If you're married, hypothetically...

I saw a couple a while back. The wife liked to watch. The husband would fuck me, and the wife would masturbate. It was interesting, but pretty hot. I am pretty sure he watched her get fucked too.

I some what disagree...I promise if my GF gave it up 4-5 times a week and did BBJ DT CIM like in the beginning, I would not cheat.. In the past I would just watch porn. But now she's always talking to me. I can't get the alone time. There's also the addiction part.. I'm setting there thinking I should be saving and putting this into my on-line trading account and bam I see a post with some nice tits, a great ass, or a cameltoe which really does it, then I can resist. I make the appointment. Afterwards, I shake my head why do I do this. My GF is beautiful, perfect in every way. I should save this money. Two days later I do it again. It's an addiction and I know it. Originally Posted by DrBWC

Man oh man took words right out my mouth...
And yes we are all addicted to this !!

I wish Leslie would see me..

addicted. Still trying to quit. Been trying to quit even after the SO found out a few years back. We worked it out but i'm still here. We all truly value and love our family but the urges are strong. Not sure why.

Divorced for other reasons. I regret nothing. I Work on the road, she found somebody else. Well, surprise surprise!

I just stop caring for all the SO requirements to get some. I dont know if she is getting it somewhere else but i really dont care i hope she does since it makes me feel lees guilty. Havent said that am having the time of my life with my eccie and SA girls

If only a provider would marry me...

^^^^ same results after a while i guess

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

If he cheated with you, there is no hope for us men!

If only a provider would marry me... Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Unfortunately, when women say I Do they mean I do, except that.

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Men want different experiences, it's nothing personal or didn't mean that he wasn't into you

I think most men say their wives aren't giving it up, when the really are, to get sympathy and avoid guilt. I was married for 14 + years and was ALWAYS accommodating to my spouse. He cheated anyway. His excuse was that I wasn't emotionally nurturing. There will be excuses made to cheat no matter what's going on at home. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I somewhat agree. Sex at home is great. But I like most men want the variety and thrill of something new with no strings attached. plus we want to fulfill certain fantasies and bucket lists that we are just not comfortable doing with our SO. Just keep it straight up bizz and do your bucket lists.

I suspect my SO knows, but won’t leave me for financial and kid reasons. She may later on who knows. In all honesty, my biggest fear isn’t getting caught by SO, its her finding how much I spend. If she knew that, there would be hell to pay.

I have been married twice, that was once too many times. When I find myself happy and content, I just think, I might get married again cuz I am tired of being happy.

In all honesty, my biggest fear isn’t getting caught by SO, its her finding how much I spend. If she knew that, there would be hell to pay. Originally Posted by Doug4343

+1 I could be woefully underestimating the situation, but my sentiments exactly.


I've been married a long time, and over that time, passion and desire have succumb to boredom and predictability. After a moderate amount of coaxing, my SO will provide a tug pretty much anytime, but it usually comes across as dutiful. I can't recall the last time SHE initiated contact.



Even if it's an illusion, with a provider, sometimes it is great to feel desired.