I QUIT to make sure I Quit I’m going to commit Hobby suicide

someone call the waaaaaaaaaaambulance

Shut up, Tig!

Tig:

Nothing wrong with your preferences in ladies (girls, actually...) but along with those preferences there are drawbacks. Seeking the hot youngsters is kind of like driving a Ferrari versus a Honda....the Ferrari is sexy, fast and exciting. But reliability is sometimes an issue, and the maintenance is ridiculous. The Honda however, is good looking, reliable, and requires very little effort to own...you simply enjoy driving it!

I will agree with the others, naming names would have been nice, and surely the typical pimp/WK defense network would have arrived on the scene.

Lastly, maybe view your hiatus as a step back...a sabbatical...a retreat. I have always said when the hobby becomes more aggravation than fun, it's time to step back.

All the best!

TP

Tig,
Your problem is in the first sentence--18-22. IMHO, and good luck.

tiggold,

Without one single name in this entire thread, this has to be the biggest waste of time for the guys who wish to avoid that same level of drama and bullshit.

Unless and until you REVIEW or post NCNS threads, you can continue to find escorts pulling the same shit over and over and over and new ATM cards (guys with cash) will continue to get treated this way.

Only YOU can help stop this in the tracks. Originally Posted by LazurusLong

+1 and an Amen
But given how Tig (at first) said he'd make a full disclosure in the ML and then reneged shows that this post is all about him, and his need to whine.

i fail to see how this is hobby suicide.

instead I am voting to revoke your mancard

no review to me means you give up the right to bitch.

Randy

3) Yes we all want what we can't have. (Who here doesn't want a virgin or to be the first)
Originally Posted by tiggold

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someone call the waaaaaaaaaaambulance Originally Posted by rex4998

i mean seriously, who cares imo its your fault for not seeing well reviewed providers but hey i understand that guys like "fresh pussy" and thats fine but be prepared for these type of things to happen if thats the route you choose to take.

i fail to see how this is hobby suicide.

instead I am voting to revoke your mancard

no review to me means you give up the right to bitch. Originally Posted by monkmonk

+1

EXACTLY.
I can't possibly be the only one seeing through this.... Originally Posted by MaggieSinead

Soooo ... what is it that you see? Here's a guy who has been around for awhile. He has an established reputation and yet, you see through the facade so easily. Imo ... you need to get out more.

I read the thread yesterday. I agree with the postings which tend to put this on the preference for very young providers. I understand the appeal of the young, perky provider. I just tend to prefer the company of the mature lady. And ladies who have history of pleasing clients in that special way ... are the most appealing of all.

But it isn't like Tig just started doing this. Perhaps he's a bit like the canary in the coal mine, serving as a warning to others. I do think there seems to be an influx of young ladies calling them providers who ... I dunno, have a disconnect with how I see the role.

The "I do what I love and love what I do" is swell .. as far as it goes. But there seems to be a population of providers who appear to think, "Hey .. I'm doing it anyway ... might as well make some extra money at the same time". And I'm thinking that the median age of that population is in Tig's preferential age area.

Scary chiller theater, children. That just puts more emphasis on the selection process. Trying to avoid the flake factor.

So... I guess I'll postulate Dodger's First Rule of Provider Selection: The Flake Quotient appears to increase as the age of the provider decreases. Of course, this is a guideline. Not a law of nature. Anyone who has seen Alana Nicole has seen a young lady who knows how to execute the complete provider experience.

That just puts more emphasis on the selection process. Trying to avoid the flake factor.

So... I guess I'll postulate Dodger's First Rule of Provider Selection: The Flake Quotient appears to increase as the age of the provider decreases. Of course, this is a guideline. Not a law of nature. Anyone who has seen Alana Nicole has seen a young lady who knows how to execute the complete provider experience. Originally Posted by dodger

Amen Dodger...

Alana is a great exception to that rule, as is Jamie Young!

Giving credit, where credit is due. Of course, my NCNS with a thirty-something in the last two weeks is also an exception. That's where doing your provider research and paying attention to the signs can really pay off...

TP

You can still see young providers, but in some type of controlled environment where somebody else is running the business. The main problems you're having are with the girls not knowing how to run a business or organize their schedules. They're flying by the seat of their pants.

Aren't there studios where you walk in a choose from a line up? Or did I just see that on t.v.?

Or are there any Massage Parlors with the type of girls you like?

Or the strip clubs.

If you go somewhere that's open, then YOU can choose the time of your appointment and it WILL take place at that time.

This type of problem crops up in many professions where people want to be their own boss, but don't know how to run a business.

Some of the handyman/painter/plumber guys who self schedule I've tried in the past don't show up and I have to keep calling to find out the excuse. So I call companies now and let them schedule the worker, even though it costs more.

Or a place I used to get massages, one of the therapists decided to become independent and then missed an appointment and was running late for another the two times I booked with her outside the salon. So I went back to going to the salon where SOMEONE would give me a massage if one girl didn't show up for work.

Fair enough. I'll do another in the MEN's Lounge.

Hell what have I got to lose. No provider will see me now anyways.

Since I'm Done. Originally Posted by tiggold

First of all lots of girls will still see you...I mean you are only asking what should be expected of all the girls. Being clean and professional...OK here is the part where LOTS of girls are about to be really pissed off....
LOOK AT THE AGE YOU ARE TRYING TO SEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No one has there shit together before the age of 25...maybe some do and 25 is not a magical number but Im bi and pick up girls every once in a while ...as soon as I hear they are younger than 25...I stop trying to take them home!!!! I want someone who is put together and KNOWS how to enjoy every encounter she has!!

Thats my 2cents...not that anyone asked for it LOL...but when in the hell has that ever stopped me??

Is this about me?* Yes.* Anyone here that knows me Knows it’s all about me.* The world revolves around me.** J/K.**** Since My return I had almost 30 sessions.** Most were great.* NOT good but Great.* And you can see the reviews.* Some were BAD.** I had three sessions in one day that was all great.** ONE single and the other two were Doubles.*** Yes they were all over the age of 24.* So yes I know there are great providers out there. *I’ve been here since 2003(in the ASPD days)* **And yes your right Alana Nicole fit my range and one of the BEST( I’ve seen her since she was 18* she is now 21 )*, but*I want others.** I know*there are lots out there that were 18-20 that were great I've seen them.

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When I pulled the BMW from the Sugar Baby I sold it so I wouldn’t be tempted to give it back to her.** And add it to my hobby funds.** And yes I had fun at first.** Misty Rain and Sexxii.steph pull me out of retirement.* They were in my range and they were NEW and great.** So yes there are great young ones out* here still.* Trust me I was on the hunt for them and found most of the GEMS.

The reason is the Last one.* The STRAW.** She was the TGTBT person. And *the run around I got.** Just set me off.*** I have NCNS and cancellations* more than most.** I usually move on.** I though she was a FAKE if it wasn’t’ for my fellow hobbist that have seen her.** Or one of them playing a bad JOKE on me.* **I got caught up and was wondering why this one bother me so much?** The Providers Posting Negatives on this have never seen me.*** Any Provider that has seen me* is the ones you should take their comments.

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The reason I QUIT is just that.* The last NON experience just Made it NOT fun.* And when this is NOT Fun I’m Done.** I even had a good session with Bentley* before the appointment with THE STRAW.** And I had another session planned*with a well know Princess Later that Day.** So yes there are Lots of providers in my range that provide GREAT SESSIONS.** **And it is my choice to choose who I want and what I want.**** YES* I had Three session set that day.

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Maybe I need to take a step back but it really bother me that THE STRAW made this not fun.** Don’t get me wrong.* THE STRAW has had many good reviews and I have confirmed that she is real and a Great provider.*

Why not name the names.* ONE* PPE would kill me after the Brooke Cumsalot tread of public naming my SB.*** Two* Don’t need the WK crap.*** Like I said THE STRAW didn’t work with me but has for others.**

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I have some of them respond and say they were sorry and will offer a make up session.** THAT’S **OK.* Thanks , BUT NO Thanks.

I had fun but I feel when it is not fun it’s time to QUIT.*******

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Oh why did I not walk away from the sessions when I saw it was starting to *going south?*** One I’m limited to the times I can Hobby.* I only have a certain window to get out.* I still have personal obligations.** That is why I had Two SB.* So I knew they would be there when I wanted them.** And Being a MAN.** If your already there you hope for the best.* I have walked away from session when it was a BAIT and SWITCH.* Or If I ever felt unsafe.* Or* Not Comfortable with the surroundings.*** If I feel* unsafe I would leave and end it.** (Why I washed and Switched to L1 or L2)*

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"Research times three."

"Patience is a virtue."

Those who practice the forgoing usually are satisfied with the results.