OUTCALL OR INCALL WHICH ONE?

Incall for any less than 3 hours. I have gone through a lot of trouble and MONEY to get ahold of three incalls all over New Orleans, and it's far better than any 3 room suite.

When I am on the road same thing....but I pay in advance for a week at a hotel...why leave?

When I am on the road same thing....but I pay in advance for a week at a hotel...why leave? Originally Posted by London Rayne

Exactly! I'm always a bit surprised when someone would rather me visit their private home then to visit me in an upscale hotel. I understand for some guys there is the fear factor that it may be a sting or the laziness in not wanting to drive across town (I feel the same way myself sometimes) but I would think, for no other reason than privacy, they'd want to visit outside of their private home.

I agree and it feels a bit intrusive to screw a guy in the bed he sleeps in with a wife or GF lol. Not to mention they can do research on us...what have we got other than blacklists that only detail what a girl knows about lol. I had one outcall loooong ago where I was in the middle of it and some other guy walks in. I grabbed my clothes and ran out butt naked! I could have been raped or worse and there were drugs there...no freaking way!!


Another time some sicko couple had a role play fantasy they did not let me in on, and the wife walked in as hubby was going at it. I freaked the hell out, punched him, dared her to touch me, and took off! Both times these were at a private home...lesson learned! Also, most busts are where cops make the girl go to THEM!! Hidden cameras, psycho GF who may be watching the house, neighbors, dogs, too many risks.

At a hotel, the only risk they have is running into someone they know going to the elevator and all they have to say is, they are there for work or have a friend in town. Add to that personal homes usually come with guns!! No thanks!

Generally I am not a big fan of incall. When playing in my own city I still would rather pay to get a hotel room and have her visit me there.

I do most of my hobbying in other cities because I travel quite a bit and when on the road I will only do outcall, unless she offers me a discount for the hassle of leaving my perfectly comfortable suite and driving to see her in a strange town.

I only play when I'm on the road, and I stay in upscale hotels, mostly suites. Even when I know the city (and I don't always), I prefer an outcall. For the most part, ladies charge more, but I have my rules. LOL.

Too many times, ladies have fucked up my sessions. Happened just yesterday. At 11 AM she confirmed the date, and I texted her the location. 45 minutes before the date was scheduled, she texted me to ask where. I texted a second, and five minutes later a third time the address. Within 5 minutes, she texted that she wouldn't be able to make it for another 4 hours. I canceled.

Not my business if she wants to throw away $$$$. But I was still pissed. I had spent the previous hour getting cleaned up for the date and getting my place in order. All that time and energy wasted.

Had it been an incall, I would have been stranded in the middle of nowhere.

So, LR, pardon me if I keep my outcall only policy. Providers as a whole are unreliable when it comes to this shit and can't be trusted. Even since I started my outcall only policy, I've had scattered success with dates showing up.

I am really sorry to hear that babe, BUT in THREE YEARS I have been late once....15 min. and it was because the maids entered my room because of their "policy."

It is unfortunate that some screw it up for everyone indeed.

I prefer outcalls expecially when seeing someone new. But for regulars I do have incalls available. I like outcalls more because everyone always feels safer in their own home. But sometimes during incall visits they may feel nervous.

I am really sorry to hear that babe, BUT in THREE YEARS I have been late once....15 min. and it was because the maids entered my room because of their "policy."

It is unfortunate that some screw it up for everyone indeed. Originally Posted by London Rayne

And what "policy" is that? I always put the Do Not Disturb sign up and they either leave me alone completely or, at most, leave a bag full of clean towels outside my door.

And what "policy" is that? I always put the Do Not Disturb sign up and they either leave me alone completely or, at most, leave a bag full of clean towels outside my door. Originally Posted by heatherelite

Must have been undercover LE switching out the videotapes.

I only play when I'm on the road, and I stay in upscale hotels, mostly suites. Even when I know the city (and I don't always), I prefer an outcall. For the most part, ladies charge more, but I have my rules. LOL.

Too many times, ladies have fucked up my sessions. Happened just yesterday. At 11 AM she confirmed the date, and I texted her the location. 45 minutes before the date was scheduled, she texted me to ask where. I texted a second, and five minutes later a third time the address. Within 5 minutes, she texted that she wouldn't be able to make it for another 4 hours. I canceled.

Not my business if she wants to throw away $$$$. But I was still pissed. I had spent the previous hour getting cleaned up for the date and getting my place in order. All that time and energy wasted.

Had it been an incall, I would have been stranded in the middle of nowhere.

So, LR, pardon me if I keep my outcall only policy. Providers as a whole are unreliable when it comes to this shit and can't be trusted. Even since I started my outcall only policy, I've had scattered success with dates showing up. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Most "upscale" hotels have a staff that cleans up the room.....

Most "upscale" hotels have a staff that cleans up the room..... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

Yeah, they do. But I still do the little detail work that hides my ID for the session. You know, like putting away work ID, luggage tags, Rx medicine containers, disconnecting the phones, getting the envelope ready. You know, DETAILS.

And what "policy" is that? I always put the Do Not Disturb sign up and they either leave me alone completely or, at most, leave a bag full of clean towels outside my door. Originally Posted by heatherelite

They had a clean the room every 3 days policy, and they were allowed to violate the sign. I complained and told them I would never stay there again! It was a famous Nashville hotel.

Exactly! I'm always a bit surprised when someone would rather me visit their private home then to visit me in an upscale hotel. I understand for some guys there is the fear factor that it may be a sting or the laziness in not wanting to drive across town (I feel the same way myself sometimes) but I would think, for no other reason than privacy, they'd want to visit outside of their private home. Originally Posted by heatherelite

I am single. I date on occasion but have no problem worrying about a SO or spouse. My condo is in a clean safe area. NO hotel room necessary when I see them. Thats usually a savings to the provider.

I can see it being a "savings" if she lives right up the block from you, but for touring girls it's an expense and an even bigger pain in the butt. A one hour outcall is easily 2 hours for us, plus the cab ride since most of us fly and stay put.

Add to that we have to get all ready in civie clothes not to draw suspicion, pack a bag of clothes to change into, lug around condoms, lube, whatever else, and carry that cash you gave us back to the hotel...it's just dangerous especially at night in a strange city. It's not just the point of not liking outcalls, it's the safety factor as well. I would not want to leave cash in my hotel room if I am gone, and brining all of that with me is even more dangerous. I was already robbed at gunpoint in my own neighborhood getting out of my car at night, so I am a bit afraid of strange surroundings.

Every horror story I have ever heard has always been when the girl left the comfort and surroundings of what she was familiar with....no thanks.

I usually mostly opt not to do incalls because I'm not sure how discreet she has been prior to me visiting. For all I know she may have attracted attention to her self by staff or constant traffic to her room. At least on outcalls I know it is more discreet, she doesn't even have to knock...just nudge the door open.