WTF?? Why?

I've been hobbling for sometime. Originally Posted by Whodwho

So you have been "hobbling what does that have to do with the hobby and Providers looks.

Ladies wear what you want or nothing at all. But if you are not fresh and clean and look like or better than your pics well you figure it out.

Unless requests are made.. I tend to dress in what makes me feel sexy and comfortable. I am more of a t-shirt and panties type girl...but I do make sure that my hair and make up are done. I don't wear much make up anyway. I do agree..if you want a certain thing you have to ask. A lot of us ladies have a regular clientele who have asked us to do what makes us comfortable..and that can cause a lady to get set in her ways.
Just ask...the worst she can say is No.

So you have been "hobbling what does that have to do with the hobby and Providers looks.

Ladies wear what you want or nothing at all. But if you are not fresh and clean and look like or better than your pics well you figure it out. Originally Posted by dominos

Glad you're smart enough to know that hobbling was a type error because I sure would hate to spend a lot of time explaining it.

Noted. My expectations and standards must be higher than others.

agreed! so, just go visit providers who do that for you. and quit visiting ones who dont.
simple as that. [i understand research may not reveal that for you, but it usually does]


"what we got here is a failure to communicate!" -the sherrif in "cool hand luke"







Whodwho, i'm w/ invisible on this. - if you didnt let her know what you wanted and/or hoped for, then you have less of a leg to stand on.

there's hope, expect, desire, want, need. and they are all different.
for me, the only thing i hope for is she's there.
i expect her to be alive.
i desire and want some delites.
but i dont really need this.

since there is NOT a standard manual, set of procedures, or policies for a provider to learn from and follow, there is NO standard about any of the many details (large and small) of being a provider, her looks, behavior, activities, arranging of appts, her place, etc.

so, if it didnt work out like you thought it might go, you could let her know [doesnt usually have a good ROI].
or just dont go see her again. and you could let guys know about it in the lounge.

but, if she advertised or communicated certain things and didnt live up to them, write a review so others can know about her [keep it matter of fact w/out being disrespectul or being a jerk].

hope you find what you are looking for! [seriously] Originally Posted by pmdelites

But you really can't go wrong answering the door naked ijs lol

Well I disagree SP, I'd love to meet you. Butt, I love to see a lady in clothes so I can appreciate the hot babe I'm going to spend time with. My thoughts are clothes (panties) are the perfect wrapping for the perfect gift.

Btw, was this another shot at the maid

Unless requests are made.. I tend to dress in what makes me feel sexy and comfortable. I am more of a t-shirt and panties type girl...but I do make sure that my hair and make up are done. I don't wear much make up anyway. I do agree..if you want a certain thing you have to ask. A lot of us ladies have a regular clientele who have asked us to do what makes us comfortable..and that can cause a lady to get set in her ways.
Just ask...the worst she can say is No. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

And thats why your the best...

To answer the op's question, if they answer door in pj's or look like they don't care, then they don't care. They don't want to be there, they are in it for the money only.

I always ask my clients what their outfit/shoes request is when I text my address. I've had so many different requests usually it's lingerie stockings and heels. Heck, one guy liked yoga pants, one loved granny panties, and one wanted me to come in capris and a t-shirt dressed like a soccer mom.

Communicate, communicate , communicate !!!!

Good thread!!

I've been hobbling for sometime and know a lot of providers and fellow hobbiest but my question is this... If I take the time to get manscaped for a session why do some providers not even bother to beautify themselves. I mean I get waxed, manicure, fresh haircut, wash my ass twice before the meet , spray myself with lovely fragrance put lotion on my body and dress as if I was going to a dinner party. Wash my car and shine my shoes but some providers can't even put on a little bit of makeup or even some pretty lipstick !??? WTF!?

Ladies if you get professional photos done with your hair nicely done and your makeup applied as best you can for the photos why on earth would you want to look different she. You meet us? Pajamas and house slippers will not do it any more.

If your rates are increasing you should at least look presentable for the date!

Now remember this is not referring to every one of you. Just the ones that choose to look below the standard look.

Nothing better than to get your knob polished by a sexy beautiful woman with very pretty lipstick. Originally Posted by Whodwho

I have lipstick on in some of my photos, but the majority of my clients are married or have an SO, so it is silly of me to wear nice red lip gloss in a session. I might have clear lip gloss on, but really, do I need to ruin my client's life because he hugged me when he arrived and got red lip gloss on his shirt. Or got red on his cock? Be reasonable.

Unless requests are made.. I tend to dress in what makes me feel sexy and comfortable. I am more of a t-shirt and panties type girl...but I do make sure that my hair and make up are done. I don't wear much make up anyway. I do agree..if you want a certain thing you have to ask. A lot of us ladies have a regular clientele who have asked us to do what makes us comfortable..and that can cause a lady to get set in her ways.
Just ask...the worst she can say is No. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

I totally agree.

Most times I wear bra, panties and a shear robe. I have light to medium make up. But usually not much on my lips.

But, occasionally I'm a t-shirt and panties type. I like it. My boobs like it.

But, occasionally I'm a t-shirt and panties type. I like it. My boobs like it. Originally Posted by tntangie

And we like your boobs!

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I think it's called the real ec world. If she's hot she's hot if she's not....

Attachment 466469 Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Rules to live by.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X81AoBcVnaA

I always look sexy and elegant or my dates. A classy dress, high heels, or jeans and nice blouse, etc. Sometimes I wear tennis attire. I never put a lot of make up and I know I don't look bad. I rarely put any lipstick on. In my daily life, I do not like wearing makeup. Nobody ever complains so far. I have gotten request to put on red lipsticks before and I didn't mind it.
My regulars who have known me for years prefer me to be myself. I see them without make up and they still think I am beautiful.