Opinions on overnights?

When I first started to hobby and heard of an overnight my first thought was, "Why would anyone want to do that?". Well after having done one my response now is, "Why would you not?".
WALDT and I'm not trying to persuade anyone to think that overnights are always awesome or are for you.

My one and only overnight was almost exactly 1 year ago and with a provider I was very comfortable with. We'd seen each other a couple of times over a 2 year period and we had the required time to get to know one another. She arrived at my hotel around 9 at night and left at about 8 or so the following morning. During that time we had lots of sex, conversation, kissing and slept for about 5 hrs. I must admit that my favorite part was waking up with her ready to go at 5 am.

Personally, it was a very enjoyable experience and one I would gladly do again. Neither of us had to worry about where we had to be next or what time to leave. This allowed us both to relax and take our time enjoying each other.

If you choose wisely, you will be rewarded with an enjoyable overnight. Choose wrong and you could wake up in a bath tub full of ice.

[QUOTE=Hercules;1057497523]And the 3am sneak attack. Whipping off the covers from a sleeping naked woman and licking her pussy til she begs me to fuck her. QUOTE]

Now that is what I am talking about...

honestly... it's a very intimate thing for me. it take a lot for me to be ok with sleeping overnight or staring 14 hours with someone lol

honestly unless i know you, i will get bored after 9 hours... and money can't buy my attention lol

With the right partner, someone you are comfortable with, they can be incredible. Very intimate and enjoyable.

when i first started in this hobby i did a few overnighters. I enjoyed the second one which was truely an amazing time. I enjoyed them becasue well i hobby because im a lonely guy. I enjoy the company of a beautiful woamn talking and jokeing around with them making them laugh was all a part of what i really enjoyed.

It was like this. before and after session i understand its a buisness arrangement. During the session i enjoyed the fantasy of being with such a lovley lady.

Now at this point though i have more bills almost than money so my hobby days are pretty much gone. i had a few 2 hour sessions that were not bad but it isnt as fun as it used to be.

If you can truely click with each other an overnight can be fun for both people. This is something you are going to want to make sure of before you ask or even do the overnight becasue it coud be the worst night of your life lol.

Hobby safe and have fun folks.

Very well stated. Most guys, at least the ones that frequent this site, are looking for a GFE that does not travel farther than the bedroom, much less going outside of the house for dinner/drinks and/or going to an event. There is no telling who you will run into on the outside as there are some very unscrupulous guys who may be at the same event and recognize she is a provider as he has either been BCD with her or has seen her pic on a whore board and would more than likely put a damper on the evening if not ruin it entirely.

Originally Posted by davidfree986

i think speaking for yourself and your own experiences is a better idea. that statement is not correct. i have met some wonderful men from eccie that i had amazing extended and overnight dates with when i lived in las vegas.

What's with all this chemistry stuff people keep saying. And overnight isn't exactly dating. Its like the end stages of a hot date............or the pinnacle reflection of dating someone in the real world and fast forwarding to that frst night of intimacy sans the emotion. Sex is supposed to be the easy part.

Trust and preferences are next.

I think people throw around the word chemistry too much in regard to this topic. Just be decent and not werd and honest. Wtf is chemistry in regards to the hobby? Why not just be well rounded and mutually satisfying. Or decent. Its not so complicated.

And the whole thing about seeing somene you have already seen isn't exciting to me. Because my expectatons for a shorter meet will be much less than an overnight. And not all ladies have that comeback sex. I'm not gonna waste time kickng tires and checking to see if a chick is worthy.....or satisfy the low confidence of a lady who thinks I might be overnight capable...that's the whole purpose of taking the upgrade. Its not so much a risk if both partes are honest and their preferences match. The ladies I actually repeat with are few and far between. But who I continued to see chemistry didnt matter. It was a combination of their work ethic, preferences in respect to mine, my trust with them, and how they treated me.

I like overnights or all day dates. You can combine playtime, dining, drinks, naps, toy shows, show and tell, naughty bedtime stories, porn on the tv snuggling and fondling in a huge king bed with tons of pillows and Egyptian cotton sheets, room service in bed, breakfast in bed.....day or nighttime...I love nice hotels!! You can have sex party and leave when it's time and tip the maids well.

My personal favorite, since I'm an early riser is the early morning sneak attack and I discover your morning wood and I have my way with it, I can sneak under covers and suck away or jump on top and giddy up!! The morning wood seems extra hard for some reason....me likey !! 😋

If I could afford overnights, I'd probably do a few of them. Nothing beats that feeling of relaxation after the deed. I hate getting dressed and having to drive and have that whole process kill my buzz.

Seriously, though. Overnighters cost too goddamn much. I'm just going to go ahead and say it. $2,000. $2,500. $3-4,000. Insanity.

I find it funny that many of these providers are 'low volume' (according to themselves), meaning they never make more than two appointments worth in a day, yet to see ONE guy who's basically giving them the freedom of burden of having to deal with more than one, but want a king's ransom for one night, when there's likely to be a night of not a whole lot of action.

Nobody's going to be a jackrabbit, trying to go at it all night. These are a bunch of old(er) men we're talking about here.

If I could afford overnights, I'd probably do a few of them. Nothing beats that feeling of relaxation after the deed. I hate getting dressed and having to drive and have that whole process kill my buzz.

Seriously, though. Overnighters cost too goddamn much. I'm just going to go ahead and say it. $2,000. $2,500. $3-4,000. Insanity.

I find it funny that many of these providers are 'low volume' (according to themselves), meaning they never make more than two appointments worth in a day, yet to see ONE guy who's basically giving them the freedom of burden of having to deal with more than one, but want a king's ransom for one night, when there's likely to be a night of not a whole lot of action.

Nobody's going to be a jackrabbit, trying to go at it all night. These are a bunch of old(er) men we're talking about here. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

It is not about how much it costs... It is how great it feels. Feels great, i guarantee you.

It is not about how much it costs... It is how great it feels. Feels great, i guarantee you. Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

Spending a week on the 70th floor of the NYC-Marriot feels great, too, but it'd cost me a year's salary...per night.

The irony in all this is these women wouldn't dare spend money as recklessly as they want us to spend it on them.

The irony in all this is these women wouldn't dare spend money as recklessly as they want us to spend it on them. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

It's not reckless if you want it and have the means to get it.

My personal favorite, since I'm an early riser is the early morning sneak attack and I discover your morning wood and I have my way with it, I can sneak under covers and suck away or jump on top and giddy up!! The morning wood seems extra hard for some reason....me likey !! 😋 Originally Posted by Sophia Banks

Woke up this morning with a serious case of morning wood. I have always wanted to have this taken care of... have to look into an overnight to address this condition. Extra hard only begins to describe it.

It's not reckless if you want it and have the means to get it. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Is there anything that you'd rent at $350 an hour?? Rent, not keep.

If I could afford overnights, I'd probably do a few of them.

Seriously, though. Overnighters cost too goddamn much. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Just for transperencys sake......if you did do overnights.....what rate would you consider fair. And what would you pay?

For me I'm somewhat at times an infrequent hobbyist. Until I find a regular who suites my interest....Id probably at most see only 1 new lady per month. So at max twelve sessons a year. More if a regular is good.

Probably is somewhat even on what your payng to see ladies on average a year anyway. The other guys is just waiting a bit longer between sessions. You might be spending that same amount fiscally per year anyway.

[QUOTE=Rambro Creed;1057499529]I'm just going to go ahead and say it. $2,000. $2,500. $3-4,000. Insanity.[/QUOTE|

Well that's in the eye of the beholder. On the whole I agree wth you.....on average those rates aren't what I would pay on average......doesn't mean I wouldn't but with those rates my standards for service and how she looks changes. I booked weekend with some ladies for 2000. For 2000 an up for a mere overnight however......... Id be expecting someone literally flawless to all my perferred visual fantacies....and someone with a full menu and/or countless overnight and multihour reviews displaying her track records for it and her command of it.

If you are seeing overnight rates like the ranges you speak above.......you may want to pay attenton to her other rates as well. And let's not forget overnights usually are somewhat negotiable. If she's anywhere from 400 an hour and up. She's already somewhat exclusive to a certain type of clientele. There's a certain offer point you should not go below. I wouldn't expect a lady with 400 dollar rates.......to give me a 1000 dollar overnight rate. If she advertises half hours with those rates.........I wouldn't even consider her as an option. Because that means of her being exclusive at her higher rate is further compromised. If someone can see her for as low as 200 and below.........I assuredly wouldn't spend your above bracket of 2000 plus. Its not spoken about......because clients and providers sometimes have a perception they have to maintain. But don't insult that caliber of a lady either......pending of course she's flawless lol.

Maybe a 300 dollar or below lady maybe and most times will be more manuverable. You have to use tact because to accommodate for you she will block out or lose business earning potential for that day or night as well. But you have to have standards for what you will pay. The more you do them the better the deals you will get. On average most want 2 to 3 clients worth of pay offered for the change to consder an overnight.

Nobody's going to be a jackrabbit, trying to go at it all night. These are a bunch of old(er) men we're talking about here. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

That true. Older men are preferred in a sense because more than likely most times it will be much less work for her. Shoot she might be able to book two more appointments the next morning after lol.

I'm proudly on the jackrabbit side. You gotta be honest and search for the providers that cater to that though. Trust and believe their are few and far between all the ads.

I have been seeing more ladies in the last two years include the word" overnight" in their ads. Most time. Could do a simle search on eccie.....and find a review that would pop up. Now its harder to find reviews of overnights........but so easy to find an ad with a lady offering them.

We need more to write overnight reviews. Someone is booking these things or ladies wouldn't have it so apparent. Even ladies on BP post that frequently. Its crazy.