Gentlemen, does age really matter?

I recently turned 40!!!!

I have been blessed with great genes and I can easily pass for 34.

Should I own up to the 40 and have Men pleasantly surprised at my youthful look, but possibly turn away Men that might feel 40 is just a bit too mature for them?
Many men assume if a provider's profile says 40 , she is probably lying and actually older.

Or....

Go with 34 and if a asked , just proudly announce I am really 40?

My client base is usually late 20's to early 50's. Regular GFE vanilla sessions.
So I want to keep appealing to that type of Man.

Suggestions please Originally Posted by SweetDulce

Well on the one hand; No Age doesn't matter. There are many women who are dynamite at 40 and older. You SD are one of them.


I have had women 50 and older "come-on" to me in RW situations . . .and I am 66. If I were looking for a RW relationship these women would be on my radar.

However: I am already in a RW relationship and do not wish to change that. I hobby very infrequently, but when I do, I am looking for a younger woman. If I am looking for intimate companionship, a provider of any legal age below 40 is who I am looking for.

So Dulce . . .

As George Castanza once said (on the Seinfeld show): "I ts not you . . .its me."

Different strokes for different folks. Paid professionals accommodate services for various ages... Enjoy. Life's too short

SD You are sexy as always Age does not matter

Age in and of itself, does not matter. However, as a group, women of a certain age range are more likely to possess the characteristics I may be seeking. On an individual level, there are always exceptions. That is one of many reasons I miss the days when socials were common. It gave a chance to interact and get to know someone first. I have had gals I thought would be perfect turn out to be no's after meeting them and gals I would not have considered turn into regulars after meeting them. At my age, personality and "click" are very important. That is why, most of the time with a new gal, I insist on a quick meet and greet first.

First let me say that I'm 65, but I exercise, eat right and the equipment still works just fine lol. Age is not a huge factor for me, but I do tend to avoid much younger providers as there's less tendency to "connect." And I do find women closer to my age who are fit and confident in their abilities to arouse a man to be a huge turn-on. Maybe it's the experience factor. In the end, you're only as old as you act, right?

The reason I got into this hobby thing is for the young babes. If she is over 30 I'm not interested. Young spinners get my attention. Mature ladies I can pretty much pick up at the local bars

I say list your real age, there are plenty of us who are looking for people close to our own age as the experience is better

I list 53 on my showcase but Im actually 54...I too have been blessed with good genes..my body still looks good and my ass is the ass of a 30 year old..lol

So I would say list your age and rock with it Originally Posted by DallasRain

And you are a legend.

Just make sure your pictures are real and recent. I have seen so many old, outdated pictures of providers 35 and up that are no longer representative (e.g. they gained weight, flab around the middle) that I am wary of older providers. Disappointing when they open the door and they don't look like the pictures anymore.

Over the decade and a half i have been partaking i've had some very great sessions with the older ladies, but i've also had 2 of the crappiest ones with those over 40. So while age to me doesn't matter, its more 'how they look/how they do things' that does.

My age range is 18-45, but really I'm looking more for what they look like and how their personality is. I have had 45 year olds that are so calming and mature it's a real turn on.

I would rather meet a Lady who lied about her age but still looked great than one who lies about her weight and looks like a blimp.

I'm 43, I look younger. I still let my clients know my real age. I'm proud of my age and it doesn't hurt my business at all so I see no reason to lie about my age.

I would rather meet a Lady who lied about her age but still looked great than one who lies about her weight and looks like a blimp. Originally Posted by Jackie S

True dat. BUT i wonder WHY they feel they even need to lie about their age in the first place.

i was just reading the blog on rubmaps about this and i must agree, age doesnt really matter in most cases, dude fucked a 60-something year old asian lady i fucked a 55 year old one

but honestly if i am lookin for an escort dont judge me too hard if i look for the younger ones first lmao