I couldnt agree more with OBSG, THN and others ... It would be safer for all to know that info without speculations ... Lickher as mentioned and BigDog are a clear example ..., This information runs in the backchannels, but many people don't have access to that ...
And for everyones peace of mind, it would be fair to know why a member was BANNED FOR LIFE ... When I see that, my mind thinks the worst like: OMG, WHAT DID THEY DO ... WAS SOMEONE OUTED? ...
Originally Posted by DarthDVader
Generally speaking, if I suspect someone is obviously a retread for a banned handle, I just hit the RTM button and tell the staff my suspicions and why. I have noticed the staff does take note and investigate at to some level. I suspect I am often not the only one to RTM a suspect handle.
I know some think I am an asshole when a provider returns to the board after a commuted lifetime ban when she is guilty of outing someone and I mention it one time in one of their public threads and /or a reminder in the men's lounge when she posts her return.
Maybe these girls would handle their pissed off actions differently now, but I do not take a risk with a history of them outing someone publicly. Maybe I shouldn't fear it as I don't seem to get caught up in the imbroglio that some do that leads to them getting outed.
However, as a binge reader/poster, maybe a list of infractions, or at least a list of outings would be handy. I think limiting it to outings / ripoffs would be a good start. i don't keep up with all the board drama all the time and it would give me a quick place to check/screen a potential date.
I think for the most part, that is what the members here would be most disdainful of at first while screening a potential date. I wouldn't care if a gal got points for what would amount to petty violations of the guidelines and terms of service; i.e. ad violations, insulting posts, etc..
Sincerely,
GQ