Casual Sex vs Hobby Sex

I've been reading your posts...and noticed you participating more in discussions...i like the things you have to say.... Originally Posted by Analeese

We have met/played before dear, lol.

Look thru ur contacts #s and you might see my handle

We have met/played before dear, lol.

Look thru ur contacts #s and you might see my handle Originally Posted by jack_black81

I remember....and I believe you have a video lol

Casual sex always leaves me feeling used.

I suck at relationships, although the sex is amazing the break up is barely worth it.

Hobby sex on the other hand is fun and satisfying​ more often than not, and because I'm getting paid I never feel used!

Had a few where Hobby Sex turned into Casual Real World Sex and I initiated it.
Except one guy a couple of weeks ago that was so damn amazing, 3 hours turned into 6 hours and I felt like I should have paid him LMAO
He was gorgeous, everything vibed and so good I could barely walk the rest of the night.

I love when the unexpected happens

Why thank you

It was fun to watch that unfold on twitter.

...All in all both pale in comparison to real love, real intimacy, & real attraction to someone on a physical, mental, and emotional level. Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

I agree 100%. Sex with a provider that I don't connect with leaves me satisfied on a physical level but it pales in comparison to loving the one you are with. There aren't words to describe it.

Casual Sex: Having gone to a very large party school for undergrad and being in a sorority, you learn the skills to pick up a guy for casual sex. While I was usually a tad intoxicated it was never awkward for me - then again, I never did the walk of shame. He was usually leaving my dorm or apartment. Casual sex still happens but not as often. I enjoy a good bar night and staying out till 3am dancing the night away happens often; however, I'm usually with my girlfriends because I'm flying every other week. The idea of ditching them for a dude just breaks a ton of Girl Code.

Companion World: Just because I am being paid for my time does not mean I do not like the sex. After speaking with one of my favorite clients to see if I had permission to share, I have to say... it gets better. Our sex has become way more hot, steamy, and damn more kinky since when we met last summer. Then again, we are both highly comfortable with one another and able to communicate our most dark desires. In general though, this show is not coordinated unless we have planned something out ahead of time like a role play. I will dress in a way that is "planned" and I'll do my hair and make up in a way that is "planned" but what happens is never coordinated and always in the moment.

Blanket generalizations about the sex being fake and passionless makes me wonder who you've been seeing.

But that's none of my business.

Casual Sex is always best if you have the time to invest in it. I remember when I was younger a woman was so turned on she didn't want to take her panties off and almost raped me in a bedroom next two her friend. She also liked sex in moving cars...lol.

Later in life I got involved in swinging, that lifestyle will almost ruin your sex life as much as the hobby. A few guys that I knew wanted me to screw the brains out of their wives and I had no issue with it because they were hot. Then sometimes you do group sex with a lady, where everyone is focused on pleasing the lady.

I also once met a lady that screamed like a porn star when she was fucked hard. That's always a rush when you can push your lady over the edge and everyone in a hotel can hear her.

But hobby sex can be fun too if it is with a lady that you hit it off with. I have dated two providers. I did take one to Colette and we screwed each others like animals about three times on the round bed there in front of everyone.

Had a few where Hobby Sex turned into Casual Real World Sex and I initiated it.
Except one guy a couple of weeks ago that was so damn amazing, 3 hours turned into 6 hours and I felt like I should have paid him LMAO
He was gorgeous, everything vibed and so good I could barely walk the rest of the night.

I love when the unexpected happens
Originally Posted by berkleigh

Now your just making me BLUSH.

Yup the unexpected make it both in the hobby and RW.

Had a few where Hobby Sex turned into Casual Real World Sex and I initiated it.
Except one guy a couple of weeks ago that was so damn amazing, 3 hours turned into 6 hours and I felt like I should have paid him LMAO
He was gorgeous, everything vibed and so good I could barely walk the rest of the night.

I love when the unexpected happens
Originally Posted by berkleigh

Oh shit, why did you say that here?

Who is the lucky guy, his dick is sure going to want it again.

Can I watch? Like put it on chaturbate.com please.

LOL

Problem i find is most women talk about the nice guy but date the asshole instead. divorced 2 times (both cheated on) makes for one less nice guy out there to find.

Why thank you Originally Posted by Boltfan

Were you her Uber driver to go see this guy??

Gonna state the obvious:
Causal sex, because, if not for any other reason, if it's bad, you only "paid" for it with your time.

However, hobby sex gives better experiences and affords (literally and figuratively) you the ability to spend time with women most of us men (if we're being honest) would not have the opportunity to have casual sex with.