Why keep asking?

At least I’m honest about it instead of waisting time.

Casey Originally Posted by casey_carlin

Don’t waist your time giving any more explanation as if you had to, because you most certainly don’t. Originally Posted by suiram77

while I agree with both of you completely, it might be time to invest in a better "spellcheck", LOL

So I have had several gentlemen contact me for an appt and for different reasons I have decided they aren’t my cup of tea. What I don’t get is them continuing to contact me to get an appt.

It’s like they forgot I told them I wasn’t interested in seeing them. Why hound me when there are so many providers out there they can see? Do they think if they wait a few weeks I will change my mind?

What’s the deal? No means no.

Casey Originally Posted by casey_carlin

Because there Fucktards try being a little mean & they will leave you alone...

Your husband isn't much of one if his wife is turning tricks. You should divorce him. Nice treAD btw. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

He was one of my clients long ago. He knew what he was getting into when he married a provider.

Casey

while I agree with both of you completely, it might be time to invest in a better "spellcheck", LOL Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Haha my stupid phone changes my words all the time. It’s Apples fault.

Some men get off on crossing boundaries. The second you put your foot down, you're labeled as a crazy bitch.

Are you talking no AA policy? As long as the men are clean, sober, and pay their bill you shouldn't have an issue seeing them. Remember, this is a business first and foremost. It's personal choice when posting on match and eharminy. It's discrimination when advertising in the business world. We have enough discrimination in the world without providers engaging in it too. Originally Posted by MW76

You are wrong, and then a troll.

Can you tell us what makes them not your “cup of tea “? Does your no leave any wiggle room or glimmer of hope. Rejection is hard and often we read things between the lines that are not there. Originally Posted by 1anchor

Just go with the "no". This is not dating, there is no rejection. With a simple "no" there are no between the lines to misinterpret.

No she was asking why don’t they get it. Originally Posted by 1anchor

Casey was being nice. Casey knows very well that fucktards will be fucktards.

I tell them why. I don’t beat around the bush not my game.

One rejection was due to not wanting to text or call for directions. My suggestion was to get a hobby phone or use an app. I like to be in contact with the people visiting me the day of our appt. Another was because he kept insisting I offer a QV. Several insist I see them after my stated hours, and one his referral never got back to me and he keeps telling me to trust him because he’s safe. Oh and if your a jackass on the board that’s a huge nope.

I tell all of them there are so many providers out there that would love to see you. I have 4 hrs a week to spend with clients and I choose people I feel are going to have a good time together.

And just for FYI I have never not taken anyone based on race. That is not the way I choose my clients.

Casey Originally Posted by casey_carlin

I'm so glad you brought this up today. I was going to maybe start a thread about the same thing.

I have a guy that I JUST looked up how to block him from emailing me. I got 75 emails from him in the last two days with him BEGGING and begging for me to see him and that he finally has a reference.
He has been emailing me since June, and I always tell him I need a reference to verify him.
Finally he gets one about a week ago, she never replies.
He got a new one, took him about five emails to finally tell me who she is. She verified him (which I was still hesitant to actually arrange seeing this guy since he has been up my ass - I say that due to the barrage of begging emails) and I let him know I got him verified.

My incall is not set up for the guy to come to my door. So he was wigging out that I needed to find a way for him to come to my door because he can't email or text from his phone to let me know when he's arrived.

I actually asked another provider to use her incall, which she agreed, and he was still a moron.

It was about 10++ exchanges trying to figure out how long, what time, and he of course had to haggle.

Then about 20 minutes later he is asking me the same questions I already confirmed.

So I tried to convey to him as nicely as possible, that I don't think I can be objective when he comes to see me. I appreciate that he likes me so much, but also considering not being able to communicate, and the barrage of emails with the begging, I'm sure there will be no chemistry.

Begging is such a turn off.

For some reason as I read through this thread, I kept thinking of fags and wedding cakes.

Oh right, there it is, right of refusal.

I ask for some freaky shit sometimes, I don't do reviews, so I rarely get references. But whatever, you either want to see me or not. If not, thank you ma'am and have a great day.

I may be a new or whatever but this shit ain't rocket science. Casey can see who she wants, refuse who she wants and if you are offended by that then, it really sucks to be you.

By the way, I am no WK, I have never contacted Casey. I just find this interesting and sad that dudes get all shitty about discrimination on a hooker board.

while I agree with both of you completely, it might be time to invest in a better "spellcheck", LOL Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Thanks Chung was driving lol Waste

Cmon...the boys only lost because denver scored more points.

When you frame what I said like it's tantamount to rape, obviously it sounds bad.

Its more like the highschool nerd who keeps asking the cheerleader out to prom even though she has said no everytime in the past. The jock who she was going with decided to go with someone else last minute. The nerd asked one last time and ended up taking her to prom.

When we are told no, we both go down the road. However, you absolutely know that a lot of girl's "no" on this board are very fleeting especially at the end of the month. Originally Posted by grean

Misogynist arsehole answers like that are what he was talking about. So, what you are saying is that it's the victim's fault because sometimes they change their mind.
No wonder we can't have nice things here. That's one of the reasons the other providers have walked from here. Too many game players.

Your husband isn't much of one if his wife is turning tricks. You should divorce him. Nice treAD btw. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

Yeah, and this is the right place to be judgmental on that issue. You would have no clue what kind of a husband she has. Neither do I.
It always amazes me how stupidly judgmental whoremongers can be.

Begging is such a turn off. Originally Posted by tntangie

Hell, begging was like a sexual position when I was young.

I don't mean to sound like a creepy weirdo guy by saying this, but I don't think there's anything wrong with a little persistence. It's taken me 3-4 tries to see some ladies, but, when I finally got through and saw her, we both had a good time. Multiple visits ensued. This has happened with more than one provider. Hell, they've even leaned on me for real life favors, and apologizing for those initial, not so pleasant first contacts.

My point here is, not every guy that is a little persistent is a douchebag. At the same time, how many of you ladies have had guys that you thought were the greatest hobbyists ever, only to do something stupid and get on your shit list??

Just saying.

Edit: And board personas are overrated. I've heard more than once from providers, "You're nothing like in person how you seem on the boards." We adopt identities on this board, which may or may not be who we really are. Bruce Wayne and Batman are two completely different personas, but they are played by the same person.

I know, right?.. I've had ladies say, "Tran, you're not near the Jackass I thought you would be"!