Please knock some sense into me

Keep seeing her. She does it for you.

Get as far away from her and her club as soon as possible. You have enough on your mind.

You have limited time left, based on your diagnosis.

If you want to spend it with this woman, do so. If not, make your peace with the fact that she just won't be who you want her to be, and let her go.

She's making you crazy, treats you poorly and takes advantage of you but you clearly have feelings for her.

State your case, and let her know how you need it to be - if she won't give you what you need, you have to move on. Odds are, she won't, but you already know that in spite of your hopes for something more.

I wish you well finding some comfort and passion with the time you have left.

With any luck, you'll find it.

Do you happen to have Glioblastoma Multiforme?

First, that stripper is self centered souless C word... If you're truly dying I would go out with a bang. Plenty of girls on here would take better care of you for less. Originally Posted by DrBWC

No not brain damage but it probably seems like it.

I understand what you are saying and yes I was given a certain amount of time which was supposed to up by now. Chemo slowed it down but 2 months ago it stopped working.

Ditch the bitch! If you want to go out with a smile on your face, find someone better.

Idstart here: “ . . . spent thousands in front of her at the club on her friends and coworkers and basically fucked anyone there. . . .”

Find another gal there, or here, or in Seeking Arrangement that you like. And fuck away. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Messing with her is not ideal in many ways. She has been in trouble for beating up other girls in other clubs for far less.
I know that she is truly done with me as she knows she burned any bridge that was ever there and cannot be rebuilt.

So many heartless people in the world...She lost out...Moving forward try looking here or another reputable site for companionship. Plenty of great girls here that would appreciate it. Sorry about your diagnosis hope they are wrong! Xoxo Originally Posted by Brandee69

That is fine. Lot easier to move forward after her true intentions came out yesterday.

Diagnosis not wrong but definitely survived longer than I should have and have more time to enjoy myself as I am still able to do anything I want to.

No one can tell I have cancer just by looking at me.

Get as far away from her and her club as soon as possible. You have enough on your mind. Originally Posted by LargeBreastFan

Done.

Keep seeing her. She does it for you. Originally Posted by PeterBota

ok, I deserve that. I know what I should have done much earlier and could not. Like an addict trying to get off drugs. That is why I was asking for support/criticism here.

You have limited time left, based on your diagnosis.

If you want to spend it with this woman, do so. If not, make your peace with the fact that she just won't be who you want her to be, and let her go.

She's making you crazy, treats you poorly and takes advantage of you but you clearly have feelings for her.

State your case, and let her know how you need it to be - if she won't give you what you need, you have to move on. Odds are, she won't, but you already know that in spite of your hopes for something more.

I wish you well finding some comfort and passion with the time you have left.

With any luck, you'll find it. Originally Posted by Parsifal

You described the situation so perfectly in your message.

All is true. Did not want to give her up. Could not make peace when I tried at 1st.

She was making me crazy.

I finally had the balls to tell her everything that was bottled up inside and she what I needed from her. I was told I would never have that with her and that is when we both realized that this was done.

I will be looking for someone. It cannot be all about sex. That part is easy. I want some connection. Someone to be with and enjoy life when that is all that there is left to do.

It boggles my mind how such stupid people somehow come across enough money to be able to hobby. Dude, you’re being played, you know you’re being played, and then ask what you should do? And all this with limited time. SMH.

I’m not sure what I’d do. On the one hand I’d try to get some bucket list items crossed off, but I wouldn’t want to blow my kids’ inheritance. Similarly, not sure if I’d say “fuck it” and get laid often, or try to make peace with my maker. Tough choices. Among them though is not to spend thousands of dollars to not have sex.

Whatever you decide, I wish you the best and hope you have more time.

I have never understood why a gent would fall for a stripper. They almost always look miserable up on the stage and rarely smile.

Do those things that make your soul happy and things that bring you peace. If you have only have a limited amount of time, don't spend it angst filled.

I have never understood why a gent would fall for a stripper. They almost always look miserable up on the stage and rarely smile. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I was into strippers when I was young, it's mostly living a fantasy of being with another woman, I've learned that all have daddy issues and are miserable

+1000%

I have never understood why a gent would fall for a stripper. They almost always look miserable up on the stage and rarely smile.

Do those things that make your soul happy and things that bring you peace. If you have only have a limited amount of time, don't spend it angst filled. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Anyone remember NitWit Boy on aspd?

I was into strippers when I was young, it's mostly living a fantasy of being with another woman, I've learned that all have daddy issues and are miserable Originally Posted by BLM69

That's why they are perfect fuck toys Just don't be like the op.