What is up with all the lights??

"Why all the lights"? We are looking for genital warts and rashes; in some cases, even small hobbits living in the "flaps". KIDDING!

I've actually been asked "why so dark". I try to leave one light on and maybe the tv, but I'm not much of a "lights on" person. I don't like it pitch black, but I don't want it looking like a football stadium either.

I'm a visual guy. Love to see what I'm doing and watch what is being done.

If the ASP will allow I like to open up the drapes and/or blinds. It adds to the excitement of maybe someone seeing us.

I guess I'm just gonna have to pony up for that low-light version of the hidden camera.

Kidding!

I guess I'm just gonna have to pony up for that low-light version of the hidden camera.

Kidding! Originally Posted by maxim_232

I bet you have some good LE jokes up your sleeve too. The ladies love those.

"Turn out the lights, the party's over...all good things must come to an end..."

heh heh heh

Ya know, Soph, men are visual creatures - but - there is a point where it's just too much. I can get behind your idea of walking into an interrogation room not being all that conducive to fun bcd. There are ways of shedding some light on the subject creatively which do not include being able to read the fine print on the back of a condom pack at 50 feet.

I guess I'm just an old veteran. I turn on the dimmest light in the room. I've even looked around for some transparent colored fabric to throw over the lamp but usually don't have such an object. A lady's scarf works well sometimes.

I even do this when I leave my room in Vegas. Ya never know what you may return with.

Don't need a spotlight. Comfortable but dim.

I enjoy looking. At home the lights are off. It's so dark I can't even find my way to bed without a flashlight. Originally Posted by discreetintx

Which is why you are here Grasshaoppa. Tis exactly why you are here.

Silly lady, don't you know that we like ALL the lights on so we can carefully examine your body and note in great detail all the flaws we find in our review? Heff

Sophie.....I'm with ya chica.
Don't want to feel like I am at the gynecologist being examined.

I like a session to feel nice and comfy.....and not like I'm being interrogated.

HEFF.....you want to examine the flaws?
What kind of animal are you?
dude.....I don't know how you even get providers to see you these days....you are way too harsh man.

Setting the mood is important.....and I've had clients....walk in my incall....and pull all the curtains shut......and then they turn on all the lights!
What is up with that?

I am 100% in agreement with Sophie. Let SOME natural light in......and relax in the moment.
Green or no Green.......some light is GOOD....but too much is creepy.

Call it high maintenance.....but live with it....

RainyC

This is so funny Kelly TNT and I have this conversation quit often!!!!

My incall is very bright with natural light coming in from the windows. I like this as well.... I like to see the ........ uh....... stuff that goes on too...

Kelly's is the opposite, she goes for the mood lighting... LOL , so depending on where I am you could have either ,or....

Green my ass!! I just dont like to walk into a room that looks like a airport runway landing strip.

Give the room enough light to where who ever walks in feels comfortable, I agree. Pitch black would make anyone uncomfortable, unless they werent human.

Pay as much as you want for the room. If you dont get "done" to your satisfaction because the provider was uncomfortable with your 17 lights on, then dont blame the messenger.

Anyone that has been to my incall can clearly see a pair of "reading glasses" on my coffee table. So yeah, the eyes arent the best they used to be, but I dont need all the lights to see what I am doing, if I know what I am doing, and by now, I think I do. Originally Posted by Sophie

Soph: Speaking from experience, your place has the lighting just right...including the natural light on the back deck...I've always been able to see everything I want to. And, yes, you know EXACTLY what you're doing!

Bright lights so the glow in the dark condoms are easy to find, now if the lady marks the spots well with glow in the dark we can turn the lights off and play in the dark.

lol

I agree with you Sophie mood lighting is great as far as eyesight if we can't find the spot by now it's time to find a new hobby. or glow in the dark paint. lol

just trying to add some humor sorry if I pissed anyone off couldn't resist