As a teen I learned to lick kitty from a 30 something lady who was recently divorced and had turned fully lesbian (that must have been a real kick in the gonads for her ex-husband).
We never had "real" sex 'cause she thought dicks were "gross" but she loved having her kitty licked and she gave me explicit instructions on just how she wanted it and explained the female orgasm to me better than any other woman had, or has since.
Nowadays I seem to be a magnet for bi women - not necessarily that they're drawn to me, but I seem to be drawn to them, although none of them have "bi" stamped on their foreheads, so that's not the reason for the attraction. Seems to be a chemistry thing or the way they look/act/walk.
Like others have mentioned, I'm not attracted to butch lesbians, but usually find their partners hot asf and am jealous/envious.