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EW, I'm sorry you're bummed about the oral/intercourse thing. Sounds like you need a high quality provider for the former, while still getting some excellence, in the latter. Outta curiosity, are you finding things trending more towards oral nowadays? And if so, why do you think that is?
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Originally Posted by LoveNHorny
Well, I'm not feeling so onery about the lack of oral sex skills after last night. Grin.
However, to answer your question ... and I've written a topic about this in Dallas coed a long while back (Is oral sex becoming obsolete?) ... I think that intercourse is taking a back seat to oral sex.
After reading the responses of my topic, men often just want oral sex because it's something that they cannot get at home.
Many, if not most, of my girlfriends would rather a guy give them oral sex than intercourse, which I have always found that to be on this side of bizarre.
And there is satisfaction with being with a partner and NOT having intercourse ... or even sex for that matter. It happens with me all of the time. I get in a head space of sensuality and it's very rewarding. But it's difficult to explain.
There is something so just real and complete about feeling a man inside of you. It's so all encompassing. I adore it and it's my second favorite activity ... or it runs a first with kissing.
I'm not sure why I haven't jumped on the porn/oral is where it's at bandwagon. But I haven't.
It could also be because I do a LOT of alternative play and often, that really doesn't have that element of penetration as part of the play.
So perhaps I'm complaining about a bunch of nothing. What I have gleaned from others is that because of porn and the whole condom thing that is required with penetration, many guys would just prefer to lay back and get a blow job. Guess that I cannot blame them!
Hope my explanation hasn't muddied the waters too much!!!
Elisabeth