My incall situation

Ok, whatever you say. A guy needs to trust that I'm not going to run away with a monthly allowance after one date. Trust takes time. I've discussed exclusivity with some people and it's an option. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Where and please quote where I said you would run off with money?

You are a hooker.
Not a sugar baby.

You get paid by the hour for sex.
If someone gives you more for the same thing you are selling to someone else they are a sucker.

Hookers will find marks and label them whatever they want to benefit themselves.

Hence, you are a hooker looking for a sucker.

Whatever you say.

Back a month or so ago I took a two week hiatus from eccie. My account was deleted (and later reinstated). I was discussing an exclusive arrangement with someone at the time. I understand what it is all about. There have been a handful of times I have negotiated an allowance between 4-6k per month with the plans of it being exclusive. They all fell through rather quickly. It's simple. If someone is giving a small allowance or is only able to see me once a month then there's no way I'm going to promise exclusivity. These men know that they're not the only partner I have. I am very open about it. The man in my life whom I have the closest emotional connection with right now is someone I met on a sugar site and he knows all about me being a provider. We are very honest with each other. I met him before I joined eccie or started providing and when I joined here I told him. Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Which means you are a hooker.
If you are asking for 4-6 k a month you are asking for 48000 - 72000 a year tax free of someone earned income.

I am telling you right now that you have never ever in your entire life ever got that from anyone.

You over price yourself as an exclusive "Sugar baby" please notice and understand what the quotes mean.

If you really think that you would get that much I can see why it only lasts a couple weeks from your "Sugar daddy"

To someone that has been exclusive with a girl for 4 years or since she was 18 I find your posts about it amusing.

You will fool the people that have never been a sugar daddy but you never in your life would fool a real one.

You are a hooker looking for a mark.

Out of all the people in this world you would be one of the last I would pay 70,000 to for exclusive lol.

You are funny.

Yawn.

What is this guy saying that is not true?

I'm not going to get into it because I don't want to stir the pot, but no he is not spot on about everything. He has spoken about his experience and I have spoken about mine. I'm not here trying to discredit his lived experiences, yet he thinks he knows what I've been through so well.

Yes I am a hooker. I don't deny it. I joined this site at the end of July and that is when I started. I've been on sugar sites for over a year. I'm not sure what struck a cord with him but I hope that he finds peace in his life and stops feeling the need to attack strangers on the Internet.

Also when I was a newbie sugar baby I didn't go into it with allowance expectations. I listened to the offers that were given to me and pretty much stuck with that.

I don't even think you two particularly disagree, other than him being incredulous about what you are maintaining you can command in terms of $$$.

You admitted you're a hook. I think that's more than most would do. Good for you.

And in case anyone doesn't already know this, the only reason I am able to get the attention I do as both an escort and a sugar baby is because I am in the BDSM lifestyle. Good subs are hard to come by. If I was just another vanilla girl I probably wouldn't make enough to make it worth it. Doms pay the premium.

What does $6000 a month buy

It really depends on the type of arrangement/relationship he's looking for. There are a lot of married SDs but most of the men who are willing to drop that much are really looking for more of a spoiled girlfriend. So it is a real relationship, the girl is just supported. There are also some scenerios where the girl is a kept mistress. Part of the reason why such a high allowance needs to be paid is because these are high-powered and very busy men. They never seem to be local to me so they want me to be available to go visit them whenever they have the free time. They also want a girl who is available for travel -- either personal or business related. So her having her own career becomes inconvenient for him and a lot of multi-millionaires just prefer to support her so she is available to him whenever he wants her.

But 6k would give exclusivity, potential for complete open availability for him, potential for relocation if it is a serious relationship, unlimited dates including overnights, full weekends, full weeks. Lots of texting/pictures/Skype in between meetings.

It should be noted that regardless of $$ I wouldn't enter into a real relationship with someone I wasn't interested in, even if they fully supported me.

And I don't want it to sound like all men who are willing to pay 6k a month are looking for a girlfriend instead of a more casual sugar baby, that has just been my experience and who has contacted me.

That sounds much like a girlfriend, or a side piece.

Yeah I was really surprised by the amount of men on the sugar sites who are looking for a girlfriend. Like committed, long term relationship.

I could see that working for one so inclined if it meant a steady, satisfactory supply of pussy that could be turned on and turned off like a faucet.

The issue for the hook, I would imagine, is the likelihood that you may be dropped on your head with zero notice.

It sounds like a better job than working at home depot or the mall, but with zero job security.

I wonder if in the long run ordinary hooking is more lucrative.

For me personally, I would need the monthly allowance for a few months before I agreed to leaving my vanilla job. The only exception would be if he gave me a larger lump sum. The reason being that obviously I need to give it some time to see how stable and secure I think it will be, but primarily because I would need extra money to put away in an account that I wouldn't touch until things with us ended. That way I would have 10k or so set aside for if he drops me.