handful of pennies
McDonald breakfast items, particularly in the late afternoon
Twilight butt plugs
pamphlets espousing the virtues of Scientology
scissors
puzzle books with the answers helpfully filled in
self-sealing stem bolts
and the ever classic hamburger in a can

I can only vouch for two of these personally, but they went over really well.

Ask for bbfs, hide donation and yell Scavenger Hunt!, dont manscape prior to session, text her repeatedly to chit chat before the encounter, take photos w/o her knowledge, and when in doubt- cancel by way of NCNS. Originally Posted by addicted2U

Do the opposite of all of these things, and you'll be golden.

I asked to roll play and showed up in full SWAT costume. They seemed to like the realism. Said it got the endorphins flowing.