Paying a provider's rent in return for all-access pass. Would you?

ThatManFromTexas's Avatar
Let me get this straight... you pay for a woman's expenses so she can have a place to live... on the promise you will get lots of "free" sex... Holy Matrimony... if only there were an institution like that ... if only
As the old saying goes ,,if it is TGTBT then indeed it is !! Life is simple-Keep it simple !!
kerwil62's Avatar
Hell naww, I ain't paying NO woman's rent nor bills. Not directly anyway. What she does with the money is on her. What if you gave her $1100 and she fucked the money off and didn't pay her rent?? Is she gonna ask you for more money?? Fuck that!!!
carkido45's Avatar
A provider once told me never loan money to a provider.
boardman's Avatar
I wouldn't do it again. My current arrangement isn't working out SO well. I'm definitely on the short end of that one.
Hell, I just wrote the final check on her car last night. That was worth at least two extended sessions. What did I get? Nada!
bigbadbill969's Avatar
I had an arrangement where I gave a provider $500 a week to be her BF (of sorts) and it was a terrible decision on my part. I met her through an agency where she not only gave me the best service I had ever had but she did it for about a C note (after agency cut). I had figured that this arrangement would be beneficial to both of us due to legal and health reasons but boy was I wrong. I was lucky to get 2 half assed sessions per week and often times not even that. I realize that not all providers are the same but my advise would be to NEVER treat a provider as anything other than a provider......Bill
tracer's Avatar
wow i really could not believe this one i would never have someone pre pay me hell i might have the flu for the next 2 weeks go figure Originally Posted by alyssa32
Very true. In fact it would be unkind to prepay on the grounds that prepayment tends to cause...the flu, bad colds, extended periods, sore throats, not to mention conflicts with its hormone treatments. Why would you be so cold as to do something that is so likely to inflict such terrible and extended ailments on the provider. Shame on you.
carkido45's Avatar
Always keep it p4p go beyond that and you're askiing for trouble. Keep your distance except when BCD.
This has actually worked really well for me. The thing is, I enjoyed having sex with that individual quite a bit as well as his friendship outside the bedroom. I didn't mind the early drop-ins on Thursdays and Fridays, because I'm an early morning riser. We had a pretty solid plan of what days and times we met, that way we weren't interfering with his schedule or mine. Sometimes, we'd even have lunch together too. He was very married though, so I didn't expect to develop real feelings for him. We were caught by his wife one day when we fell asleep in his bed. Imagine dealing with a screaming SO without the benefit of having your parts serviced-- yeah, it was no fun! We still keep in touch via email and video chat, but I haven't seen him in the flesh in almost a year. It's too bad, I really enjoyed the arrangement. I've never found anyone that I'd be willing to do that with again.

I imagine that dancers readily pay you back, because you know where they are. Since there's an obvious income from that every time they work, it's not like they can deny work. Providers can. Simple as that!
Fancyinheels's Avatar
Paying a lady's rent or utilities is getting into "mistress" territory, and that is a whole different type of condition that not many hobbyists or providers can acclimate to.

I was in a successful "prepaid" arrangement with a gentleman so busy sometimes that he couldn't see me but twice a month, but other times twice a week. Everything has to be spelled out crystal clear in advance, and being "indisposed" is not an option for the companion who wants her patron to stay happy - and keep his checkbook open.

A lady has to take care of business, both personal and professional, in a responsible manner. I don't understand how some providers can take advantage of their gentlemen friends and still stay in this field with a dependable reputation. We've all fallen into a financial sinkhole from time to time, and a few gracious gentlemen on here who knew of difficult circumstances I was facing offered to "loan" me money or pay in advance for sessions to cum...later. I thanked them for being so kind, but did not accept, and never will. The day I have to borrow or beg money from clients for basic expenses is when you can take off my Fancy heels and use them to kick my pale, plump behind down the road.

All the providers who stand on their own, financially independent, should be proud. Big difference in being reimbursed for pleasurable service and just expecting money for the pleasure of your company. Like the guys said, that's called "marriage."
dearhunter's Avatar
I would simply refer you to the Book of Hezziciah..............

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=5268
Having that type of arrangement would be useless for me. My rent is half that gals rent. It would be two one hour session. 4 30 min sessions. Nope waste of time for both parties.

I hope your friend does not do that again. And shame on the provider, once you open the door for trouble, it never seems to close.
SofaKingFun's Avatar
I wouldn't completely rule it out. It would depend.

To the naysayers...
What if she's a finer-than-froghair UTR who's BCD skills are off-the-chart
with an impeccable TCB history with you and she's limiting herself to 3 or 4 friends
simply to cover her $1100 rent? ($367/$275 ea)

As one of these friends you're able to see her 2 maybe 3 times a month
with an occasional overnight thrown in.
Still a bad deal? Still not willing to roll the dice??

Just wondering...
dearhunter's Avatar
I would refer the honorable gentleman to the answer I gave before.
boardman's Avatar
To the naysayers...
What if she's a finer-than-froghair UTR who's BCD skills are off-the-chart
with an impeccable TCB history with you and she's limiting herself to 3 or 4 friends
Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Does this woman actually exist? Call me skeptical.