Why Is It So Hard To Find A Provider Who Will...

The problem is that some guys don't like it. So to assume that a lady is lazy because she doesn't dress like that all the time is incorrect. If you like it, you should request it.

I do agree that a lady should come prepared, however. If you travel, you should be able to accommodate this request.

The problem is that some guys don't like it. So to assume that a lady is lazy because she doesn't dress like that all the time is incorrect. If you like it, you should request it.

I do agree that a lady should come prepared, however. If you travel, you should be able to accommodate this request. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Never did I say or imply its laziness. And as I said in the OP, I do ask for it almost every time. Even if we ignore my own request, past experience points to an opportunity for some providers to set themselves apart from the pack.

Lol, I'm going to regret this post.

Ok, so what you are saying, if I hire a guy to mow my lawn, I should buy him a lawn mower before he shows up? And if he is mowing all of you kindly gentlemen's yards, he's probably got a garage full of lawn mowers at home because each of you bought him one right? If that's the case, why does he show up to my house with a banged up mower and expect me to buy him a new one?

Isn't this basic marketing? Haven't I even read some of those threads where some of you patted yourself on the back because you said you always dress smartly for your new customers so that he is more inclined to repeat business? I guess I missed that section on the ads where it says if I want to see you in something sexy, I better bring it with me.

Probably more than half of these guys are married. Your saying it more efficient for all of them to run up to VS, and risk being seen buying lingerie by one of his wives friends, then for the lady to just buy it? This is a job right? Do all of you have some one buying your suits for work? Isn't that just a personal expense that is part of having a job? Should all my employees imply I'm a cheap bastard because I didn't buy their suits on top of paying their salary?

Before someone says it, I'm not telling anyone what to do. Please feel free to open the door wearing old, mis-matched or just every day lingerie. It's your business. Just don't be surprised to loose customers to the girl who goes the extra mile for all of her clients, not just the ones who bring her gifts. Originally Posted by citizen44

Surprisingly, considering our little disagreement the other day, I'm mostly with you on this one, citizen44. Lingerie is a key tool in the provider toolbox. Do I own a shelf bra at the moment? Nope. If someone requested it, would I go out and attempt to find one to buy? Absolutely. Personally, I loathe garters and won't wear them. They are extremely uncomfortable to me, and a pain in the ass to get on. But matching high heels, bra, panties, thigh highs.. all very sexy and necessary to have.

Now, here's where you might be missing the "logic." A sexy pair of thigh highs can cost $14-$30. These babies are DELICATE. She will probably only get one to three wears out of them before they start to run and she has to trash them. An extra $10 cost for each appointment (kind of averaging here) is a lot to some ladies. I'm not making excuses or saying it is right, just offering some insight. Not having them has probably never cost her an appointment before, so she figures, why waste the money?

Also, based on our previous dust up, you seem to have a bad taste in your mouth for those of us who only do a limited amount of appointments. I have ample free time to go shopping for those specific requests. I also have ample time to get ready, down to the last detail, for each and every appointment. If I only had half an hour or an hour between appointments, I'm not sure I'd have the time to get all dolled up in something special specifically for you. You seem to WANT the type of provider that also seems to offend you. Just my two cents.

Worst analogy ever. This is more like hiring a guy to mow your lawn and getting upset because he showed up wearing jeans and you'd prefer he wore Dickie's. Except in this case most of the people he mows for want him to be naked by the time he's done. You're still gonna get your grass cut no matter what he's wearing.

If there's a uniform you want worn for the job, you should probably expect to supply it yourself. No harm in asking if they've already got one, but how you get all butt-hurt when they don't is beyond me.

...never mind... *curtsy*

Now, here's where you might be missing the "logic." A sexy pair of thigh highs can cost $14-$30. These babies are DELICATE. She will probably only get one to three wears out of them before they start to run and she has to trash them. An extra $10 cost for each appointment (kind of averaging here) is a lot to some ladies. I'm not making excuses or saying it is right, just offering some insight. Not having them has probably never cost her an appointment before, so she figures, why waste the money? Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Thank you for this explanation. It makes perfect sense and I know I for one would totally understand paying a little extra any time I requested thigh highs or stockings.

In regard to our dust up:

There are only two times on this board where I look back and shake my head at my own behavior, and our disagreement is one of them. Your past postings have always been above board and well thought out, and I would hate to be one of the guys whose posting behavior drove off one of the few moderate female posters left on here.

For the most part I have avoided being pulled into the mud by the trolls, but unfortunately in our discussion, I got us both a little dirty. For this you have my utmost apology. I should have just left it with an "Let's agree to disagree on this one" and then moved on.

In relation to how I feel about low volume providers, I'll say that's not how I truly feel, but at this point I'll just wear that description as my penance until another day. Again, you have my apology.

I truly appreciate the sincere apology and am happy to put it behind us. Believe me, I was doing my own self-shin kicking for even getting involved in an argument over the internet. Cheers.

To each his own. Every man has different tastes, fantasies and preferences. I have had men that wanted to see me in stockings and heels - until they saw that in person I am almost 6' in heels and towered over him! I don't usually wear stockings more than once or twice as my sessions can get a little dirty lol, so despite buying them regularly, I do not ALWAYS have stockings readily available.

Generally men that request costumes will give the provider advanced notice of that request or buy the costume themselves. I agree that providers should have at least one sexy lingerie set available at any given time. But if you have a request as to THAT specific set - all black, you might want to at least give the provider a heads up. We are many things, but mind readers we are not

There are BP chicks who visit that don't even pack a pair of heels with them.

Just shows how they think of us as unworthy, dirty tricks who should be grateful that our penises get to enter a vagina or a mouth through latex

But they'll rock $150 pair stilettoes to the slave owner's strip club.

For the rest of the fluff in this thread... Ohh well...

I am with Ender... " You Supply the Uniform" my reviews here do not reflect, that I have done this... But I do " supply the Uniforms" when I have found a hooktard that is worthy.

It is all in good fun to supply the "uniform" some of the hooktards really appreciate the time and money spent for this, even more fun when you are at Vic's or any other place and talking to them at the same time for the "particulars".

Get a good bottle of wine and have your camera ready when they model for you.

I guess it wold be expensive if you like to have your yard mowed 10 times a week...

Ijs

Sometimes it goes like this:

You: Hey baby, you know I've always had this fetish for Naughty America Naughty Office porn scenes where the woman is dressed business conservative with a height appropriate business skirt but thigh highs underneath and heels. I would like to act out a fantasy where you're an unsuspecting worker and we end up making love in my office. I have the after-hours access.

Her: Sure thing.

You: imagine

She comes with:




Her when entering: *twirls to model* I got the thigh high boots!! and the sexy dress that'll get you all hot while I walk around the office making copies

You in your head:

No ones saying you should buy lingerie, I Believe. Only that you could. Its an option that could perhaps get you what you want since it seems so elusive for you.

Hey Sonya....post them titties for old times sake....ijs

You really have to be careful as far as your fantasy/expectations and her interpretation

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You:

You're 5'11"? Model looks? Long legs?

What's your email babe? The following looks turn me on..






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