Do Most Escorts Enjoy Sex with their Clients?

The OP asked whether escorts enjoy sex. I think that misses the point. The point is, do they enjoy the work, of which sex is an important, but not exclusive part. I'm not the most well endowed guy, and I'm sure I'm not the best sexual athlete an escort is ever going to meet. But I am genuinely interested in the people I meet, and I believe that goes a long way towards making an encounter enjoyable for her.


There were many cynical answers about the money. I can only say that I have a great job that brings me a great deal of personal satisfaction, and a very comfortable living. It wouldn't be such a great job without the comfortable living. And it wouldn't be a great job if it were just a comfortable living. I think escorting must be the same. Some people enjoy the work and others are just doing a job. If you get to know somebody for more than 15 minutes, I think their attitude to the work will become apparent.

I don't understand the DRAMA.

If you enjoy sex and money, do the SEX WORK is the goal. I don't know why you need to take the virginal attitude trying to convince the rest of the world that you're a fragil flower who only take the money because a terrible situation at home but in fact your dream is to be a housewive who wait the husband with a yummy meal every night.

You guys judge too much, maybe because you feel guilty about having sex and enjoying it. I don't understand why you can't enjoy sex while you are making money. There're people with whom you have more chemistry than with other ones, but if you aren't obligated in a slavery situation of I don't see why you can't have orgasms when your sexual partner is playing nice.

I understand that some guys attack your clitoris as if it were the enemy, but you can teach those men to do better and will be good for the next women who will come to their lives.

Providers enjoy sex with me all the time, so much so that they reject my donation. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

There ain’t that much enjoying sex in the whole wide world for me to turn down my donation the whole reason why I am doing this

I don't understand the DRAMA.
Originally Posted by KalyEscort

Kaly,
I wouldn't call it drama rather two schools of guys, the realists vs the dreamers and neither will bend in their positions. Some guys learn early in this game others get ' tricked' the entire time and it is clear from the split in replies.

Nothing wrong with the OP posing the question here but I think more guys would post with honesty and reality in a men's area and not either 1) not participate or 2) play both sides of the fence and in some cases 3) simply kissing the girl's asses..

but too each their own.

Yes, you are correct some clients are more pleasurable than others or we wouldn't have the term YMMV ( worldwide too) but whether the girls feels pleasure or not she is being pleasured with compensation. No girl does this work just for pleasure but all girls do this work for the pleasure of being paid and along the way some enjoy it more than others but in all cases take the money out and..

Where's the girl?

Which is my entire point and sadly some guys are way too blind and stupid to see such nor will any women come on here and bite the hand that feeds them.

But they sure will run away from the guys who don't want to pay them

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Do you really want to know.....I guess are you here to show the ladies you can make them cum or are you here to get an experience, something your lacking, different taste n flavor..... I’m sure all providers on here enjoy sex otherwise they wouldn’t be doing this. Like all ladies don’t turn you on.....likewise all do not have orgasms but they are playing the part to fulfill your wicked thoughts needs desires......

Take the money out of it, they won’t seee you. Leave it at face value, have a good time, make the best out of the moment and lastly don’t ask if your the best or was it good.

Take the money out of it, they won’t seee you. Leave it at face value, have a good time, make the best out of the moment and lastly don’t ask if your the best or was it good. Originally Posted by SneakyCancer

Well said, and I do not care if I am the best or was it good as you say as one IMO will get a catered answer and it won't be ' no u stunk' or ' I had a bad time' and if those facts are true IMO the guy ( unless idiot) will sense such.
Face value is right

1) Pick girl
2) Play with girl
3) Pay girl
4) Prepare for the next girl

In the USA usually 2 and 3 are in reverse order.

What the girls ultimately care about in addition to the money is that they are respected, safe and treated with dignity because if they aren't even with our money they won't see us and in the case of clubs they'll blackball you as is the case with Indies who often share info. Back when I was on staff I used to hear the ladies complaints they often wrote in and the complaint was never 'I couldn't cum' or ' I wasn't sexually stimulated by John XYZ' it was 99% of the time related to safety or disrespect.

Be respectful, have a good time, pay for your time as agreed, say thank you, tip if you want and she will have a good time as she was respected. Safe... And paid...

and as for us, pleasured. Job well done on both sides if it holds true.

I don't understand the DRAMA.

If you enjoy sex and money, do the SEX WORK is the goal. I don't know why you need to take the virginal attitude trying to convince the rest of the world that you're a fragil flower who only take the money because a terrible situation at home but in fact your dream is to be a housewive who wait the husband with a yummy meal every night.

You guys judge too much, maybe because you feel guilty about having sex and enjoying it. I don't understand why you can't enjoy sex while you are making money. There're people with whom you have more chemistry than with other ones, but if you aren't obligated in a slavery situation of I don't see why you can't have orgasms when your sexual partner is playing nice.

I understand that some guys attack your clitoris as if it were the enemy, but you can teach those men to do better and will be good for the next women who will come to their lives. Originally Posted by KalyEscort

I could write a novel explaining the sexual neuroses American men have, which is only compounded by the legal status and stigmas.

Most likely fiction.