Ladies At What Point Are You Creeped Out

I don't find that guys with a lot of okays to be hunting for alphabet soup or anything of the type.

Honestly, the guys who have 5 okays have probably been with more than 5 providers.

For me, the more okays the better. I do not care one shred how many women you have slept with - I only care that you treated them with respect, you were clean and safe with them, and you didn't rip them off. That's what okays are FOR. I can learn about you, your preferences, your desires in person. Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

Thanks for the insightful comment, the okays and reviews are no indication of what a person is like. That's what checking personal references are for, a personal accounting of a clients personality, hygiene, and generosity !

I disagree, some of the most successful providers have TONS of reviews. They're amazing advertising/web traffic. I can always look at my web stats and tell you exactly what date I got new reviews. That day and 3-4 after my traffic is through the roof. My SSL traffic usually doubles (more people filling out the reservation form).

Now maybe if it was 100 reviews in 5 or 6 months, but 100 reviews over 3-4 years is nothing. I can name providers here and in Canada that I can type in TBD or TER and see at LEAST 100 reviews on either site. I have something like 57 at the moment and I've never had negative effects from them, only compliments on them. Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

What I meant was that a lot of guys like low volume girls, and that many reviews would scare them away. But there's lots of other guys that don't care. Just like some girls care about guys seeing lots of girls, and some girls don't.

I think if your lookin for low volume being guys or girls this isn't the place.

Yeah low volume via the Internet ! Ha ha

I guess it depends on your definition of low volume. I've heard it range anywhere from "1 a day/3x week" to "as long as it's under 30 a month".

I don't think having 100 reviews over say 5 years would be "high volume" though unless we've come up with a mathematical formula showing that for every review the girl saw x clients Have we? Maybe we should

The entire low volume perception/idea is really interesting to me. I hate to say that I don't believe in the concept within the realm of this hobby.... but from personal experience... low volume ladies in this hobby are simply not the norm. Given this, I can't understand why guys would be put off by a lady with a high # of reviews.

I'd love to see a poll done that asks the opinions of both ladies and gents concerning what they consider low volume or high volume. One poll for the ladies to vote in and one poll for the gents to post in. If we could make the votes anonymous... I think it would make the results more accurate. I had an "UTR" give me a 10 minute speech back in the fall about how she was low volume.... Later that night she told me I was the 5th appt of the day........ I realized very quickly she wasn't as UTR as she perceived herself to be.

Regarding the term low volume for the gents... If nothing else, the cost associated with this hobby forces many gentleman to be low volume as compared to the ladies. (with exception of a few) Given that... if cost wasn't a concern... good god we'd have a lot of man whores on this site.

Lol. Definitely some interesting responses.

Particularly Homer13, who is almost always completely full of sh...ining examples of diversity of opinion in this hobby. Every time I read yet another post where he's stating I'm not his type, he doesn't like my photos or I'm not "worth 3 bills" I always breathe a sigh of relief because judging by his attitude towards a LOT of females in his posts here he is DEFINITELY not my type either.

Ralphey...you're giving me ideas- you can be goldilocks and I'll be one of the bears that finds you eating my porridge so I tackle you and we have to fight over it and our clothes just happen to get torn off in the struggle. Then we can test out the sofa, the floor and the bed to find out which one is juuuust right.

Vyt- You are still my internet boyfriend. <3 Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

Reya, let's play nice. I re-read my post and I don't see anything here about you or my type or your price. I believe I've only posted one thing directly to you ever and that was in response to your thread on why your not busy enough. You asked about price. I gave you my honest opinion, and wasn't mean about it. All I said was for me I don't look at price, I start with the showcase and I couldn't tell anything from yours so lowering your price wouldn't change anything for me.

One of these days I'm going to run into you at a social or luncheon and we'll chat, maybe hit it off and if your my type we'll even play. I'm not gonna tell you I'm homer13 though until were done, at that point do you know what your going to say " oh, ah, when you comin back" cuz that's all they ever say. I'm not your type, sorry but I'm every providers type. I don't haggle, I pay sticker price or I don't bother you. I am height, weight proportional, good looking and clean (freshly showered before any session with just the right amount of cologne on) I put donation in an envelope and put it down when I come in. I accept all boundaries and am there simply for mutual pleasure. I've been offered discounts from pretty much every provider I've seen to be a regular, but I never ask for a discount. It's risky screening and seeing someone new so when you find someone who you actually want to fuck and who still's gonna pay you, that's me.......Don't believe me, pm any lady I've been with or reviewed. Which is another point, I do prompt reviews and I'm never harsh in a review, and I keep the review focused on the lady and not my dick etc... Say it like it is, don't embellish so guys see them expecting something else.

My point was made about my opinion on guys and gals. I agree with you in that I like to see a low volume provider, I have no issue with what you said. I do think it is hypocritical for any provider to say a guy see's to many ladies when she is seeing so many more guys then he will ever see in ladies.

p.s. In 90-95% of my posts they are humorous in nature or informative. Yes I have been a dick in some but haven't we all. When I feel bad though I apologize. In your thread I had heated words with a provider, I pm'd her though and apologized for it and you know what, if she ever comes to Austin I will book with her and we'll have a great session and every time she comes back close to Austin she'll pm me to come see her again. Don't read someones personality into what they post unless you are willing to read all their posts.

For the record, I don't know if your my type, we've never met. My last four providers charged 250-300 so 3 bills is also not an issue for me. Strong opinions are a turn on for me, as long as your open minded. I like intelligence in the company I keep. For me it's all about connecting with someone in a session and in life so in many ways you and I said the same thing in our post about what we like and just got disconnected when I talked about #'s.

Homer I believe she is in Austin currently or just was.

Thanks for the heads up.

I have been playing nice. Let me refresh your memory:

I ignored you when you insulted me(and in the process a few other girls) on the thread I started politely asking for feedback on my rates/volume. You said, in just about the least tactful way possible that even if I lowered my rate from 300 to 200 I still wouldn't get many calls and then made some implication that I offer inferior service/looks or both then went on to be seriously rude to another provider in my thread because she happened to disagree with you. Being that we've never met I find your infatuation with me odd and your comments to other people here to be somewhat aggressive in nature.


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=367717

Kept my mouth shut when you mention again whilst butting in on a positive review of mine that in your opinion I am not worth it and blah blah...bear in mind that judging from your reviews you seem to favor $100 or less on extras from strippers and that you and I have never met and no one asked you for your opinion on my review in the first place:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...23#post2231523

I let you be yourself here with no comment:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...10#post2138510


Didn't say anything when you took another jab at me in particular here:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=379458&page=2


After all your disparaging comments I simply told you that the feeling is mutual- if I am your type you have a funny way of showing it and it's a moot point anyway because I would likely not see someone like you for a myriad of other factors. How is that not "playing nice"? If anything I have been using you as a tool(which you are in soooo very many ways) to work on my patience.

Reya, let's play nice. I re-read my post and I don't see anything here about you or my type or your price. I believe I've only posted one thing directly to you ever and that was in response to your thread on why your not busy enough. You asked about price. I gave you my honest opinion, and wasn't mean about it. All I said was for me I don't look at price, I start with the showcase and I couldn't tell anything from yours so lowering your price wouldn't change anything for me.

One of these days I'm going to run into you at a social or luncheon and we'll chat, maybe hit it off and if your my type we'll even play. I'm not gonna tell you I'm homer13 though until were done, at that point do you know what your going to say " oh, ah, when you comin back" cuz that's all they ever say. I'm not your type, sorry but I'm every providers type. I don't haggle, I pay sticker price or I don't bother you. I am height, weight proportional, good looking and clean (freshly showered before any session with just the right amount of cologne on) I put donation in an envelope and put it down when I come in. I accept all boundaries and am there simply for mutual pleasure. I've been offered discounts from pretty much every provider I've seen to be a regular, but I never ask for a discount. It's risky screening and seeing someone new so when you find someone who you actually want to fuck and who still's gonna pay you, that's me.......Don't believe me, pm any lady I've been with or reviewed. Which is another point, I do prompt reviews and I'm never harsh in a review, and I keep the review focused on the lady and not my dick etc... Say it like it is, don't embellish so guys see them expecting something else.

My point was made about my opinion on guys and gals. I agree with you in that I like to see a low volume provider, I have no issue with what you said. I do think it is hypocritical for any provider to say a guy see's to many ladies when she is seeing so many more guys then he will ever see in ladies.

p.s. In 90-95% of my posts they are humorous in nature or informative. Yes I have been a dick in some but haven't we all. When I feel bad though I apologize. In your thread I had heated words with a provider, I pm'd her though and apologized for it and you know what, if she ever comes to Austin I will book with her and we'll have a great session and every time she comes back close to Austin she'll pm me to come see her again. Don't read someones personality into what they post unless you are willing to read all their posts.

For the record, I don't know if your my type, we've never met. My last four providers charged 250-300 so 3 bills is also not an issue for me. Strong opinions are a turn on for me, as long as your open minded. I like intelligence in the company I keep. For me it's all about connecting with someone in a session and in life so in many ways you and I said the same thing in our post about what we like and just got disconnected when I talked about #'s. Originally Posted by homer13

Who gives a shit about what was said in an old thread that you started Reya? Oh snap, you! We shouldn't hijack this thread.

You actually looked up some posts from Homer to try and make a point? I guess the boys aren't keeping you too busy these days?

sixx

I have been playing nice. Let me refresh your memory:

I ignored you when you insulted me(and in the process a few other girls) on the thread I started politely asking for feedback on my rates/volume. You said, in just about the least tactful way possible that even if I lowered my rate from 300 to 200 I still wouldn't get many calls and then made some implication that I offer inferior service/looks or both then went on to be seriously rude to another provider in my thread because she happened to disagree with you. Being that we've never met I find your infatuation with me odd and your comments to other people here to be somewhat aggressive in nature.


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=367717

Kept my mouth shut when you mention again whilst butting in on a positive review of mine that in your opinion I am not worth it and blah blah...bear in mind that judging from your reviews you seem to favor $100 or less on extras from strippers and that you and I have never met and no one asked you for your opinion on my review in the first place:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...23#post2231523

I let you be yourself here with no comment:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...10#post2138510


Didn't say anything when you took another jab at me in particular here:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=379458&page=2


After all your disparaging comments I simply told you that the feeling is mutual- if I am your type you have a funny way of showing it and it's a moot point anyway because I would likely not see someone like you for a myriad of other factors. How is that not "playing nice"? If anything I have been using you as a tool(which you are in soooo very many ways) to work on my patience.
Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

I re-read the post from your thread. I in no way insulted you or told you, you don't look good. I gave you 3 reasons, one was that I can't tell from your showcase. That is not calling you one way or another, just saying I can't tell and then also mentioned your availability. I think you read what you want to read. I was wrong in my dealings with another provider in that thread and again I sent her a pm apology which she accepted.


In the second link yes I said something about his review. I have over 700 post's and his review was lacking so I called him out on it. It was mentioned that you are a ymmv provider, not from me but others so I commented that I'm not shilling out 3 bills on a ymmv lady and your right I said something about the showcase. Read other reviews, not just yours, that what happens in them. If they are smooth and good good things and congrats are given. If they are weak, like his, or comments are made like ymmv then this is what happens. p.s. only review of yours I've ever commented in.

In your third link you and I never crossed paths, its a link about straight guys sucking dick from cody not sure why you linked that.

Last one not really a jab just statting the facts.

I'm not gonna get mean, even though you seem to like that. As I said 90-95% of my post are humorous or light in nature. I admit to being a little harsh or a dick at times as so many others are. Difference is I'll admit it and even apologize for crossing a line and make up with whoever I argued with and it is left at that. You seem to want to hold a grudge and see stuff that's not there. You want to know why your not that busy, all you have to do is read your own posts and read the responses to your own reviews. You alienate yourself from providers and hobbyist. You call me a tool, I'm not trying to fight with you. You keep missing the point that we are on the same side here, we both want a low volume person in bed with us. We both want to connect and not be on an assembly line with our partners. Why are you still trying to fight with me. I'm not arguing with you. I'm definitely not infatuated with you. When I want to see someone I send them a pm with my refs, make and appointment and see them. I have 29 reviews of which 12 are of strip club ladies where I will spend the day at one or two clubs and drop anywhere from 2-5 bills total on drinks, ladies, tips door fees etcc... My last 4 reviews are of

Layla Angelique
Marley Monroe
T!na of Dallas
Nicki Mcnasty


I also have reviewed agencies and amps and other indies. 12 out of 30 is about 33% not most. I like to spend about 33% on indies, 33% on clubs and 33% on amps and agencies.

Again I have no idea of who is or isn't my type until I put the effort in to make a decision. When I do I send out pm's and make appointments. You say for a miarad of reasons but again if you ever meet me and don't know who I am, trust me I am most providers type. But it is a mute point, I would never schedule with someone I've had any animosity with that wasn't resolved as it might effect the fantasy I'm looking for.

Good luck to you, no hard feelings on this end but you don't want to end up like some of the other providers on here having to pick fights just to get attention cuz you've alienated yourself and no ones callin.

30 a month seems pretty high volume. thats 360 a year, that's a whole lotta dick.

I like to see providers that see only one client a day and only a few a week. They charge more to be this volume but that's fine if the level of personalizeation and service match the price.

I guess it depends on your definition of low volume. I've heard it range anywhere from "1 a day/3x week" to "as long as it's under 30 a month".

I don't think having 100 reviews over say 5 years would be "high volume" though unless we've come up with a mathematical formula showing that for every review the girl saw x clients Have we? Maybe we should Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

Back on point... pitching a tent on her front yard, holding up a "I dig you dig me" sign may be a bit creepy.

Just saying.

Back on point... pitching a tent on her front yard, holding up a "I dig you dig me" sign may be a bit creepy.

Just saying.

Originally Posted by rrrabbit

That's definitely creepy but how is it back to the point????????