PSE vs GSE .. Which can't you live without?!

Two years ago, I could not have imagined myself preferring GFE over PSE style.
Now, it's GFE all the way. I've discovered my niche much more. I definitely used to be wayyy more into, well, acting like a lil porn star. I can still fulfill that role, but I find tenderness and lots and lots of sweet kisses, massage, and tight embraces to just feel so much more natural and comfortable. I find the men who are looking for that to be much more attractive, and I think they sense that from my wording/the way I promote myself. I feel like how I present myself to new guys just puts off that vibe too.
I'm super into kink, though. I guess you could kinda group fetish in there with either PSE or GFE. Porn stars get kinky, but an awesome girlfriend would get even kinkier with you ;P

Below is my definition (copied from an earlier post) of the difference in GFE and PSE.

If I need a GFE, I'll get a GF. To me P4P is always more about acting out fantasies and getting extra nasty!

So, give me PSE or give me a civie.

GFE
PSE

The illusion of love
The illusion of lust

Sweet Soft Sensual
Nasty Hard Extreme

"I want to make you happy"
"I need you to fuck me"

Making babies
Making movies

Barefoot
Acrylic Stripper Platforms

Unloading in the condom
Unloading on her face

Talking about her job
Talking about her blowjob

"Take me out"
"Tie me up"

"Please fuck me in the morning"
"Please fuck me in the ass"

Doing laundry in between fucks
Doing her girlfriend in between fucks

Gagging and quitting
Gagging and spitting ..... And gagging some more

260 hr
350 hr

I'm available

Got to say PSE for sure

From the perspective of the Hobbyist: I precieve a spectrum of experience that ranges from the blow-n-go in my car with a SW (<$50) to a multi day get away with a HDH (Sky-the-limit).

Within that range the so-called GFE experience isIMO a little less about specific sex acts and a little more about personal interaction and involvement.

A "PSE" session may involve an extensive menu where anything can go anywhere, the activity can become more about what happens and a little less about the interaction of the partners.

Given a choice, I'd opt for a good GFE over a wild PSE.

Besides: I can't bring much PS to the E any more anyway.

For me at least its not just the act or services but the connection.
So for me at least a gfe is the best the snuggling the conversation connect let it build slow and natural... The crescendo is so much more enjoyable.
So far all the ladies I have met have truly been enjoyable get togethers, their company has been the absolute best and the connection sweet and simple some more than others some ladies just want to get it over with ( like with a bj some rush some make you feel like they are making love to it and enjoying making you feel the intensity) where I like hanging out cold drink a meal or just visit laugh a while the physical aspect is more enjoyable if you connect first. first meets are usually awkward but that fades soon enough.
Lets face it these ladies not only have to be first rate actresses theres no way someone half or a third of your age can be remotely attracted to you they have a big job pretending that im the only one in their life for a short time then be able to do thesame thing for someone else. They deserve an Emmy.. Those I truly believe I have a friendly connection with actually text from time to time during their down tome just to say hello

These terms seem to have different meanings to everyone so I'm hesitant to label myself as PSE since I don't do full on Greek and that is what most connotate with a PSE lady. But I also do things that many GFE girls absolutely will not. So many variations lol. There should be some kind of label in between for a firecracker GFE that loves kink and everything except having her greek land invaded. Originally Posted by JocelynJohnsin

Totally on point

PSE most Def. forcing O's even better, and armed with a Hitachi! YES!

GFE means very passionate very hard fucking the way you fuck a girl friend you are totally in love with!!!
PSE is GFE plus kinky fetish fun

My favorite provider experiences begin with GFE, finish PSE and relax afterwards GFE. The best of both worlds!

PSE or GFE are both wonderful in their own way. I just hate it when I end up with an EWE provider...................... ...



(Ex Wife Experience)

My favorite provider experiences begin with GFE, finish PSE and relax afterwards GFE. The best of both worlds! Originally Posted by Charlie Drake

I have to agree with this one.

GFE means very passionate very hard fucking the way you fuck a girl friend you are totally in love with!!!
PSE is GFE plus kinky fetish fun Originally Posted by Teagenluv

Credit to Bush Pilot for what I consider to be the best definition of PSE vs. GFE:

PSE: You show up, fuck her brains out, and cum on her face.

GFE: You show up with a dozen roses, fuck her brains out, and cum on her face.