How do you like your women?

Personally I like a woman to be herself and feel comfortable enough with me to be able to express what she likes and wants.

People have many facets to them like a fine jewel. Be honest without being rude and or with a malice heart is a good way to go through life.

Being real brand new to ECCIE, this is the very first thread that I read,
and I just feel so happy to feel to be at the right place!

I couldn't help and have to put my little voice by doing my first post and insight here.

The gentlemen that prefer their women to be intelligent & sexy just give me, as a woman and as a SW also, a very good impression to have been over the long (and not totally finished) contemporary changes over the last decades, that permitted the more fair share of "powers" that used to be reserved traditionally only to men. So then, kuddo to you gentlemen, to my eyes, you look as perfect humanitarians, the kind of people that I prefer!

ps: Sorry if my English might look "strange", I'm first a French speaker from North located in Montreal, Quebec, Canada.

Being real brand new to ECCIE, this is the very first thread that I read,
and I just feel so happy to feel to be at the right place!

I couldn't help and have to put my little voice by doing my first post and insight here.

The gentlemen that prefer their women to be intelligent & sexy just give me, as a woman and as a SW also, a very good impression to have been over the long (and not totally finished) contemporary changes over the last decades, that permitted the more fair share of "powers" that used to be reserved traditionally only to men. So then, kuddo to you gentlemen, to my eyes, you look as perfect humanitarians, the kind of people that I prefer!

ps: Sorry if my English might look "strange", I'm first a French speaker from North located in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. Originally Posted by Maria Divina

Welcome, MD!

I'm afraid it won't be long before you will have read some other threads that will be less cheerful. Not sure what to say, except: fasten your seat belt.

Welcome, MD!

I'm afraid it won't be long before you will have read some other threads that will be less cheerful. Not sure what to say, except: fasten your seat belt. Originally Posted by James1588

Thank you James1588!

I already look a bit around, and well, I got a sense why you answered that.

Oh well, c'est la vie

Please do keep me abreast! Fall is a wonderful time to visit.

... maybe New Orleans. I'm thinking maybe I can come up with a plausible opportunity, come early November. If I can, you'll be the first to know! Originally Posted by James1588

Welcome Maria. It's such an honor that you would share your first insights in this little ol' thread! As James mentioned, the gamut of human expression can be found here on ECCIE. But as you say, so is life. To your points, I totally concur!

...The gentlemen that prefer their women to be intelligent & sexy just give me, as a woman and as a SW also, a very good impression to have been over the long (and not totally finished) contemporary changes over the last decades, that permitted the more fair share of "powers" that used to be reserved traditionally only to men.. Originally Posted by Maria Divina

Your opinion or willingness to speak your mind has no bearing on my desire to get naked with you. Silent or outspokenness are both unique and excellent qualities. I've experienced very sexy women with all of these personalities. The trait that gets my money is confidence in yourself and ability to please me. These women don't stop until you are satisfied. Because they know they are skilled and want you to know it. If we get a chance to play, let me know right up front you aren't scared or worried about getting it done right. Then prove it. That's confidence and I think that is sexy.

A woman should know her place......not be a push over but not the beast either. Lady in the streets and freak in the sheets. Charming, cunning. Witty, sexy, curvy.....lol nawl but definitely complimenting the side piece

Being real brand new to ECCIE, this is the very first thread that I read,
and I just feel so happy to feel to be at the right place!

I couldn't help and have to put my little voice by doing my first post and insight here.

The gentlemen that prefer their women to be intelligent & sexy just give me, as a woman and as a SW also, a very good impression to have been over the long (and not totally finished) contemporary changes over the last decades, that permitted the more fair share of "powers" that used to be reserved traditionally only to men. So then, kuddo to you gentlemen, to my eyes, you look as perfect humanitarians, the kind of people that I prefer!

ps: Sorry if my English might look "strange", I'm first a French speaker from North located in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. Originally Posted by Maria Divina

I am actually confused as to why guys listed intelligence as an important trait they look for in a SW? What are you guys discussing with these women? In a real relationship it makes sense, but I just see it as a bonus rather than a requirement. Honestly, intelligence is near the bottom of the list of attributes I look for in a woman. Kind, compassionate, ethical, honest, fun, and loyal would all rank above intelligence. So hit me up dumb women, I will show you some love

if your showcase and ads did not allow for pictures and just comments that allowed you to display opinions would you make more or less money?

Most likely if you took any significant part out of a lady's profile it would hurt business.

Obviously not every shopper is looking for the same combination of things.

Being real brand new to ECCIE, this is the very first thread that I read,
and I just feel so happy to feel to be at the right place!

I couldn't help and have to put my little voice by doing my first post and insight here.

The gentlemen that prefer their women to be intelligent & sexy just give me, as a woman and as a SW also, a very good impression to have been over the long (and not totally finished) contemporary changes over the last decades, that permitted the more fair share of "powers" that used to be reserved traditionally only to men. So then, kuddo to you gentlemen, to my eyes, you look as perfect humanitarians, the kind of people that I prefer!

ps: Sorry if my English might look "strange", I'm first a French speaker from North located in Montreal, Quebec, Canada. Originally Posted by Maria Divina

Welcome, young lady. Please do not apologize for your English, it is far better than my French--and far better than the English many posters here demonstrate.

You will find that these forums tend to highlight guys you mat wish to meet, and some you may wish to avoid.

Stay safe.

I am actually confused as to why guys listed intelligence as an important trait they look for in a SW?

Sorry to hear that. Life is often confusing. Mysterious, even.

What are you guys discussing with these women?

You never know, going in. Two ladies that I've visited have had books out on a shelf ... books that I also happened to have read and enjoyed. Instant discussion, leading to bilateral "have you read such-and-such?" I don't show up with a preplanned conversational agenda, if that's what you're asking.

In a real relationship it makes sense, but I just see it as a bonus rather than a requirement.

A point of agreement. I also do not consider intelligence a "requirement." I don't have many requirements, really. Maybe obvious ones, like "no drowning any baby kittens, at least while I'm here or that I know of." Stuff like that.

Honestly, intelligence is near the bottom of the list of attributes I look for in a woman. Kind, compassionate, ethical, honest, fun, and loyal would all rank above intelligence.

There are different kinds of intelligence. Example: I'm a mathematician and a physicist, and I know very intelligent people who know and care little about those areas of human endeavor; they're smart and able in other areas. I will also say that, in my experience, people who are "kind, compassionate, ethical, honest, fun, and loyal" also tend to be intelligent ... in fact, the attributes you list are a pretty good summation of emotional intelligence. That's just in my experience; your mileage, as we say around here, may have varied.

So hit me up dumb women, I will show you some love Originally Posted by Vitamin

Ah ... another point of agreement. While I don't think there are many "dumb" women who can operate successfully, over any length of time, as independent sex workers, any such who hit me up, to them I will also show some love.

She has a brain, I want her to use it. If she can't stimulate me mentality, she won't be able to physically either. Originally Posted by dj8rocks

I am with you on this but it's very hard to find at times..