Kudos to you RM91 for having the courage to approach. You did everything correctly so don't overthink it.
What you may have not realized is that night game is dead. Today's entitled, delusional and narcissistic woman doesn't need/want you for anything anymore other than resource extraction. After all you're competing with her smartphone, tinder, instagram, and facebook where thirsty/desperate men send her dozens of texts every single day telling her how awesome she is for just having a pussy and breathing. So now a woman that's a 3/10 thinks she's a 8/10. Today women have big daddy government to fill in all of their manly needs and take away all of your money, assets, and family. All they have to say is that you touched her elbow inappropriately 65 years ago and off to jail you go, guilty until proven innocent.
Don't believe me? Just go spend a couple of hours in any family court in America and watch the divorce rape before your very own eyes and ears.
Simply put - The juice ain't worth the squeeze, Go Your Own Way!