Kissing is definitely part of the complete picture. But there's a big difference between erotic kissing and what some guys call DFK. Most of the providers I've seen know that while I love to kiss, including LFK, I seldom engage in what anyone would describe as DFK. If I enjoy the chemistry, I keep going back and when comfort levels are established, providers naturally become more open in what they will say. A number have shared their distaste for guys who slobber all over their whole face or any guy who shoved his tongue so far in their mouths that they literally gagged. The looks on their faces as they recounted those experiences made it clear that they didn't find it pleasurable/enjoyable. Some people don't have a clue about kissing.
Originally Posted by Bobave
+1 I'm not a fan of DFK. But I think everyone has a different definition of what it is, and unfortunately, most want to shove their tongues down my throat - that's not sexy or fun. Don't rape my mouth with your tongue, dude. We need a happy medium - like MFK? Or kissing lessons. Yes, that's what I need to offer: Kissing 101. One of my younger clients asked me what the difference is between LFK and DFK (he's very good at LFK), and so I showed him DFK and he's still in therapy.
Sure, take another man's dick in your mouth and up your vag, maybe the ass too but God forbid you kiss him.
Originally Posted by illuminati
I completely agree!