Is there any way to tell what providers are in this because they have to be, and those who are in this because they choose to be?

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Providers who let you know during communication before seeing them or give the obvious appearance with their detached mind during BCD are the ones who should have retired from providing a long time ago.

But, as has been said, they have bills to pay and habits they want to continue and going to get a real job will not afford them the same lifestyle. Flipping burgers, waitressing at a regular restaurant or working as a CSR in some retail store is not going to allow for that. I commend the ladies who used the money they made to better themselves and got out of the business before they at least appeared to become jaded, but ones who have been providing for decades and somehow still have clients is unfathomable.
I will also say men have to do their own research and stop going to the girls guys suggest because often its just a high volume provider not necessarily someone you might want to see or ur cup of tea. DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH. Especially if youre looking for gfe which it sounds you probably want a more natural feel versus someone who books up in advance as shes usually running a character personality theme versus genuine connection and comfort <3 Originally Posted by ebonyvixen23
You could say natural.Maybe I'm asking for too much, but i'd like to deal with a provider who actually enjoys having sex even if its just in the sense that she views me as a living dildo. Horny on main if you will.

I actually remember hearing a story about a girl who became a stripper to fuel her exhibitionism fetish. Stuff like that.
Cendell M's Avatar
You could say natural.Maybe I'm asking for too much, but i'd like to deal with a provider who actually enjoys having sex even if its just in the sense that she views me as a living dildo. Horny on main if you will.

I actually remember hearing a story about a girl who became a stripper to fuel her exhibitionism fetish. Stuff like that. Originally Posted by Masalic
I don’t agree with her saying if a guy suggest a provider she high volume or much of her statement, that’s not necessarily true I’m low volume so…any but yes do your own research for sure
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  • BLM69
  • 11-02-2023, 11:04 AM
I don’t agree with her saying if a guy suggest a provider she high volume or much of her statement, that’s not necessarily true I’m low volume so…any but yes do your own research for sure Originally Posted by Cendell M
Tell us how many tricks you've had in your hooker career and we'll tell you if you're low volume 😂 I'm not even low volume and I'm a trick
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I actually got into this because I was going on sites like fet life to hook up. So yes I do it because I enjoy it
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You don't fuck in the winter time ? Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz
I was thinking the same thing .. I like to Fu8K in Chicago in the winter or in Tx when it's cold .. Keep each other warm ..
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You could say natural.Maybe I'm asking for too much, but i'd like to deal with a provider who actually enjoys having sex even if its just in the sense that she views me as a living dildo. Horny on main if you will.

I actually remember hearing a story about a girl who became a stripper to fuel her exhibitionism fetish. Stuff like that. Originally Posted by Masalic
....and as to the above quotes' second paragraph, concerning the exhibitionist, I once met a lady exhibitionist at a strip club where she worked. It was on the westside of Ft. Worth, but she lived in Dallas. So I asked her why she worked on the westside of Ft. Worth as there was obviously 1 or 2 clubs closer to wherever it was she lived in Dallas , (I like going for the humorous understatement) . She said that as an exhibitionist, she 'had' to expose herself twice a week in-order to appear 'normal' to the rest of the world the rest of the week. She 'could not' afford to be seen by anyone she knew! Well, I believed her. That explained the 'Country Club Lady-vib' she had. I usually got 2 dances from her. You know, up close & personal. Helping out the distressed as I can.
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Tell us how many tricks you've had in your hooker career and we'll tell you if you're low volume �� I'm not even low volume and I'm a trick Originally Posted by BLM69
I’m talking daily in and out smarty pants, if that was the case no one’s low volume, meaning I don’t have a train running through my in call
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I usually got 2 dances from her. You know, up close & personal. Helping out the distressed as I can. Originally Posted by Bushjumper
That's the Lord's work you are doing, Sir!
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Could you imagine if provider profiles had tags on if they were independent or managed? How would that affect the hobby?

I love being used. I love sex and I like my bills paid. More than one thing can be true at the same time
Could you imagine if provider profiles had tags on if they were independent or managed? How would that affect the hobby?

I love being used. I love sex and I like my bills paid. More than one thing can be true at the same time Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia
Lord knows if i thought i could have sex for money i would. But sadly im stuck busting my ass at a warehouse.
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  • BLM69
  • 11-09-2023, 11:47 AM
Lord knows if i thought i could have sex for money i would. But sadly im stuck busting my ass at a warehouse. Originally Posted by Masalic
I couldn't do it, the trauma is not worth it
I couldn't do it, the trauma is not worth it Originally Posted by BLM69
Eh i guess me swinging both ways makes it easier to wrap my mind around...