LOL, yep. Very few women seek out a man bc they love him. Human females have evolved to be hypergamous and materialistic. Not an insult, just an observation. In fact, fair to say if human females were NOT hypergamous and materialistic when choosing mates, a lot of us wouldn't be alive today. The reason human males have evolved to be so good at doing useful, profitable things is bc human females have preferred and pursued such males, rewarding behaviors that advance and enrich our species. Helps explain how we got so intelligent, too.
But to an individual man, who wants to be loved and appreciated for his raw decency, humanity, and overall goodness, this reality is disappointing, nay, infuriating. I am sorry for such men. And, I see where they are coming from.
But Nature is a ruthless bitch. She cares not abt your feelings. All she wants is babies. And she wants them cared for, provided for, and protected. Human women for >99.999% of human history, have been largely incapable of providing for and protecting themselves and their offspring. Men were not just generally necessary as we are today for the race's survival, but men were personally necessary for women to have close to them just to keep them from freezing to death, being eaten by wolves, and starving to death. Esp. when pregnant, women are almost completely helpless as animals go. Men otoh are really good at cooperative hunting, fighting as a team, fighting hand to hand in single combat, and are very good at assessing fast-evolving, dangerous situations and reacting physically to them in such a way as to mitigate them. We are this way bc Nature made us this way. So women have evolved to find men capable of providing and protecting to be very attractive as mates, even if they no longer have any practical need of men as provider/protectors due to the amazing job men have done making modern human society so easy and safe to live in that women no longer need men personally in their lives.
But when they do go looking for a man, they still want guys with loads of cash. (And large cocks, but that is far less important than large wads of cash. She can get large cock from someone else on the side.)
They'll do and say anything to get a man with lots of money. Such men are rare and usually taken. Once they find a rich available guy, they shit themselves trying to get to him. They'll do and say anything to get his money (and I have, unfortunately, with practice learned to spot these efforts no matter how hard the girl tries to cloak it). Sound familiar? Hookers'll tell you anything to get your money. Well, hookers are women. Johns are men with money. They are no different from "normal" women and vice versa. Just a different M.O., that's all.
This is why I don't date "normal" women nor seek to have a gf or get married. I have yet to meet a woman who wasn't a whore, incl. my own mother. So why bother w/ "normal" women and pretend they are any diff from the hookers I fuck? They aren't. Only with hookers, I don't have to deal with drama, bullshit, bitching, w/holding sex, gold-digging (except standard hooker bullshit), etc. Fucking whores is in the long run cheaper than dealing with "normal" women, too, and no divorce leading to huge amts. of YOUR money going to her w/out her lifting a finger to earn it other than to say "I do" in the right place at the right time. Some guys are suckers.
A # of years back, one of my gaming comrades kept getting shot DOWN by the gals when he went out, as they ALL saw him as too cheep/ain't got money.. TILL One found out via the local business section, he OWNED 18 businesses and was worth over 3 mil or something.. THEN THEY were the ones trying to hook up with HIM.
I loved his statement TO those gold diggers.
"If you didn't even want to look, let alone speak to me before you knew i was rich, BY WHAT logic to you think i would even give any of you the time of day, now You are the ones clawing to get TO me cause you DO KNOW i am rich"?
Made me laugh. Especially as several actually broke down in tears cause "he rejected them"..
Originally Posted by garhkal
