I prefer that the money laid out on the desk and you excuse yourself to restroom.....i will count your donation leave it where you dropped it and I will not collect it until our time is over...
I do this so that all parties involved are comfortable....just in case something happens and the entire donation ends up not belonging to me....i prefer to leave it out...
For really regular clients I don't mind then paying afterwards.
My thing is I want to make it seem as less like a transaction as possible...
When my suitor comes over....i want him to feel like I'm treating him as if he's my long lost bf or something...a big hug and dfk right when you walk in....i might even grab your cock...lol
I screen pretty well...and ppl do not play games with me here nor do I get ncns or anything like that....
Every lady is different....
If you place your donation out your lady can relax...kendall is very right about that..it just helps us relax...
Edit: one thing I have a hard time comprehending though is why guys don't set out the money right away especially when you meet a lady for the first time...you know what you're there for...why drag that out and make them ask you for it...thats just plain dumb imo....and asking for problems