Since no one has yet had the pleasure of growing the kahunas, and saying the obvious... please allow me the fortitude of being obnoxiously daft.
While it is needless to say that the services that a provider provides is very personal, it should be equally evident that it is no less personal for the client.
The only difference is that the client is paying for it.
If that shocks anyone, deal with it.
The paramount factor involved is that BOTH consenting parties be comfortable for a mutually satisfactory transaction. Moreover, safety is an equal or even a larger concern.
The obvious having been stipulated, let's judiciously celebrate that the provider is putting an AD out on the INTERNET for ALL to see.
Due to the fact that the monger has the benefit of additional info such as pics, reviews, etc... it is fair to state that despite the screening process, the client has more leverage in choosing who he/she would like to visit. Point conceded.
The imagination, therefore, is not stretched that a provider may run into unexpected situations from time to time, despite the screening.
On the other hand, so does the client... is that so hard to imagine also?
The scale mostly balances out in terms of percentages of providers provided for vs clients pampered with the allude of lustful yarn. That's a mathematical derivative.
If you can agree to my arguments thus far, I feel compelled to rhetorically ask "How often does one read a monger state "guys... don't dare see black/brown/yellow/blue/green/pink/purple/turquoise/fat/skinny women"" ?
Therefore, I challenge you in the observation that to advertise "no black men" is very much succumbing to one's subconscious beliefs (and perhaps to a small extent, one's experiences). It implies that the provider is racist, and does not care to admit as much.
While it is her choice, I believe that society need not shelter such misgivings.
Come and mathematically prove me wrong.
I dare you. Originally Posted by rrrabbit
Not a good idea.
I don't think you'll want to hear the truth. Originally Posted by kingorpawn
+1
Because black people will be extinct - duh! Originally Posted by ZarahAdams
Since no one has yet had the pleasure of growing the kahunas, and saying the obvious... please allow me the fortitude of being obnoxiously daft.
While it is needless to say that the services that a provider provides is very personal, it should be equally evident that it is no less personal for the client.
The only difference is that the client is paying for it.
If that shocks anyone, deal with it.
The paramount factor involved is that BOTH consenting parties be comfortable for a mutually satisfactory transaction. Moreover, safety is an equal or even a larger concern.
The obvious having been stipulated, let's judiciously celebrate that the provider is putting an AD out on the INTERNET for ALL to see.
Due to the fact that the monger has the benefit of additional info such as pics, reviews, etc... it is fair to state that despite the screening process, the client has more leverage in choosing who he/she would like to visit. Point conceded.
The imagination, therefore, is not stretched that a provider may run into unexpected situations from time to time, despite the screening.
On the other hand, so does the client... is that so hard to imagine also?
The scale mostly balances out in terms of percentages of providers provided for vs clients pampered with the allude of lustful yarn. That's a mathematical derivative.
If you can agree to my arguments thus far, I feel compelled to rhetorically ask "How often does one read a monger state "guys... don't dare see black/brown/yellow/blue/green/pink/purple/turquoise/fat/skinny women"" ?
Therefore, I challenge you in the observation that to advertise "no black men" is very much succumbing to one's subconscious beliefs (and perhaps to a small extent, one's experiences). It implies that the provider is racist, and does not care to admit as much.
While it is her choice, I believe that society need not shelter such misgivings.
Come and mathematically prove me wrong.
I dare you. Originally Posted by rrrabbit
Dear Mods: Like all of these posts, this one continues to replicate the same old sentiments/positions we have seen so many times before. I thought the point of having super threads was to spare everybody being bludgeoned with the same threads over and over (whether this subject or others)? Originally Posted by BobaveI guess you were confused by the "NO BLACK MEN" title on this thread and didn't realize what the topic was.