Over Nighters, whats your thoughts.

Here's my question to the ladies? I might have asked it before, but please indulge. Would you consider staying the night in an off the clock arrangement with a client if his appointment was at 10 pm, you had no other clients that evening and you had no early morning commitments the next day. For arguments sake, let's say the client pays for 3 to 4 hours of playtime and there is no expectation on his part of fucking all night. Only expectation is 3 to 4 hours of play over 10-11 hours of being with the client.

I'm with who-ever said it is better to buy two 2-hour dates than to buy a 10 or 12 hour date where you end up only playing 3-4 hours. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Yeah but during those two spaced out two hour dates there no convient morning wood factor and less value. I'm also paying for some of her time dedicated to me to be exclusive during that time. Booking her for example at 10 pm for a two hour and then booking her for 2 again at 6am or 8 am won't assure me that she hasn't had bookings in between that time.

The bcd and rest time for me is usually half and half 5 to 6 hours bcd and 6 hours interrmittent sleep. If the dinner date would put her in another higher rate bracket I might over look her altogether and book the lady with a slightly higher rate who wouldn't require dinner time necessarily. I consider a dinner date like a tip and if she required it during my 12 hours I will book more time or just not take the option of the dinner. Most ladies didn't charge me for dinner though, and it didn't get taken away from my time. Sometimes I strategically book late hours so that this isn't much of an issue for me and her to navigate.

I guess what is really important is that you both get along both mentally and sexually and most of the time i think its fun to do sort of a date thing before hand.
Go out to dinner, go to a concert, sporting event, or even a movie and then make a night of fun out of it and dont push the sex part too hard and just sort of let her treat you for taking her out for a fun evening and just see where it goes.
Ive done this 3 times now and all three times it was very fun and interesting and i learned alot about each provider that i never knew before the date.
The sex was really hot and fun and we took our time and didnt try to kill ourselves by trying to do too much.
We left with a new found respect for each other all three times and now we seem more like friends than provider client.
I guess its about what you can afford and how you want to spend it and if you ask if i would do it again the answer is yes and hopefully i will be able to do it with all three women again and maybe a couple of others along the way.

Here's my question to the ladies? I might have asked it before, but please indulge. Would you consider staying the night in an off the clock arrangement with a client if his appointment was at 10 pm, you had no other clients that evening and you had no early morning commitments the next day. For arguments sake, let's say the client pays for 3 to 4 hours of playtime and there is no expectation on his part of fucking all night. Only expectation is 3 to 4 hours of play over 10-11 hours of being with the client. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

That truly depends on chemistry and relationship with said client.

I would have to be absolutely enamored with my date or he would have to be a loyal long term patron.

Lina

Here's my question to the ladies? I might have asked it before, but please indulge. Would you consider staying the night in an off the clock arrangement with a client if his appointment was at 10 pm, you had no other clients that evening and you had no early morning commitments the next day. For arguments sake, let's say the client pays for 3 to 4 hours of playtime and there is no expectation on his part of fucking all night. Only expectation is 3 to 4 hours of play over 10-11 hours of being with the client. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I would say that it would all depend on the client and our comfort level. If were relaxed and enjoying each others company, no I would not be in any hurry to crawl out of his arms and leave..........I enjoy my BCD time and love giving extra to those special clients that take the time to get to know me and want to make our time together a pleasure for both of us............

That truly depends on chemistry and relationship with said client.

I would have to be absolutely enamored with my date or he would have to be a loyal long term patron.

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

I would agree that it would probably work best for those that have seen each other before.

I would say that it would all depend on the client and our comfort level. If were relaxed and enjoying each others company, no I would not be in any hurry to crawl out of his arms and leave..........I enjoy my BCD time and love giving extra to those special clients that take the time to get to know me and want to make our time together a pleasure for both of us............ Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Now, that's the attitude I was looking for

I only asked this question b/c of my early hobbying experience. When I first started hobbying, I'd normally book a provider for a late night appointment at my location. I'm talking a start time of around 10 pm if not later. Now, back in those days (late 90s), I don't think the concept of a multi-hour date had been fully developed. Additionally, finding a provider to be MSOG took some effort. Having said that, at that time, I could have easily accommodated a lady to over night with me. Have some BCD fun, then sleep for 6 - 7 hours and then wake up for some morning sex. For me, that would be an ideal extended time together.

I understand when some men state they would not want any down time when the provider is on the clock. But there are many men that are hungry for female company, not just sex. Laying in one another's arms, sharing some thoughts, kisses, having someone to hold then and cuddle with through out the night can be a very special thing. Again "The Hobby World" is unique to us all, and to each his own.....Have fun, YUM!

I've never had a guy who wanted sex all night long. More than once obviously but every overnighter I had, we always slept at least some of the time, and I insist that a man not jump on me all night long because I need my sleep too! And some men need to leave early the next day for business reasons and work, so they need sleep to. Now, we might be VERY tired LOL from a night of passion but all the overnighters I have done the men and I have always at least gotten some hours of sleep. And as Ms. Athena said, many of the men who book overnighters ( as well as those who book an hour) really love touching, snuggling, and the intimacy of that touching.

My overnighters typically start with candles lit in room, incense burning, great mood music, dim lighting all around. I am dressed in a suit, she enters usually dressed casually. We chat and I take her, I take her passionately, seductively, and manly. I lay her on the bed and undress her. i usually ask her to wear certain clothing when she arrives. The lady has told me once I had her undressed, that she felt very vuilnerable, as I am still clothed. The lady knows who is in charge and understands what is to happen. She told me it was a wonderful feeling of vulnerablility. I spend about an hour pampering her until we are completed. We dress and head out for a classy restaurant for dinner, some wine, candle light, romance, music, etc. etc. A walk along the river front (I live in New Orleans) or a stroll on the beach, I have done that in Biloxi. I hold her hand and we chat, some times the mood strikes and I kiss her. We head back to room for more play and apssion. Once I had a room with a full jacuzzi nmext to the bed. I usually go to sleep around 3am. I awaken with full wood, nothing is better than pussy in the morning!!!!! We play for a little while and it is over.

To me worth every damned cent I spend! That is quality, I can certainly get more orgasms for the money if I see her ten times for an hour on different occassions but the orgasms or nto as satisfying nor fullfilling, just me.

O yea, I adore overnights. In fact everytime I see a new lady in my head I am checking her out to see if I want longer with her, lol. Is she a good candidate for an overnighter? Just me.

I would say that it would all depend on the client and our comfort level. If were relaxed and enjoying each others company, no I would not be in any hurry to crawl out of his arms and leave..........I enjoy my BCD time and love giving extra to those special clients that take the time to get to know me and want to make our time together a pleasure for both of us............ Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Ms. A I will hold you all night long after I have filled you up. I bet we could have some interesting conversations.

Fill me up MB, fill me up good, and Ill melt in your arms, till your filling me up some more.

I would say that it would all depend on the client and our comfort level. If were relaxed and enjoying each others company, no I would not be in any hurry to crawl out of his arms and leave..........I enjoy my BCD time and love giving extra to those special clients that take the time to get to know me and want to make our time together a pleasure for both of us............ Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Fill me up MB, fill me up good, and Ill melt in your arms, till your filling me up some more. Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

Sounds like a fun time.

All we need to agree on is the itinerary, and be aware of sleeping habits and rituals. But I do think it has to be with someone with whom you have chemistry. Someone that keeps you laughing or you enjoy conversations with. As long as your time together's not boring.

There is no formula for the perfect overnight. They will vary with the gent. Personally, I'm down for anything. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I'm with you here, Tiff. I have done a few overnights that were first time meets. But, these were also gentlemen who I'd been communicating with frequently over a period of time. There is a lot more than simply screening for safety when planning for an overnight.

My overnighters typically start with candles lit in room, incense burning, great mood music, dim lighting all around. I am dressed in a suit, she enters usually dressed casually. We chat and I take her, I take her passionately, seductively, and manly. I lay her on the bed and undress her. i usually ask her to wear certain clothing when she arrives. The lady has told me once I had her undressed, that she felt very vuilnerable, as I am still clothed. The lady knows who is in charge and understands what is to happen. She told me it was a wonderful feeling of vulnerablility. I spend about an hour pampering her until we are completed. We dress and head out for a classy restaurant for dinner, some wine, candle light, romance, music, etc. etc. A walk along the river front (I live in New Orleans) or a stroll on the beach, I have done that in Biloxi. I hold her hand and we chat, some times the mood strikes and I kiss her. We head back to room for more play and apssion. Once I had a room with a full jacuzzi nmext to the bed. I usually go to sleep around 3am. I awaken with full wood, nothing is better than pussy in the morning!!!!! We play for a little while and it is over. Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

...Wow... One of my faves...

For me, it's not about whether the time will spent "in" or "out". It's more about knowing if we'll be able to enjoy one another's company for an extended period of time. That's where the recon comes in, and I think both parties should make sure they do their homework on one another.

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I've never experienced an extended date with an Escort, but I certainly have to agree with you.

I have only had an overnight with one provider, and then mutliple times. You need to click or connect on a very basic level to make this worthwhile if you are just thinking about the money. It seems to me that you would have to have met previously, but perhaps not if you can really infer mutual attraction via email. I am not so confident of my abilities in that regard. Besides, I have met my aft and don't feel the need for further exploration. Anyway, I am very happy with my 'overnights.' I understand the concern about the relative price, and frankly I think it is too high, especially if you think about paying for sleeping time, but there is something about waking next to your favorite one and holding her in your arms overnight. Anyhow, it is expensive, and may not be worth it if you are thinking about sex time, but if that is the case you should just book the multiple two hour sessions. For me, I remain open to exploring the overnight options....