Honestly, In the hobby I try to avoid men with large packages. It's different in the real world when you have actual feelings for the guy then you don't mind taking his pain but in the hobby oh noooo! I feel the complete opposite. In the hobby most guys want the female to take control. When you have a big package it's like the opposite. You'll be dominating and I personally don't like that, as there's no real feelings involved so it just feels weird. I can't really explain it lol but I also think you should warn providers that you are packing just in case they change their mind when they see it, you won't waste your time & theirs. Originally Posted by Mia SkyeWhat do you consider big? At the Asian spas, three inches seems to be the threshold.
..... I also think you should warn providers that you are packing just in case they change their mind when they see it, you won't waste your time & theirs. Originally Posted by Mia SkyeWith no warning, if they lady backs out when she is frightened by the package, does she still have to pay for the time she wasted?