When I tour, I am willing to get up very early IF my last appt wasn't a late night one. If I have a early am first, I'm not going to schedule a late night.
I truly try to be as accomidating to my potential clients as possible.
Some of us have other "lives" we have to live, such as real jobs, families etc that must take priority.
Clarity in the questions we ask can be the difference of making a date or not. That also goes for us ladies! I know I am not always 100% clear. Communication & respect is the key!
- TheHorseTrainer
- 03-27-2011, 06:12 AM
- HoneyRose
- 03-27-2011, 09:32 AM
It's so funny that guys think most ladies have more than one appointment per day. I know many ladies who are like me and keep their rates at a level that will keep the volume down to about one per day.
(Before anyone comments on this, yes, I am offering a Monday special but that's because I'm now paying for use of my incall on Mondays whether anyone books or not so it tends to just sit there empty. Mondays are an unpopular day to hobby.)
Typically I go to the gym in the morning (unless someone scheduled an a.m. appointment the night before). I come home and work in the garden/go through the mail/do some housework, and wait to take my bath/do makeup/fix hair until one hour before my appointment. So even if someone is seeing me at 2:00 or 4:00 I'm fresh and he's the "first" (and only) date of the day.
As far as feeling insulted if they ask~~ naw! I'm happy to be asked for a date regardless of the precise wording
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(Before anyone comments on this, yes, I am offering a Monday special but that's because I'm now paying for use of my incall on Mondays whether anyone books or not so it tends to just sit there empty. Mondays are an unpopular day to hobby.)
Typically I go to the gym in the morning (unless someone scheduled an a.m. appointment the night before). I come home and work in the garden/go through the mail/do some housework, and wait to take my bath/do makeup/fix hair until one hour before my appointment. So even if someone is seeing me at 2:00 or 4:00 I'm fresh and he's the "first" (and only) date of the day.
As far as feeling insulted if they ask~~ naw! I'm happy to be asked for a date regardless of the precise wording
.- vnurse
- 03-27-2011, 01:45 PM
Hmmm....I always thought the gentlemen were asking for the first appointment of the day because that was the time they had free to come visit. Maybe I was right, maybe not.
I have never felt weird when anyone asks me "Am I the first of the day?". Sometimes they are and sometimes they aren't. The thing is, I may have done one or two therapeutic sessions so I'd still be "fresh" for "fun". LOL!
It's all good but like stated earlier: "where are all these unclean girls coming from?"...
I have never felt weird when anyone asks me "Am I the first of the day?". Sometimes they are and sometimes they aren't. The thing is, I may have done one or two therapeutic sessions so I'd still be "fresh" for "fun". LOL!
It's all good but like stated earlier: "where are all these unclean girls coming from?"...
- LazurusLong
- 03-27-2011, 02:17 PM
Ryan,
Look at it this way from your perspective as a sex worker.
With the Blue Steel or other ED med such as Cialis, there are plenty of guys who would be able to see multiple partners in a given short time slot.
How comfortable would you feel if a client walked in the door and you knew he had just left another appointment and wanted a BBBJ? Sure, he could claim he had showered but unless there was an odor, would you really know?
How comfortable are you with performing sexual activities if the client JUST left another sex worker and the only break in time was the drive from that appointment to yours?
A lot of clients who want "first out of the gate" are hoping that they will not be getting naked with a provider who has just been with someone else where the meaning of the phrase "just with someone else" is flexible depending on her scheduling and could be as few as 5 minutes or maybe an hour or the next day.
As guys, we can't just lube it up and fuck and pretend to have fun. If something is off in our brains, maybe a nagging suspicion that she just banged some right before she opened the door for him, some guys won't get wood and be able to reach the goal.
Back in the days of the studios like OES, VIP Sweet and Studio 1 being huge in Dallas, there weren't showers for many years and so the guy had to accept the fact the women there obviously were NOT fresh no matter how many wet wipes they used to try and wash that cookie.
It was a HUGE deal when they all got showers so the girls could wash off but also so the guys could be sent to shower if needed,
Showers for the working girls at least gave the impression they were clean but given how the owners of the studios didn't enforce showers between appointments and don't now at the current ones, seeing an Indy is a work around for that.
Bottom line is that if a guy needs to get it in his brain that he'll be the first one at the playground that day, great. See him first slot.
Look at it this way from your perspective as a sex worker.
With the Blue Steel or other ED med such as Cialis, there are plenty of guys who would be able to see multiple partners in a given short time slot.
How comfortable would you feel if a client walked in the door and you knew he had just left another appointment and wanted a BBBJ? Sure, he could claim he had showered but unless there was an odor, would you really know?
How comfortable are you with performing sexual activities if the client JUST left another sex worker and the only break in time was the drive from that appointment to yours?
A lot of clients who want "first out of the gate" are hoping that they will not be getting naked with a provider who has just been with someone else where the meaning of the phrase "just with someone else" is flexible depending on her scheduling and could be as few as 5 minutes or maybe an hour or the next day.
As guys, we can't just lube it up and fuck and pretend to have fun. If something is off in our brains, maybe a nagging suspicion that she just banged some right before she opened the door for him, some guys won't get wood and be able to reach the goal.
Back in the days of the studios like OES, VIP Sweet and Studio 1 being huge in Dallas, there weren't showers for many years and so the guy had to accept the fact the women there obviously were NOT fresh no matter how many wet wipes they used to try and wash that cookie.
It was a HUGE deal when they all got showers so the girls could wash off but also so the guys could be sent to shower if needed,
Showers for the working girls at least gave the impression they were clean but given how the owners of the studios didn't enforce showers between appointments and don't now at the current ones, seeing an Indy is a work around for that.
Bottom line is that if a guy needs to get it in his brain that he'll be the first one at the playground that day, great. See him first slot.
- Adonis
- 03-27-2011, 03:46 PM
I'm up at 4AM so the earlier the better or I'll be falling asleep. lol
- Tiger Woods
- 03-27-2011, 07:57 PM
can I have your second to last appointment on Monday?
- Mariah Moore
- 03-27-2011, 08:03 PM
So guys why do you ask?
- Sami
- 03-27-2011, 08:56 PM
- j73db
- 03-27-2011, 09:30 PM
Interesting thread. First appointment or not does not matter to me as long as the lady is fresh and ready
- bkat6049
- 03-29-2011, 02:22 PM
Some of us old farts are gonna qake up between 4 and 5 AM daily... Just the way it is...
But as I've said before, there is nothing sexier than showing up to meet a young lady early in the morning and she greets you, still a little sleepy, hair a little damp, covered with the fresh soap smell in an over size t-shirt and nothing else on....
Holy shit.... I'm getting a semi moist half chub!!!!
But as I've said before, there is nothing sexier than showing up to meet a young lady early in the morning and she greets you, still a little sleepy, hair a little damp, covered with the fresh soap smell in an over size t-shirt and nothing else on....
Holy shit.... I'm getting a semi moist half chub!!!!
- Randall Creed
- 03-29-2011, 05:28 PM
Here are some personal reasons on why you want to be first (names will not be mentioned to protect the guilty):
I've tasted someone else's breath on a provider's tits before.
Going to wash up in the bathroom, only to see ALLLLLL the towels have been used. big towels, lil towels, and the ones in between.
As we're wrapping up a session, in comes a call.
Her on the phone: Hello. Yes. How far away are you? 5 minutes is fine. Oh, you're already here? OK. Come on over.
So here I am, hitting the turbo button getting dressed, so as not to ruin his illusion and seeing me leaving on the way out.
I've also been on the other end where a provider held off a client because I wanted to extend from a half hour to an hour (my bad, dude...whomever that was).
Ladies, if you can get away with scheduling appts close to each other, knock yourself out. At a minimum, I want the ILLUSION that I'm the first one you've seen all day, regardless of what time it is. That means looking and smelling like you've just freshened up FOR ME, clean linen and towels. If we showed up with our dicks, mouths, and clothes smelling like another provider's pussy, would YOU ALL be OK with that??
I've tasted someone else's breath on a provider's tits before.
Going to wash up in the bathroom, only to see ALLLLLL the towels have been used. big towels, lil towels, and the ones in between.
As we're wrapping up a session, in comes a call.
Her on the phone: Hello. Yes. How far away are you? 5 minutes is fine. Oh, you're already here? OK. Come on over.
So here I am, hitting the turbo button getting dressed, so as not to ruin his illusion and seeing me leaving on the way out.
I've also been on the other end where a provider held off a client because I wanted to extend from a half hour to an hour (my bad, dude...whomever that was).
Ladies, if you can get away with scheduling appts close to each other, knock yourself out. At a minimum, I want the ILLUSION that I'm the first one you've seen all day, regardless of what time it is. That means looking and smelling like you've just freshened up FOR ME, clean linen and towels. If we showed up with our dicks, mouths, and clothes smelling like another provider's pussy, would YOU ALL be OK with that??
- advenchurus
- 03-29-2011, 09:16 PM
I must have missed it, but no one used the most obvious double entendre to set an appt? Ryan, you asked for a fun way to put it.
Dear, I'm an early riser, join me?
Dear, I'm an early riser, join me?
- Will Boner
- 03-30-2011, 10:37 AM
Fact is, we have no way of knowing if a provider washes up before seeing someone. We just assume that if we are the first appointment of the day, then, well hopefully she does clean up before starting her day (but that's not always guaranteed either).
Look at it this way: If we're seeing you in the afternoon or evening there is a chance we're not your first appointment of the day, and again, unless we know you or have seen you before, we have no idea of your hygiene habits. In the unknown situation, we could be diving in for DATY and well, I leave that for your imagination...........
Look at it this way: If we're seeing you in the afternoon or evening there is a chance we're not your first appointment of the day, and again, unless we know you or have seen you before, we have no idea of your hygiene habits. In the unknown situation, we could be diving in for DATY and well, I leave that for your imagination...........
- spaceneedle
- 03-30-2011, 11:01 AM
The bottom line is: guys hate sloppy seconds.
Ok, i said it, in very simple term.
Ok, i said it, in very simple term.