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I agree.
Also, if you get married again marry a girl who likes girls on the side for a little fun every now and then. Originally Posted by friendly fred

Sigh, sounds fun until they drift into full lesbianism. At least my tongue would routinely get a good workout.

Also at least my SO doesn't give two fucks if I get an escort or girlfriend provided the retirement savings stays intact and I don't bring someone home, so there is that. However some days I wish I was married to a passionate, jealous woman.

Sigh, sounds fun until they drift into full lesbianism. At least my tongue would routinely get a good workout.

Also at least my SO doesn't give two fucks if I get an escort or girlfriend provided the retirement savings stays intact and I don't bring someone home, so there is that. However some days I wish I was married to a passionate, jealous woman. Originally Posted by Big Ed

Agree - you have to watch out for that potential conversion to lesbianism but just chase other girls til she comes around.

Completely agree, it’s only cheating when our partner doesn’t know about it. Solve the problem and conquer the world together! It’s truly an amazing experience.

continue on, but learn to be like a Cat, and cover up your shit after you take one. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

How is it selfish if you want to leave? Lay low for a while give her your full love and attention until things settle down, then get back into the hobby but me more cautious this next time around ❤️

Didn't even know this site existed until separation. All the papers are filed. I put everything into my marriage. She failed me. In every way a wife could fail. I was always around through the bad times taking care of all the bad things. Then she checked out. So now I get to see what else life has for me. Not a cheater. I am now just a pleasure seeker

I have never been caught.

I have also been very discrete, careful.

In 1985, in our fourth year of marriage, my wife decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. She became celebrate that year. She kept telling me that we would have sex again someday, just never now. I kept trying to please her and convince her to have sex with me. It took me twenty years to finally sink in that she honestly does not want to have sex ever again.

Now I am an old man.

All of my youth was wasted, trying to convince my wife to lay with me.

Retiredsubmariner,I didn't have it quite that rough but still my story is not much different. I bet you passed up some good opportunities at various ports of call.

I have never been caught.

I have also been very discrete, careful.

In 1985, in our fourth year of marriage, my wife decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. She became celebrate that year. She kept telling me that we would have sex again someday, just never now. I kept trying to please her and convince her to have sex with me. It took me twenty years to finally sink in that she honestly does not want to have sex ever again.

Now I am an old man.

All of my youth was wasted, trying to convince my wife to lay with me. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner

This is really, really sad. I hope you've enjoyed the escorts, and get to visit many more!!

Retiredsubmariner,I didn't have it quite that rough but still my story is not much different. I bet you passed up some good opportunities at various ports of call. Originally Posted by Big Ed

I learned that I am 'demisexual'. I need to like a girl emotionally before I am attracted to her physically. One night stands do not work for me.

This is really, really sad. I hope you've enjoyed the escorts, and get to visit many more!! Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

That is my hope.

my 2 cents. do you have kids? if so stayed married; regardless of their age.

lay low for a few months. see how things mend. work on the relationship. if you feel you need to - go back to the hobby but cover up your tracks. and double triple check you are covering your tracks.

dont force the hobby back on yourself; but dont deny pleasure if she ain't giving it.

I learned that I am 'demisexual'. I need to like a girl emotionally before I am attracted to her physically. Originally Posted by RetiredSubmariner

Wow that is a coincidence as I am demisexual and sapiosexual.

what is demisexual... for those who don't know.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/1552...-as-demisexual

I’m definitely sapiosexual, although I didn’t know there was a word for it.