..... 10 years is a long time...... you thought there was a friendship there. She owed you the truth at the very least. As a friend she owed you that. Plain and simple Originally Posted by Tequila RoseI am glad that came from a lady here...... Well stated ma'mm.
Sorry Z that really sucks..Hopefully you find a nicer hotter little play thing to keep you distracted and lessen the sting a bit Originally Posted by VictoriaLynI'm working in it! I'm thinking maybe a "bachelor" like setting where I arrange for a dozen ladies to meet him over the weekend...
...... Think how her "landlord" will feel someday.. Originally Posted by nugletYeah..... THAT would make for an interesting story..... maybe he has been giving her money to "take classes" on Tuesdays or something.....
> Did the two of you ever have a definitive talk about "Being exclusive to one another"?For the rest of you, thanks for the responses!
Nope, we were both polyamorous and I thought we were sharing all our exploits with one another. Obviously wrong assumption on that one, at least for the last 3 years or so.
> She was aware you are a Mod on a Hooker board and all the "perks" that the position brings,no?
Of course she knew I'm a mod. She also knew that there are no perks to being one.
> She has a computer and can access this site and read about the soirees at your casa with debauchery(thanks Whispers!),no?
True (I bought it for her) but I didn't hide my soirees from her. They contributed to our pillow talk and some very hot sex...
> She was ok with you seeing other "whores" and writing reviews about those encounters?
Of course. She was involved in seeing some of those other whores as well.
> You saw her for part of ONE day a week?!What did you think a hot little hooker was doing for the other 6.5 days of the week?
Work, taking care of her kid, her dog, her house, her family... all the normal things a well adjusted person does.
But you had these fantasy dreams...
Not sure where you are going there. Friends should be able to trust one another. When one betrays that trust, it's hard/impossible to come back from that.
And let's get real here;if it was anyone besides a beloved mod singing this tale of woe,Whispers would be all up in your shit for "fallin'in love with a whore".
There are any number of hobbyists that Whispers would support if something similar happened. And a larger number that would be treated like you or Cap'n Crunch. Originally Posted by Observing
Was the money vs time spent worth it? If it was then don't sweat it. Call it a learning experience. Originally Posted by Skip_8It was a wild ride and I have no regrets. Money and time well spent.
To me it sounds like you wanted something that she couldn't give you and that you needed closure to the relationship. Originally Posted by FirePhoenixYes, she couldn't give me honesty! She had boyfriends over the course of our time together and that was never a problem. She flirted with girls, too. I thought I knew where I stood and I knew that the situation was not going to change in the near term and I was ok with that. It's the betrayal and lack of remorse that sucks. But that's in the past now.