Sadly, there are still many people in this world who still have an issue with "blacks"/"other races"... thus a lot of them are looking for ladies who do not see AA men.. and like it or not, there are more of them out there then you realize.
I have had men call and ask "do you see black men?" --- ((and by the sound of them, they were not black))... and when I say "of corse".. they hang up.
Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE
Yes...This seems like the most common reason, other than "The Pimp" thing.
It really doesn't bother me ....
PERIOD! Growing up AA in the 70's and 80's our parents taught us that there are certain things you should not do.
1. The Police pull you over..STFU and do what they ask you to do.
2. Don't talk back to the Police.
3. Don't drive around in a "high end" neighborhood at night.
4. When you walk into an elevator and there are non-AA women in it, they are going to grab their purses a little tighter
5. Don't stop anywhere in Vidor.
Like JAD said there is a HUGE thread on this in the National Forum and I am sure Dorian Grey is going to chime in!?