NCNS (even NS) can be more damaging than just gas money.
I work by the hour, and I work my ass off. There have been occasions I cancelled or "didn't attend" a meeting or obligation that I was going to get paid for. Now....this is my own personal choice and I live with it. Sometimes, I can make up the work at another time (stay up late) and sometimes the chance for the revenue is gone....lost. But,...again...my choice.
However, recently I changed a four hour meeting into a 1 hour phone call so that I could see a provider that I'd been trying to hook up with. Last minute,...car trouble. I did receive the call and I even offered to come help her but a cousin was coming. But still....I was pissed at the situation...I lost three hours pay for that. I still love the lady and understand shit happens....but it cost me a bunch of money.
I can tell other stories....but the effort is futile. Just understand that either side not fulfilling the commitment is A BAD THING.
An No...I usually don't make a Plan B. If I wanted to fuck Plan B, I would have scheduled with Plan B.
Anyway...maybe I'm rambling. No time to make it perfect today.
Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
Real Talk GS!
I had a lunch date today. Plan for one time, and then changed to another. She was going to be later than the second time we planned for, so, I said never mind. Called up my UTR (even though I wasn't schedule to see her until Friday), she showed up 45 minutes later for a Patel outcall 10 minutes from me... Can't ever go wrong with her!!! Look at my avatar and you will see her at the bottom. ;-)