Why are guys allowed to blackmail women here?

Admiral Giggle's Avatar
Before a provider posts an Encounter Rebuttal or thread about a Bad member, she should sit and write it out thoroughly, re-read what she has, edit, re-read, and edit again.

Many times a provider who's being threatened with a bad review, blackmailed, bullied, or threatened with outing will post angry with emotion. This causees many in this community to assume/accuse the provider of wrong doing and take the defense of the accused.

Many ladies will see his handle and confirm if he's done this to them in open forum for all to see as well.

Post the handle of the offending member. Most members, male/female won't take it serious if you don't. Besides, he may have done this to others and sharing information is important here. We are trying to weed out trolls, bullies, predators, etc.

Don't post screen shots of texts, pm, or emails but explain in detail what he's doing. Bribery, threats to out, threats to write bad review, blackmail, douchebaggery, etc.

Post in the private ladies forums but make sure you follow the masking guidelines for real names, phone numbers, and emails. Many providers have sat on a 30 day vacation for improper masking and others for 6 months to 1 year for outing his real name associated with his handle.
Wile E Coyote's Avatar
I will be on the lookout for this negative review that this guy said he would post, but he has not done it as of this post. Barbie, name the handle on here and in the ladies area and his hobbying days are probably going to be numbered. I did see this guys emails on Barbie's snapchat so she is telling the truth.
Grace Preston's Avatar
Due to the enforcement of the guidelines equally to all members, a few of those that did the trolling and cyberbullying have stopped, but most of them have either gone absentee, on the verge of being banned on points or are banned on points.

But, the ones that do it through email or other means outside of the scope of this site, still do it and will continue. Since you cannot post private communication, then there is no way of proving who the culprit(s) may be, and unless they are not very smart, most do it through a means by which it cannot traced back to them. However, if a guy is blackmailing a provider for free or discounted services, then eventually, he will be found out. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
This. The ones that really wish to harass you will be smart enough to do so off site. I have emails from a few people that follow ever so predictable patterns and speech syntax. But, without that proof of the screen name, its honestly a moot point.
TinMan's Avatar
Is it someone that’s well known here, or some obscure handle overstating his ability to influence others?
it appears as though "Barbie Roberts" is actually a boutique comprised of a group of various girls operating under one handle..

so.. maybe the actual girl in question has "suddenly" left the biz..?
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 08-27-2018, 06:44 PM
it appears as though "Barbie Roberts" is actually a boutique comprised of a group of various girls operating under one handle..

so.. maybe the actual girl in question has "suddenly" left the biz..? Originally Posted by honest_abe
Sounds like pimp wars to me
Oh hell, I can't believe a lady would leave all this lol. Except maybe my dancing buddy a few years ago that signed up and quit about a month later saying to me....all they want is a bbbj and don't wanna pay shit. I was shocked to hear that cause she still calls me a cheap azz in a loving way of course. I don't need to know what not wanting to pay shit and trying to take advantage of a lady means. She told me all kinds of wtf really stuff about some of the studs that post a lot of reviews and want something for nothing and were willing to help her get established on here. That was a few years ago though lol. I'm sure it's not that way now
O.P. Not following through with your post doesn't help the situation. Make an example of the man. Let's hear it.
I'm thinking (lol) again that that was barbies bye bye post and fk off dudes I don't need this shit. Just IMO though since no more post from her. We studs are just not worth her time
Guys are not the only ones to do this.
How many he was smelly, he tried to bb me preemptive threads by ladies have been posted?
Not to mention, verifyhim, national blacklist, powder room hatchet jobs.
Alerts section was one of my favorites to lurk, it was Jerry Springer on steroids.
Brandofan's Avatar
^^^ what he said +1000
Wile E Coyote's Avatar
I'm thinking (lol) again that that was barbies bye bye post and fk off dudes I don't need this shit. Just IMO though since no more post from her. We studs are just not worth her time Originally Posted by Tsmokies
Barbie told me via PM who the culprit is and I looked up his handle. He has shitted on a couple of providers doing the same thing per his past posts. IF he is dumb enough to post this bad review, he will out himself, so I do not think he will. Barbie has no intenetion of quitting the business.
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 08-28-2018, 08:28 AM
Barbie told me via PM who the culprit is and I looked up his handle. He has shitted on a couple of providers doing the same thing per his past posts. IF he is dumb enough to post this bad review, he will out himself, so I do not think he will. Barbie has no intenetion of quitting the business. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
Since you brought this up, who is the guy?
Wile E Coyote's Avatar
Since you brought this up, who is the guy? Originally Posted by BLM69

Not for me to say without permission from the OP, who is the one that brought it up, not me.
This thread might have gotten her busy y’all...and she might not have the time to reply right now lol