HHR vs. HR?

It seems like it's just personal preference. Plenty of quality ladies offer hhr sessions. I personally like the hhr because I can usually get my business done in 20 to 30 minutes. Someone like me doesn't need an hour session. I understand some women like to take their time as do some guys, so the hr sessions are definitely for them. As for me, I go to get in and get out, but that's my cup of tea. Easiest thing to do is just look for someone that offers what you want. And if they don't, respect their choice and move on, there's lots to choose from.

Sometimes a good quick Fuck is all that is needed. Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Yep.

Diffence in my Hour and half is basically,
The head & the length of each round.
I don't mind half hour BC I do not expect a man to pay me for an hour when hell only be with me a few minutes.
The Hour allows for a more personal and sensual experience.
Again this is just myself

Yep, totally agreed

It is also because many ladies stay sufficiently busy booking with gentlemen that can afford the 1hr rate.

Can you afford her published 1hr rate? If so, then great!

Don't want a whole hour? No problem. You're welcome to leave any time before the hour is up.

Originally Posted by Lady Jane Arista

That about sums it up. There is no reason for me to offer half hour appointments when I get sufficient bookings for hour long appointments.

And VOH's reasons below are all the reasons I avoid them as well. I have done less then half a dozen in my years, and all but 1, I regretted.

Hell, even my hour long appointments frequently run over.

Several reasons:

1. We don't want so much traffic in and out of our locations; a quick 30 minute visit looks suspicious.

2. It's just as much preparation for a 30 min sesh as a 60 min one, so we would rather do a longer session and make a little more for all that work.

3. Girls like me especially, I perform a genuine massage. There is no way that can be done in 30 minutes and I refuse to try; it negates the entire purpose of my service.

4. We don't like the feel of a 30 min sesh. It is literally just about getting in and out, and getting off. Many providers (me included) actually like to take our time and engage with our clients a little more than just being used a sex factory.

5. Most gents requesting half hours are the cheap/disrespectful types one would rather avoid. (Before you get your panties in a knot, I said most, not all.) Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I prefer a minimum of 90 minutes. I feel that is the best option because it gives you enough time to enjoy one anotherwithout worrying about how much longer? Is this guy going to try to take advantage and stay as long as he can over? Is he going to get mad if he doesn't fullfill his every desire in time?I think only after you've met shorter visits are fun, exciting, and seamless,otherwise I can't get that into them.

One may think in the long run shorter visits allow you to make more but in actuality it does not. I'd rather be smarter than work harder. Although, I'm going to work hard regardless.

I'm a blow and go guy, I can't go back to back. 20 min and I'm headed out. I don't need convo or anything extra in a meeting,I'm just looking for some quick excitement then back to normal life. A hr for me would be a waste. I know what I like and what gets me off so hhr is perfect.

Once I was extremely horny and popped in to a spa. I threw the girl on the table, slid the condom on, fucked her, paid her, threw my clothes back on, and I was out the door. Whole thing took 12 minutes.

But in general I usually go for an hour session.

Once I was extremely horny and popped in to a spa. I threw the girl on the table, slid the condom on, fucked her, paid her, threw my clothes back on, and I was out the door. Whole thing took 12 minutes. Originally Posted by spear89

That's a "happy hour" fuck ... in the front passenger seat of "her car" before she goes home to hubby/SO. No table or throwing. She rides.

Two hours minimum.. but enjoy the 5 and 6 hour apts..

Hell, even my hour long appointments frequently run over. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

Yup, same here! I already feel like an hour is a bit on the short side of things. They usually always run over by 10 mins or so.

If it's a massage, then an hour + for sure. If I'm there just for a bbbjcim, all I need is 15 min.

It's unusual for me to opt for less than an hour. I like to shower before and after. It takes 15 minutes to wake junior from the dead. The remaining 30-40 minutes may or may not be enough time. I'm not a multi-shot guy.

Generally, an hour is plenty of time. There are only a handful of providers that I'm interested in seeing for more than an hour. If the provider can hold a conversation, a little extra time, paid or otherwise is enjoyable. TTL

My two cents, I usually go for the 1/2 hour appointments for a couple reasons. First, I am financially challenged I am retired (not by choice) due to getting messed up as a firefighter (not Texas up north). If I told you what they gave me as a retirement you would think it was a joke ($500 a month to start honest). I'm not cheap just can't afford the higher prices.

Second, I don't get to play very often so when I do, it usually doesn't take long.

If you were to talk to the providers I have seen you will find I am always very respectful to the ladies wishes and it has paid off more than I will tell you folks on here per ladies requests. Also, I have been lucky on the independent providers I have had the pleasure of meeting. I have had a good to excellent time for the price I paid.

Yes I have went over but it is because we got to chatting, etc. I never stay over unless we both get to talking (or playing) and both do not wish to stop.

If a provider doesn't give 1/2 hour appointments I don't ask and go with the flow for an hour if I do go that way.

Again, I believe if you treat the ladies with respect and follow their menu by far most of the time you will have a pleasant experience. Not everyone has the same taste but that is the idea of this board for me to find a good fit for me.

I'm sure a few of you tarts have felt stifled by a provider in the past when requesting a hhr. I know I have felt that before. You know, when you start exchanging texts with someone and they go radio silent the moment you ask for a HHR, or maybe even a QV. Sometimes it's time, sometimes its financial and sometimes it's just not feeling like I want a whole hour.

My question is this, and it's mainly for you ladies. Why do you prefer an hour visit? It's less money for you. Lots of you don't understand that and may think I'm crazy. Sure, any idiot knows $300 is more than $200 in the short term, but in the long run, it's not. Why do you ladies treat the HHR guys differently from the HR guys? Just curious. Originally Posted by cbramrent

Not everyone is High Volume and PREFER To stay comfortably where they are comfortable..

with that in mind...a half hour is by FAR less money ...in the long and short run of it


and when a lady ADVERTISES AN HOUR AS HER MINIMUM ...It's just plain INSULTIVE to ask if you can come see her for LESS (maybe it makes her feel like you don't think she's worth the Price she set for herself or worth spending more than a few moments with to use and discard as quickly as possible...
don't be so quick to judge until you put yourself in the other's shoes..maybe lady's wouldn't treat you differently than her HR guests is because you chose to treat her differently by asking for HHR ... ??

just a theory
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