WTF? Communication people!

MS Elena
I agree with you on newbies to see you....but honey...why would you just write them off if after 2 convo's...I think a better way to handle it would be straight forward and say " hey are we gonna do business or not?"
If they cant answer that or dont know ,,,then move on and tell them that!
But you dont have to just decide "oh this person is a waste" unless youve called them out and seen there response.
I agree there alot of time wasters...But what about people youve seen before and like...if after 2 convo's do you write them off?
Ya know i love ya! Originally Posted by bigdeal

I said I can usually tell, I didn't say I always write them off. I've been wrong a few times and in those times, the gents usually calls me to talk and then we either part ways or set an appointment. Its usually the latter.

I have a nice way of getting to the point and hopefully not wasting time for either myself or potential clients.

You love me? Awww, I guess that means I have to be EXTRA careful when shaving you.

I live out of town therefore I rely on email alot more to make a date than just a local call. If a girl that I am interested in does not have the time to help in planning our encounter then she does not have the time to spend any funds I leave ungaurded. I do not get myself into any of those "If you have to ask you can not afford it" deals so if asking her rates sends up red flags so be it. I sure do not take it personal when a girl does not answer my email KC has too many attractive ladies that will answer. I do send out a banter email when a lady says something that catches my eye in a thread or post sometimes then she has an option to respond.

Well I am happy to say...that because I brought this up the 2 providers I was speaking to have made contact with me and we have cleared the air and all is good with those 2...one the jury is still out and thats fine
We talked it out and made things right!

And MS Elena...lets the games begin babe!

What a fantastic idea!!!! Too bad trying to pin most providers down is like trying to nail jello to a wall, but great idea nonetheless.

Since I'm a domain "collector", I've purchased www.priceanescort.com. If you (Lovin50) ever decide you actually would like the domain, it's yours just ask. Assuming I haven't figured out a way to nail jello the wall and am making a fortune from your idea!!

Always,
Gina Originally Posted by GinaXXX

Gina! You crack me up! I thought I was the only one here paying attention LOL. You can add it in the prenup.. All I want for x-mas is some Gift points for my friends

Can you also put in a word for me with Bob at GD? I would take a date with my favorite Go Daddy Girl Danica Patrick! I love her!

Still missing his point. I contacted a provider and it took about 4 or 5 days to get an appointment set. I showed up at the time and called and got the "oh, I thought......". All I could say was "FORGET IT" and a little later, I called the "38 Special" and BANG a couple of hours in was dick deep in a wonderful lady....

If you are an adult services provider, provide services. Will I contact the lady and try again and again and again?

Will I mention her name and out her? Would it make a difference? Originally Posted by newtotown

I grandfather my friends that is one reason why it may seem to take a while to get an appointment and to be totally honest Kanas City is "cock" heaven. A sausage fest. lol... When I set that appointment I always follow through. I have heard a few times different areas say for instance Dallas that someone said that we set an appointment and I flaked. Which was totally false. He was a well known person in Dallas and totally screwed me on my trip. He had set an appointment for 11pm and turned around and tried to say that it was for 11am which I still have the PM to prove that it was a misunderstanding in the am/pm department. What I'm trying to get at is do not out the poor girl it could be a total misunderstanding and if you mention her name as a flake it would not be nice and it could and probably will affect her revenue.
Cheer up big deal it could be worse. What would you do if eccie or p411 never came about. Street walkers maybe. hmmm no kitty? Now that would suck ugly monkey balls.......
Just a thought.

Happy hunting

oxoxoTabie

the only time i have trouble setting a date is when the gal thinks i'm le. other than that, it's one phone call, maybe a text if she doesn't answer, then on to the next.

Unreturned communications are the one area of TCB I still do not understand. With autoresponders and smartphones, I can't imagine why any message should be ignored. Yet they are--in droves. It's just so easy not to mess this one up.

One of the big problems is the majority of the gentlemen who participate in this hobby are reasonably successful people who are accustomed to dealing with motivated, competent people in the real world. Without being disrespectful, the majority of the ladies who are involved in this fantasy world are not accomplished business people. So there is a clash of cultures that leaves us frustrated and them having no clue they're doing anything wrong.

My advice, deal with it. It's not going to change any time soon.

One of the big problems is the majority of the gentlemen who participate in this hobby are reasonably successful people who are accustomed to dealing with motivated, competent people in the real world. Without being disrespectful, the majority of the ladies who are involved in this fantasy world are not accomplished business people. So there is a clash of cultures that leaves us frustrated and them having no clue they're doing anything wrong. Originally Posted by lakecat

Oh please, their accustomed to trying to get $300.00 piece of ass for $75.00. The majority of gentlemen used to dealing with competent real world people, what???? Please, you act as if the majority of gentlemen are CEO's of fortune 500 companies. There are more blue collar "worker Bee's", UPS drivers, contruction workers in the hobby than captains of industry. There is a large number of needy, lonely, horny men who think that these women have nothing better to do than spend all day chatting with them "because they got the money". You cant compare this type of business with any other.

... There are more blue collar "worker Bee's", UPS drivers, contruction workers in the hobby than captains of industry... Originally Posted by dirty dog

How could you possibly know this?

How could you possibly know this? Originally Posted by JDNorthface

Simple mathmatics, based on the number of workers in each industry and also because I have been in and around this business for 25 years. Do you seriously think this business is supported by the upper crust of business owners. Please if it was the rate would be a lot higher than $200 - $300 and you sure would not see a lot of those $100 bones specials. You guys crack me up, your like the dude in the resturant that see's Cherry pie on the menu and your pissed because they are out and you cant have any. You know the problem could be as simple as this. You send her an e-mail, she responds, you send another trying to talk because your lonely. In the mean time she has 3 other guys doing the same thing, she also has a customer show for an appointment which she takes care of failing to respond in a proper time frame (according to you), so you e-mail her with a smart ass comment or hostile response becaused you feel ignored. In the mean time she is done with her appointment, sees your hostile and attacking e-mail and decides not to waste anymore time on you. So now your really pissed because she wont respond to you, so you come to ECCIE and cry to your brethran seeking sollace. I got in to the hobby 25 years ago stayed in it off and on up until a few years ago. You know what I never ever had a problem, why, because if she did not answer me or respond to a message I moved on, because I was not looking for love, a date, company, companionship, my next baby momma nope I was looking for sexual fun. If you guys are looking for love, try one of the dating sites.

One of the big problems is the majority of the gentlemen who participate in this hobby are reasonably successful people who are accustomed to dealing with motivated, competent people in the real world. Without being disrespectful, the majority of the ladies who are involved in this fantasy world are not accomplished business people. So there is a clash of cultures that leaves us frustrated and them having no clue they're doing anything wrong.

My advice, deal with it. It's not going to change any time soon. Originally Posted by lakecat

Seriously? Let's break this down a bit for the majority of ladies who aren't accomplished business people:

1. There are a lot of guys who don't communicate also and to top it off, they have selective reading/hearing habits.

2. Yes, there are a lot of ladies who just see this as a way to make money and don't take care of business like they should. But, saying the majority of ladies is quite the stretch there.

3. If there's a lack of communication between the providers and hobbyists when it comes to phone calls, PM's or emails, then speak up about it. Say something instead of allowing the shit to continue. You guys are just as guilty as the provider herself because YOU men continue to allow it to happen.

4. DD was right, you make it sound like the majority of guys are CEO's, owners/presidents, etc. and again....quite the stretch. As DD said, there's more worker bees than CEO's in the hobby and I do know this from first hand experience.

You said no offense, but you sure did hand out some backhanded insults there to the ladies. But, maybe some of us won't pick up on it because we're not competent and accomplished.

Oh please, their accustomed to trying to get $300.00 piece of ass for $75.00. The majority of gentlemen used to dealing with competent real world people, what???? Please, you act as if the majority of gentlemen are CEO's of fortune 500 companies. There are more blue collar "worker Bee's", UPS drivers, contruction workers in the hobby than captains of industry. There is a large number of needy, lonely, horny men who think that these women have nothing better to do than spend all day chatting with them "because they got the money". You cant compare this type of business with any other. Originally Posted by dirty dog

We have a winner!!!

How could you possibly know this? Originally Posted by JDNorthface

DD has been in the adult business for years and dealing with providers in some type of manner for who knows how long. But, he is correct and as I stated above, I know this from first hand experience.

How could you possibly know this? Originally Posted by JDNorthface

He said it, therefore it's true IMO.. You should really try to get out on the street more often, amazing what you can pick up.

Oh please, their accustomed to trying to get $300.00 piece of ass for $75.00. The majority of gentlemen used to dealing with competent real world people, what???? Please, you act as if the majority of gentlemen are CEO's of fortune 500 companies. There are more blue collar "worker Bee's", UPS drivers, contruction workers in the hobby than captains of industry. There is a large number of needy, lonely, horny men who think that these women have nothing better to do than spend all day chatting with them "because they got the money". You cant compare this type of business with any other. Originally Posted by dirty dog

Nailed it dead nuts DD..
Elena your comments as well.

A lot of stuff has to go on behind the curtain in order for a good experience to occur. There is also the matter of screening etc..a lot of things that can be cumbersome and take up time. I've always been one to be patient to a degree and like DD said if I don't hear back, I move on.

I know I've posted this before..tough sh-t..I'm doing it again:
"Women are crazy and men are stupid and why are women so crazy..because men are so fucking stupid."
George Carlin

Simple mathmatics, based on the number of workers in each industry and also because I have been in and around this business for 25 years. Do you seriously think this business is supported by the upper crust of business owners. ... Originally Posted by dirty dog

No, if you'll look at my simple comment, I didn't suppose to know anything. I simply asked you how you knew what YOU stated.