I never chime in on anything but... It seems to me that some married men are starved for the intimate attention that for whatever reason they aren't getting at home. As for the single men they seem to enjoy the variety without the hassles and intimidation that dating can often bring.
Originally Posted by LaurelLoves
For me, i started getting into it, cause i disliked the 'dating scene' of bar hopping (after hearing many nasty stories) and didn't wish to date anyone close to where i worked, (THANKS tailhook!). So since online dating had not been invented in 92, i got into doing this first by having some gals at one of the local lap dance parlors in Portsmouth give me some 1 hr private sessions..
These days i do it, cause from speaking to many friends and acquaintances who are married, what 'i pay out' every month or every other month to relieve myself, is nearly always a lot cheaper than what THEY wind up paying for it..
I've been putting up with a sexless marriage for years - as in zip, nada, none for about six years, and very little over the six years before that
Originally Posted by Astros1965
The Amount of times i have heard guys say this, that they've been in sexless/loveless marriages for YEARS on end make me wonder WHY DO so many stay married then?
Is it just the fear of how much she's gonna gouge you for in the divorce?