Lasting Longer

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Charles is right, while the responses have been funny, it is a good question to ask and one that many folks may have some wisdom to share.

You might want to consider taking a course or workshop in Tantra, or if that is too over the edge, at least try Yoga.

Usually for men, losing control over their orgasm can be easily corrected with some training in bio-feedback techniques and breathing exercises. While getting a blow job, or having sex next time, try taking very deep, slow breaths. When you inhale focus on your control, when you exhale, let out your pleasure as you blow out and whisper the letter "A."

You should also practice Kegel squeezes during the day, perhaps when sitting at your desk or driving. It is sort of like doing crunches for you cock. I don't want to bore or gross anyone out here, but what you are doing is practicing your ability to shut off your orgasm, if it feels like it is racing away from you. There are a number of providers out there that know how to use the squeeze technique. Seek them out and have them show you and practice your Kegels while she applies her thumb and forefinger to the right pressure points.

After a few sessions, you will be amazed at the control you will muster.

Have fun!
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You could always go to your urologist and tell him to give you a prescription for TRI-MIX( google it), its 3 drugs mixed together and you inject it with a diabetic needle into the base of your Johnson.. First time you do this will usually result in a priapism (erection lasting more than 4 hours) even if you cum it will still stay hard.. After 4 hours you need to go to the emergency room to have blood drown from your Johnson to allow it to go down. IF you do not go to the ER., this could result in permanant damage and become permanantly impotent.. Originally Posted by GRIPITRIPIT
This is exactly why I sought out a solution that did not involve big pharma. All their "cures" come with a plethora of new problems. If I can find an herbal substitute that works, I'll take it.
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You could always go to your urologist and tell him to give you a prescription for TRI-MIX( google it), its 3 drugs mixed together and you inject it with a diabetic needle into the base of your Johnson.. First time you do this will usually result in a priapism (erection lasting more than 4 hours) even if you cum it will still stay hard.. After 4 hours you need to go to the emergency room to have blood drown from your Johnson to allow it to go down. IF you do not go to the ER., this could result in permanant damage and become permanantly impotent.. If your ever find the right dosage , this shit is incredible.. it is dangerous and you must follows your doctors advice.. Bottomline your fuck buddy will not believe what just happpened to her. Most women think that after you ring the bell its time for chit chat. She will be very surprise when you keep pumping, and don't stop for the full 59 minutes and have to tuck your hard on in your pants with the shirt tail hanging over your groin to hide the beast that will not die.. Originally Posted by GRIPITRIPIT
Ummm, no thanks, the closest thing getting to my little buddy is a razor or clippers to trim up..
As long as you guys are up for doing it three or four times then why use pharmaceuticals to last longer? heehee
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As long as you guys are up for doing it three or four times then why use pharmaceuticals to last longer? heehee Originally Posted by Blond_Lily
Some of us need pharmaceuticals to be up for doing it once, alas.



Cheers,

bcg
I don't have this problem much, I am quite the opposite, except in some extreme cases of passion with a woman that just does it for me. I think it is a mind thing. You get worked up and pop. I would suggest you tell the girl your with to stop and squeeze her self tight when you tell her to "stop". Tell her to stop when you feel the urge to cum. Relax and then start up again. I have found that this 80% of the time for me makes the orgasm in the end 50 times as strong and longer. It doesn't work all the time because if you time it wrong, like stop too late, you can mess up a good orgasm all the way around. Originally Posted by arkansasknight
Charles is right, while the responses have been funny, it is a good question to ask and one that many folks may have some wisdom to share.

You might want to consider taking a course or workshop in Tantra, or if that is too over the edge, at least try Yoga.

Usually for men, losing control over their orgasm can be easily corrected with some training in bio-feedback techniques and breathing exercises. While getting a blow job, or having sex next time, try taking very deep, slow breaths. When you inhale focus on your control, when you exhale, let out your pleasure as you blow out and whisper the letter "A."

You should also practice Kegel squeezes during the day, perhaps when sitting at your desk or driving. It is sort of like doing crunches for you cock. I don't want to bore or gross anyone out here, but what you are doing is practicing your ability to shut off your orgasm, if it feels like it is racing away from you. There are a number of providers out there that know how to use the squeeze technique. Seek them out and have them show you and practice your Kegels while she applies her thumb and forefinger to the right pressure points.

After a few sessions, you will be amazed at the control you will muster.

Have fun! Originally Posted by ANONONE
Yep.
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Yep. Originally Posted by babee

When are you coming North, so we practice, Babee?

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  • BIG C
  • 03-02-2010, 01:03 PM
You could always go to your urologist and tell him to give you a prescription for TRI-MIX( google it), its 3 drugs mixed together and you inject it with a diabetic needle into the base of your Johnson.. Originally Posted by GRIPITRIPIT
Man, there's no way in hell that I'd be sticking a needle in my johnson.....I shirked just reading your post about someone having to do that.....Methinks I'd just have that viagra talk with my doctor and pray that it works for me.....YIKES ! ! ! ! !
Man, there's no way in hell that I'd be sticking a needle in my johnson.....I shirked just reading your post about someone having to do that.....Methinks I'd just have that viagra talk with my doctor and pray that it works for me.....YIKES ! ! ! ! ! Originally Posted by BIG C
I don't know...if you couldn't get it up at all, even w/Viagra...there isn't anything I wouldn't try to get there.
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  • BIG C
  • 03-02-2010, 05:55 PM
I don't know...if you couldn't get it up at all, even w/Viagra...there isn't anything I wouldn't try to get there. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
I dunno man.....That would be a really tough call.....I'd probably faint before I could get the needle there.....Hopefully that's not a decision that I'll ever have to make.....
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I dunno man.....That would be a really tough call.....I'd probably faint before I could get the needle there.....Hopefully that's not a decision that I'll ever have to make..... Originally Posted by BIG C

I think I would have to turn into a DATY only hobbyists with a multitude of toys to utilize on the lady.
I dunno man.....That would be a really tough call.....I'd probably faint before I could get the needle there.....Hopefully that's not a decision that I'll ever have to make..... Originally Posted by BIG C
Ahhhh, that means finding the right provider...one who could do both deeds (shoot your Johnson, and sex). Maybe Vnurse...
Why thank you for thinking of me, Mr. Tudor! You ARE absolutely correct...I CAN do it all. Hmm...I have seen gentlemen that didn't NEED the injections when I got through with them! LOL!

I was told recently by a gentleman that he was going to name his manhood Lazurus because he had come back from the dead!

Ya never know until you try!
When are you coming North, so we practice, Babee?

Originally Posted by ANONONE
Get all your edumacations and practice quizzes taken care of at home.
Come to Memphis for your graduate studies and final exams. If you have written test phobia, that's ok. I give oral tests.