benefits of being a decent human being

I really hate it when I see a provider recount how they had an unpleasant appointment. SweetKellyK comes to mind when recently she had to delay an appointment because she had to recover from a "bad session". She is a very passionate lady who should be treated right. I also pride myself on being a Nice Guy and I think it can go a long ways in making The Hobby Experience a positive thing.

"I mean you yourself are admitting that you overpay intentionally. What business do you know that doesn't like customers that overspend? Did you really think it was a winning personality? Your good boy points aren't going to get you laid. Money will but that might not be something to brag about"

I've always stated, "I know it's about the $$ when it comes to my time with the Ladies." I have never overpaid in my mind, only to guys like you, and you're welcome to your opinion.

"I make no special effort to be polite in co-ed. Why would I be engage in that kind of cringing "respect" for girls who I'll never want to see"

See title of post - decent human being? I know it means nothing to you, no worries man.

"The girls I would be willing to see don't post in co-ed. I'm also honest in reviews and in comments on reviews"

I appreciate your honesty in reviews, always, Totally. I am every bit as honest when I give a thought or share an experience in coed. According to you I'm just bragging or beatin my chest. What's the difference brother?


Because respect isn't something you automatically get. That's courtesy but you can lose that"

Respect on a hooker/john board? I don't expect it, but it is possible. NEVER from folks like you and whispers. Again, you do you and I'll do me.

..... Again, you do you and I'll do me. [/COLOR] Originally Posted by sydmo

Yet you are constantly telling others how to do it?

YOU post in CoEd without any current reviews or information of use to others and think it is OK but slam others based on it? To claim THEY have nothing of use to add?

What a fucking hypocritical wuss attitude to display

Yes we do! And this is why I say a prayer before I go to sleep every single night - Lordy, lordy thank you for letting me be over 40 Originally Posted by Austin Ellen

Amen!

How much did my comment affect you that you were so triggered you had to come back a few hours later and do one of those red text point for points?

All you did here is side step my points (like when you ignore how "cringing 'respect'" implies sycophancy rather than true respect) and hit back with some very lame insults. You make a lot of passive aggressive comments like your repetition of "you do you." Aggression is aggression and I'll respond in kind. The only difference is I won't use passive aggression like you and then delude myself that I'm being polite.

And honestly the fact that you consider pay for play to be a privilege rather than a transaction makes you seem so incredibly sad. The fact that you then turn around and try and imply I'm less than you for *not* staking all of my love life on my paycheck and crawling on my belly as a result is even worse for you.

I think people like you are confused as to what respect and courtesy are. With ladies I'll give courtesy to anyone until they earn the opposite. Same for men on here with a bit more skepticism. You paying more and feeling honored to do it isn't respect. Not for you and not for the girl. I'd be willing to bet dollars that in their heart of hearts they don't respect you at all except as an ATM.

You ARE trying to beat your chest. You can deny it but it makes you look worse. What else do you call the passive aggressive comments towards other dudes and crowing about how you unsolicited offers? You just don't have much of a chest to beat.

"I mean you yourself are admitting that you overpay intentionally. What business do you know that doesn't like customers that overspend? Did you really think it was a winning personality? Your good boy points aren't going to get you laid. Money will but that might not be something to brag about"

I've always stated, "I know it's about the $$ when it comes to my time with the Ladies." I have never overpaid in my mind, only to guys like you, and you're welcome to your opinion.

"I make no special effort to be polite in co-ed. Why would I be engage in that kind of cringing "respect" for girls who I'll never want to see"

See title of post - decent human being? I know it means nothing to you, no worries man.

"The girls I would be willing to see don't post in co-ed. I'm also honest in reviews and in comments on reviews"

I appreciate your honesty in reviews, always, Totally. I am every bit as honest when I give a thought or share an experience in coed. According to you I'm just bragging or beatin my chest. What's the difference brother?


Because respect isn't something you automatically get. That's courtesy but you can lose that"

Respect on a hooker/john board? I don't expect it, but it is possible. NEVER from folks like you and whispers. Again, you do you and I'll do me. Originally Posted by sydmo

This thread is like a bush bragging to a forest how many dogs he "pulls."

Here's to you, OP:

This is pretty stupid.
I could write up a thread in ISO titled, "Which Slut will take $$$ for anal?" and a line would form.
It doesn't matter how nice of a guy you are, what matters is if you are a decent human being which needs no rewards for being decent.

This is pretty stupid.
I could write up a thread in ISO titled, "Which Slut will take $$$ for anal?" and a line would form.
It doesn't matter how nice of a guy you are, what matters is if you are a decent human being which needs no rewards for being decent. Originally Posted by Raikage

encourage a little civility to the Ladies in coed they said, it'll be fun they said. Well, that'll teach me by god lol. Happy hobbyin yall

Lame? I concur...

it's cool to have bragging points on a whore board that involves whores I guess..... especially in the absence of a life off the boards.

When i was younger I wrote a lot of reviews and had lot's of whores wanting to be reviewed by whispers... I had a following that would see any of the girls I reviewed... I got first crack at one agency's new girls regularly..... It was all good for the ego....



Real life changes us as we get older.....

You go Sydmo..... You are Austin's #1 Grandma Whore Fucker!


Originally Posted by Whispers

I just don't get you, man. You really seem to enjoy shaming and insulting people, both the providers and the hobbyists. I don't want to get into it with you, but damn, dude. Just lay off. Let people be people. Calling the providers old whores and such. It's not productive, it's not feedback, it's just hateful. It reminds me of my older brother nailing horned toads to fences when we were kinds.

encourage a little civility to the Ladies in coed they said, it'll be fun they said. Well, that'll teach me by god lol. Happy hobbyin yall Originally Posted by sydmo

Keep on keepin on, bud. I respect what you tried to do here. Please note that everyone who commented on this thread were polite and respectful, except for two unhappy, insecure, bitter, hateful guys. They're in their own world. Let's be thankful we don't live in it.

Keep on keepin on, bud. I respect what you tried to do here. Please note that everyone who commented on this thread were polite and respectful, except for two unhappy, insecure, bitter, hateful guys. They're in their own world. Let's be thankful we don't live in it. Originally Posted by Txcruiser

No worries brother, and thanks very much. I appreciate the positive responses, for sure. LMCS (loud mouth cocksuckers) they feel the need to disparage, it's just their nature, has NO effect on my contentment. They're amateurs, I've dealt with more accomplished LMCS. I am thankful/grateful for sure that I don't see the hobby world as they do.

This board takes all kinds, as evidenced by the varied responses this thread has generated.

I too do my best to treat the women I see with kindness and respect. With a few ATF’s, that has turned into a mutual understanding between us, and it’s allowed us to go way beyond the typical hobby dynamic. I truly love that with my ATF’s, but realize not everyone is looking for that...to each their own.

With every provider I see however (whether it’s the first time or the 100th), it’s imperative that I keep in mind the following:

Always understand it’s their business.

Show up on time, as scheduled.

Don’t try to haggle (if the price range doesn’t make sense, don’t see her). The market will work itself out...it always does.

Make sure the donation is correct and on my person when I walk in the door (I’ve left it in the car a couple of times and always feel like an ass having to go back out and get it).

Make sure we’re both safe and comfortable with one another. Once we’re both relaxed, the session can truly unfold to it’s fullest (every session is different and some better than others, but I want to make sure I give the session every opportunity to be the best it can be, at least from what I can control on my end).

So, not only is being kind and respectful the right thing to do, it’s also very pragmatic to enjoy the best of what the hobby can offer.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I can see how the OP has opened himself to the firing line by starting this post, but I for one believe he is on the right track.

Hobby safely and smartly all.

This board takes all kinds, as evidenced by the varied responses this thread has generated.

I too do my best to treat the women I see with kindness and respect. With a few ATF’s, that has turned into a mutual understanding between us, and it’s allowed us to go way beyond the typical hobby dynamic. I truly love that with my ATF’s, but realize not everyone is looking for that...to each their own.

With every provider I see however (whether it’s the first time or the 100th), it’s imperative that I keep in mind the following:

Always understand it’s their business.

Show up on time, as scheduled.

Don’t try to haggle (if the price range doesn’t make sense, don’t see her). The market will work itself out...it always does.

Make sure the donation is correct and on my person when I walk in the door (I’ve left it in the car a couple of times and always feel like an ass having to go back out and get it).

Make sure we’re both safe and comfortable with one another. Once we’re both relaxed, the session can truly unfold to it’s fullest (every session is different and some better than others, but I want to make sure I give the session every opportunity to be the best it can be, at least from what I can control on my end).

So, not only is being kind and respectful the right thing to do, it’s also very pragmatic to enjoy the best of what the hobby can offer.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I can see how the OP has opened himself to the firing line by starting this post, but I for one believe he is on the right track.

Hobby safely and smartly all. Originally Posted by Parsifal

perfect, thank you sir.

I'm trying to be more decent as well. I, every once in a while, get a pm from a well respected provider out of the blue. She is always so sweet and nice that it puts me in a good mood.