Pictures of Providers Face - Is this a deal breaker?
@theboss21422: there are lots of ways family, friends and even potential employers can connect your face pics with your real life identity without being part of the hobby. There are so many cases of that occurring that it shouldn't even be up for debate. Google has made this a very small world, for good and bad.
I send photos of my taint, and 1.3" of dangling death, whenever its requested. My taint photos have been posted in open forum several times.
For me-- the face pic thing can be a deal breaker. If I'm demanded to give one, the deal is off. With the advent of those who like to out on other sites, I'm just not willing to take the chance on giving up a face pic these days. In addition, I have a lot of gents who enjoy being able to take me out in public without risk of identification. I've always told gents that insist on a face pic that they are more than welcome to walk away at the door, no questions asked and no hard feelings, if they do not like what they see.
If you show your face, don't show your cooter. Use tasteful Victoria's Secret-esque photography, bras and panties etc., so that anyone pulling a picture of you can be easily told it was from a legitimate modeling shoot, don't I look great in blue? I didn't make this up, I've had several wimmin tell me over the years that a), you don't have to show everything, but you have to paint an honest picture and b), if anybody ever did pull their pictures there would be absolutely nothing personally "damaging" about their content. On eccie? Oh dear, some hooker must have stolen my pictures! We've never heard that on here before, have we?
If you show your face, don't show your cooter. Use tasteful Victoria's Secret-esque photography, bras and panties etc., so that anyone pulling a picture of you can be easily told it was from a legitimate modeling shoot, don't I look great in blue? I didn't make this up, I've had several wimmin tell me over the years that a), you don't have to show everything, but you have to paint an honest picture and b), if anybody ever did pull their pictures there would be absolutely nothing personally "damaging" about their content. On eccie? Oh dear, some hooker must have stolen my pictures! We've never heard that on here before, have we?
Originally Posted by phildo
That would work great if this wasn't a review site.
"Oh yeah, Provider looks just like her pics..."
That would be the worst lie ever, lol.
Blurring out faces in ads, showcases, etc is not a deal breaker for me. Plenty of reasons to not have a face picture on an escort site. Common reasons have already been mentioned. Read reviews, contact guys who wrote reviews are a few ways for guys to "screen" without a face picture.
I respect a woman's right not to show her face in ads, however I generally do not see ladies with no face pics... I am a face guy and that means more to me than anything when choosing a gal... PiNk
Deal killer? No.
Deal maker? Maybe. Which kind of just made it adeal killer for everyone else.
Then again, anyone as butt ugly as me should be covering their faces.
Totally understand the privacy thing so i don't count it as a negative.
I don't think providers should show face pics.
The internet is forever.
It can only hurt ya.
Tinman is giving good advice.
1, Do not give a face pic out unless you have already screened the person.
2. Do not show identifying birthmarks, tattoos, or jewelry in your pics.
3. Do not wear favorite clothing that might be identified by a family member.
Reasons- stalkers, family, career, LE, CPS, etc.
With the popularity of the site in local media,even checking into a hotel could cause unwanted attention.
Not everyone needs the same level of annonimity though, so you should decide for yourself, as you will be the one living with the decision.
Should you decide to leave this behind some day, if you have left a trail, it will find you.
It's the provider's call. I prefer to at least get a glimpse or some notion about their facial features. But hey, they don't see me until I walk in the door. So...
Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW
lol i like that analogy
For me-- the face pic thing can be a deal breaker. If I'm demanded to give one, the deal is off. With the advent of those who like to out on other sites, I'm just not willing to take the chance on giving up a face pic these days. In addition, I have a lot of gents who enjoy being able to take me out in public without risk of identification. I've always told gents that insist on a face pic that they are more than welcome to walk away at the door, no questions asked and no hard feelings, if they do not like what they see.
Originally Posted by GracePreston
good one Grace i am going to use those points, you dont have to worry about being recognized, and if u dont like my face you are free to turn around and leave.