It's amazing what passes for "ok" by some ladies... if I see a client and there's anything going on in the situation that I think I should have been told, I'll reply back to the lady after the date and let her know so she can update her mental file, in case he uses her as a reference as well. Sometimes he may have caused her no problems, but used her good word to go and be a hellion to other girls. This has happened to me, and I wish someone had told me sooner.
On the original subject, I visit plenty of my clients at their homes, especially those that live relatively rurally as taking the travel out of the tryst is a convenience I like to offer them. Just like we ladies do our research, I certainly *hope* all you guys do the same! I should be comfortable walking into your home, and you should feel comfortable inviting me. I'd think that's a no brainer. And let's be honest... most quality ladies know that there's far greater benefit to maintaining a good reputation here than there would be in robbing a house after the fact. I'm shocked that apparently some people see that as a real option and/or threat.
Safety is of course a concern, but hopefully most of that is taken care of by screening well. I prefer outcalls in general for discretion. Unless you're on a Charlie Sheen style bender, chances are most ladies are going to be having a lot more visitors to their locations than a man is... and therefore outcalls are less likely to raise the eyebrows of anyone other than those involved. Just think, what if you're the 5th guy walking into a notell room that afternoon and housekeeping finally decides they've had enough? Do you have a handy excuse as to why you were there?
To me, this doesn't seem like an incall/outcall issue, just one of general safety and educated consumerism.
~Mme X~