This CAN'T be a thing!!

Ive been browsing those ads too out of boredom, and no realistic chance for me (not young, of desired ethnicity, no > 8.5 in schlong, etc).....and now add the information in this thread, looks like not meant to be, for me Originally Posted by snaggletooth77

For the most part now it's filled with fakes, pic collectors and spam. I honestly believe that there are some just doing it for the thrill of the interaction with no real plans of BCD activities. Sad really.

For the most part now it's filled with fakes, pic collectors and spam. I honestly believe that there are some just doing it for the thrill of the interaction with no real plans of BCD activities. Sad really. Originally Posted by cain512

yeah, no doubt there's a lot of those, but like anywhere, here included, there are some jewels among the rocks. You just have to sort em' out. Many are pic collectors, and that's easy to sort out, and some are truly looking to meet up and for the same reasons a lot come here, many go there as well. and are real.

And that hope is why I keep fishing..lol. It's rough out there though.

it's obvious that some members here have very very narrow life experiences and/or attitudes.. They should get a date and pay a visit to a couple of the local clubs for an education... Players, and Friends Club come to mind as good places to start. While the OP's original post "could" indicate some nefarious intent by the guy making the offer, (real swingers don't operate that way), it's not nearly as unusual or out of line as some think. Originally Posted by nuglet

Now just cause some guys aren't into other men doesn't make them narrow minded or live narrow lives. It just means they're not homos that's all. And the original post says nothing at all about "swapping", that's a different story . The OP was about one guy wanting to see his wife get plowed by some other dude, as a straight male I do not see the turn on there, only conclusion I come up with is homoism and obviously I ain't the only one

It's a set up. My money says he wants to divorce her. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Thanks, posts 31 thru 35....with all that info, im convinced that its time for me to stop wasting time looking at cl then; I'm not that adventurous and not looking for trouble. I will just be a pussy, and engage in activity of the likes of jerking off to porn...

Now just cause some guys aren't into other men doesn't make them narrow minded or live narrow lives. It just means they're not homos that's all. And the original post says nothing at all about "swapping", that's a different story . The OP was about one guy wanting to see his wife get plowed by some other dude, as a straight male I do not see the turn on there, only conclusion I come up with is homoism and obviously I ain't the only one Originally Posted by Little Monster

Dude! Learn the parlance!!! There is a distinct difference between MFM and MMF, and cuckold... geeze.

Dude! Learn the parlance!!! There is a distinct difference between MFM and MMF, and cuckold... geeze. Originally Posted by nuglet

Oh you can switch the letters around however you want to that don't mean shit to me. If a guy likes to have other guys in the mix, he's gay, bi, or curious period end of story

Oh you can switch the letters around however you want to that don't mean shit to me. If a guy likes to have other guys in the mix, he's gay, bi, or curious period end of story Originally Posted by Little Monster

can you pronounce "homophobe"? LOL so... gangbangs are a bunch of gays, bi's or curious guys around a fem? That's gonna be a real shocker to some fellas in this neighborhood..!!

I disagree with LM too. as a woman who was a swinger and met 100's of couples in the lifestyle I can assure you many men get off on seeing their wife getting fucked and they are 100% straight. it is called compersion and it means you get joy and pleasure from your partners pleasure. it is a real deal and the homophobic comments are totally off the mark. Same with cucking, he is not gay or bi but instead gets off to the humiliation aspect of being forced to watched another man please his wife. LM there are a multitude of ways to enjoy sexuality that appear to beyond your understanding and interests but do not for a second think those fellas are bi or gay. you are flat out wrong. straight men can like sex in different ways than you and still be straight. don't be so closed minded and quick to judge that which you do not enjoy or understand.

can you pronounce "homophobe"? LOL so... gangbangs are a bunch of gays, bi's or curious guys around a fem? That's gonna be a real shocker to some fellas in this neighborhood..!! Originally Posted by nuglet

LOL, there it is, good ol society and it's social norms. Can't come back with anything else so let's label or name call. Just because I called a spade a spade does not in anyway shape or form make me homophobe, you've never met me a day in your life so how on earth would you know what I am or am not? And as far as gangbangs are concerned I have stressed before on this board that guys that are into that are gay, a bunch of naked dudes packed into a small room together and still able to get it up??? yeah sounds pretty gay to me. Like I've said before until I hear ONE good reason why it isn't gay I still stand by my assumptions

I disagree with LM too. as a woman who was a swinger and met 100's of couples in the lifestyle I can assure you many men get off on seeing their wife getting fucked and they are 100% straight. it is called compersion and it means you get joy and pleasure from your partners pleasure. it is a real deal and the homophobic comments are totally off the mark. Same with cucking, he is not gay or bi but instead gets off to the humiliation aspect of being forced to watched another man please his wife. LM there are a multitude of ways to enjoy sexuality that appear to beyond your understanding and interests but do not for a second think those fellas are bi or gay. you are flat out wrong. straight men can like sex in different ways than you and still be straight. don't be so closed minded and quick to judge that which you do not enjoy or understand. Originally Posted by sue_nami

Sue I will keep this real short and simple. You are not a man (at least I don't think you are) women do NOT get to tell men what is and is not gay period end of story, does not work that way darlin. There are some things men do not get to tell women how it is, so the door swings both ways. Any man who is into seeing other men get it on is gay and until I hear one good reason from another straight male what it is about watching other dudes that turns them on I will continue to stand by my statement, they are gay, bi or curious. I never said there was anything wrong with it they just need to own that's all. And sorry but there is no way you can be 100% sure they are not gay. Looks to me like you are the one being judgmental and close minded, you seem to take exception with anyone who doesn't think like you do. All I ever said in this thread is if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, well.......

How the fuck did we get here..

How the fuck did we get here.. Originally Posted by cain512

I gave a legit response to your original post, but since it wasn't PC a couple of narrow minded, over sensitive know it all's who can't handle harsh truth took exception and tried to twist the point I was making, however that shit doesn't work on me.

LOL, there it is, good ol society and it's social norms. Can't come back with anything else so let's label or name call. Just because I called a spade a spade does not in anyway shape or form make me homophobe, you've never met me a day in your life so how on earth would you know what I am or am not? And as far as gangbangs are concerned I have stressed before on this board that guys that are into that are gay, a bunch of naked dudes packed into a small room together and still able to get it up??? yeah sounds pretty gay to me. Like I've said before until I hear ONE good reason why it isn't gay I still stand by my assumptions Originally Posted by Little Monster

HOMOPHOBE!!! How did you get through gym class..? or did you get a Dr's note so you could shower by yourself.. homophobe homophobe.. I don't have to meet a redneck to identify one! Amazing that anyone with your own personal insecurities can even pay for sex, much less actually follow through.. I've never met Ted Cruz either, but I know what HE is.