The reasons it ends badly?? Providers opinions.

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Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

Because we're all a bunch of crazy cunts...

In my experience, the other provider has been involved in partying or they go behind my back and look through my phone in the attempt to get the phone #'s of my clients we doubled with.

I have other people in my life who depend on me, so I just keep my provider "friends" to a minimum these days.

Providers: Why do you think we fall out? Give reasons why a provider might fall out with another when they were so close, and do you think if not for the hobby they would had stayed friends? Originally Posted by bustyamy

I don‘t think fall outs are hobby-related, much rather personality related. I think humans evolve and some evolve in another direction. Sometimes people clash and sometimes they grow apart quietly. I have had friends in and out of the hobby with whom these things happen / did never happen.

Working together (in whatever kind of business) can be a tricky issue. I have some escort friends , with whom I specifically decided not to work anymore together, just to save our friendship. I do so , because too many touching points can be a tricky issue in this realm (the realm of ties within working together and ties within private life)

I think if someone finds herself constantly involved in nasty relationships or problematic things, it would be good to reflect on personal issues on why you search for this kind of energy. As long as the negativity is not prominent, I think it‘s ok. I would not portray escort to escort friendshios as anymore problematic per se .

+1.

because bitches be crazy!!! I don't have drama in my personal life, and I'm not going to invite it from here... Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

My private life is different too, but when I log into eccie I feel like I'm in a shark tank. Originally Posted by bustyamy

I think you give this site (no pun intended) way more credit than it deserves. I think it is by no means any different than other social internet sites. Sometimes things do get ugly. That is normal with so many different people and habits. Best is to learn something and reflect on your mistakes that caused the issues. I assume everyone‘s mistakes contribute a little to a misunderstanding. I for the most part like it here, but that is maybe because I don`t reside in the USA and I don`t really have connections here. I met some provoders from on here privately (yay!!! ) but I don`t have the ties that connect people that live in the same city or country like some of you gals have , so rumours about me are either decades old or non-existent. That might be why I feel easy here.

Could irt be "PMS" x 2?

Seriously though, it's just Mother Nature. Opposites attract and the same repel.

A mans point Originally Posted by Lustnotlove

Oh you....

I think you give this site (no pun intended) way more credit than it deserves. I think it is by no means any different than other social internet sites. Sometimes things do get ugly. That is normal with so many different people and habits. Best is to learn something and reflect on your mistakes that caused the issues. I assume everyone‘s mistakes contribute a little to a misunderstanding. I for the most part like it here, but that is maybe because I don`t reside in the USA and I don`t really have connections here. I met some provoders from on here privately (yay!!! ) but I don`t have the ties that connect people that live in the same city or country like some of you gals have , so rumours about me are either decades old or non-existent. That might be why I feel easy here. Originally Posted by NinaBrooke

On FB nobody knows my "little secret" about being an escort. I get along there great and have over 500 friends. And just as here some I have met and most I just read the post. If its interesting I respond, if not I just scroll. I am glad to have a rather normal, and conservative life outside of the hobby world. I assumed it was more common with this industry. Maybe it could be different personalities and lifestyle choices that cause a clash. I am not rushing to meet anymore providers in person. I have a couple friends who have a similar life as myself. I don't want to push it lol. And yes, many are right down the road.

I think you give this site (no pun intended) way more credit than it deserves. I think it is by no means any different than other social internet sites. Originally Posted by NinaBrooke

I would disagree with one point here... it is a bit different. the added element of hookers and johns (already illegal activities) does make it a bit easier to get away with saying certain things as well as ads in avenue for people to show their venom in ways that may perhaps affect their personal life. some here go deeper into the rabbit hole than necessary. I only have a few female friends (2 that I can think of and I hardly see them) so here is where I interact with females the most. DRAMA! I like playing with boys way better.

I would disagree with one point here... it is a bit different. the added element of hookers and johns (already illegal activities) does make it a bit easier to get away with saying certain things as well as ads in avenue for people to show their venom in ways that may perhaps affect their personal life. some here go deeper into the rabbit hole than necessary. I only have a few female friends (2 that I can think of and I hardly see them) so here is where I interact with females the most. DRAMA! I like playing with boys way better. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

+1

BTW, nice siggy.

I would disagree with one point here... it is a bit different. the added element of hookers and johns (already illegal activities) does make it a bit easier to get away with saying certain things as well as ads in avenue for people to show their venom in ways that may perhaps affect their personal life. some here go deeper into the rabbit hole than necessary. I only have a few female friends (2 that I can think of and I hardly see them) so here is where I interact with females the most. DRAMA! I like playing with boys way better. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

+1 boys are way better

What Alli said on 'partying' I have a zero tolerance policy to 'partying'
I distance myself away from that type of lifestyle

It's forbidden in my civi life and hobby life!

What Alli said on 'partying' I have a zero tolerance policy to 'partying'
I distance myself away from that type of lifestyle

It's forbidden in my civi life and hobby life! Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

This is the best adviceyou can get on this board.
"Partying" per se changes things from being risky, to being simply foolish...especially if you consider the cost of the resolving the problems that can arise.

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What Alli said on 'partying' I have a zero tolerance policy to 'partying'
I distance myself away from that type of lifestyle

It's forbidden in my civi life and hobby life! Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Yes ma'am. Thats something I have always had pride in. I am very glad you don't, we both have that zero policy. I always said live and let live, but when someone party's stupidity happens. I rather not have that in my hobby friend. Glad you bbrought that up. It's common.

Can we all quit bumping this dead ass threAD? Valerie said it best. Now it is just a few Providers trying to keep their handles on top of stack....