Let's Put this Shit on the Table and Discuss like Adults...!!

I'll bite....

1. I do my homework before is start talking to them. I already know the answers to my questions

2. I only haggle when buying a house or a car. If I can't afford to see the lady then I wait until I can.

3. I have no reason to stalk anyone...especially a provider. Originally Posted by tbone2u

Well said, I totally agree with this approach!!

What do you ladies want to put on the table, I'm sure there are some things you'd like us to know???

^^^ Let's see

About asking for discounts...

When I'm asked for a discount I don't respond but if you want a discount expect a discounted experience. It messes up the mood. "This" is not something that you need, it is a luxury. Save up or find someone in your price range. This is an intimate service and no matter a ladies rate, she is worth every penny of that.

As far as stalkers... That's mad weird. Stalking isn't going to make anyone like you. She will never be your girl, bro..

1) I think manners go a long way, Jojo. Chances are the lady has had the same question posed multiple times from multiple guys to the point where it gets annoying/appears a time waste.

2) Flexibility is cool but who am I to tell the seller what to sell her product for? Lol there’s providers I really like who I wait til they get in range (or until I can pay the fee) and there’s others who I’m just not interested in. Negotiation I don’t think should ever be a thing unless she’s new and could use a favor for a vouch and even then... eh.

3) Some guys have too much time on their hands and feel way too entitled to providers on here. I learned long ago that the minute you start taking things TOO personal, you throw off your experience and the possibility of a good time. Maybe she just don’t wanna see you, bro. Plenty of others out here...

About asking for discounts...

When I'm asked for a discount I don't respond but if you want a discount expect a discounted experience. It messes up the mood. "This" is not something that you need, it is a luxury. Save up or find someone in your price range. This is an intimate service and no matter a ladies rate, she is worth every penny of that. Originally Posted by TiffanyDash

THIS!!!!


And, i stopped responding as well.

the only time i have ever asked for a price change is when 'hooker math' is encountered and its just dumb. Half hour for $120, 1 hour for $250, 1.5 hours for $400...

About asking for discounts...

When I'm asked for a discount I don't respond but if you want a discount expect a discounted experience. It messes up the mood. "This" is not something that you need, it is a luxury. Save up or find someone in your price range. This is an intimate service and no matter a ladies rate, she is worth every penny of that. Originally Posted by TiffanyDash

i disagree with the last sentence. i've had 300$ sessions that were awful, and 80$ sessions that were incredible. in the hobby, you don't always get what you pay for..

there are markets that are buyer's markets, seller's markets, and neither. i have no idea what other hobbyists experience, but my experience is that i am in a buyer's market. Between my utrs, upscale providers, and what I would call BP-style providers, i have a constant dilemma of whom i'm going to see on any given night. under those conditions, yes i'm going to negotiate. i do so respectfully, never ask more than once, and respect a provider's decision either way on whether she accepts or rejects a given offer.

if i was in a seller's market, prices would very likely be more etched in stone. when i bought my condo, i paid more than the seller asked. i wanted to lock down the sale, and i didn't care if i had to fork over an extra 1500 to do it.

all you have to do is read ads for a couple of weeks to realize that prices in the escort business are "flexible." i run a small biz and haven't negotiated prices for at least 8 years. (fyi, my hourly rate is a joke compared to what escorts make, but my capture rates-the percentage of my anticipated scheduled appointments that i collect on-are off the charts) but i'm in a seller's market, so why should i? if i was in a buyer's market, different story entirely.

gals that refuse to negotiate are well within their rights, as are guys who refuse to pay full freight. it is a free country-or mostly free at least-and it all comes out in the wash at the end of the day. in short, you do you, and let the chips-and the donations-fall where they may..

the only time i have ever asked for a price change is when 'hooker math' is encountered and its just dumb. Half hour for $120, 1 hour for $250, 1.5 hours for $400... Originally Posted by ICM

tell her you want 2 half hours, back to back, but you aren't really into hour sessions..

Who are you to tell anyone what you think their service is worth? To each is own. Even if a girl doesn't give a remarkable experience, whatever price she sets, is what it is.

I’m just going to address #1

I thoroughly read provider ads and or profile for menu and rates. It’s quite difficult when it’s vague or subjective.

For example: if a provider mentions “GFE” or “PSE”, it’s used loosely and it doesn’t mean they are fully GFE/PSE. Some providers get annoyed when guys ask for “specific “ activities they participate in before making a decision. Some would see this as false advertising or a way to finesse clients into seeing them.

Another example: “BNG” what is that to you? Is it “blow N go” or “bang N go”? Apparently, it can be interrupted either way. But how would you know without clarity from the provider. “No AA” or “AA friendly”, what do you mean? Do you mean African American or Asian American? To avoid confusion, maybe more providers should do away with the abbreviations and specify on what activities they do or do not offer. Don’t say “AA”, say African American (Black men) or Asian Whether you see them or not.

I encourage more providers on the board to be more specific on their ads to reduce annoyance of questions. Finessing or false advertisement can lead to misunderstandings, poor experience and bad reviews.

Don’t play it safe! Let’s get that commentary on #2, too, please! 😁 I’m just being silly.

I get it! I keep hearing a lot of complaints about not enough information and here I am deleting info because no one bothers to actually read my showcase.

I agree the parameters should be established on BNG so it’s understood prior to a client reaching out, but hey that the dynamics of this business, each provider runs their own business according to how they’d like....I don’t offer such a thing such as BNG. Heck I don’t even offer 15 minutes or Q.V. or cardstes for that matter. So I don’t have those problems.🤷🏾♀️ But what I do and don’t offer is listed on my website in its entirety.

My menu has been listed in my bio, but with that and all the other important information it’s quite a bit and let’s face it most men do not read....so I honestly don’t know what to say to help with a balance.

Speaking for myself I provide detailed info because I don’t have time to answer a bunch of questions, that can be answered by reading and taking the time to do some research.

It’s such a turn on when a man tells me he already did his research and read my website and is familiar with it, right down to my etiquette. You’re only making the sex better. 😈

I’m just going to address #1

I thoroughly read provider ads and or profile for menu and rates. It’s quite difficult when it’s vague or subjective.

For example: if a provider mentions “GFE” or “PSE”, it’s used loosely and it doesn’t mean they are fully GFE/PSE. Some providers get annoyed when guys ask for “specific “ activities they participate in before making a decision. Some would see this as false advertising or a way to finesse clients into seeing them.

Another example: “BNG” what is that to you? Is it “blow N go” or “bang N go”? Apparently, it can be interrupted either way. But how would you know without clarity from the provider. “No AA” or “AA friendly”, what do you mean? Do you mean African American or Asian American? To avoid confusion, maybe more providers should do away with the abbreviations and specify on what activities they do or do not offer. Don’t say “AA”, say African American (Black men) or Asian Whether you see them or not.

I encourage more providers on the board to be more specific on their ads to reduce annoyance of questions. Finessing or false advertisement can lead to misunderstandings, poor experience and bad reviews. Originally Posted by nascobar21

Who are you to tell anyone what you think their service is worth? To each is own. Even if a girl doesn't give a remarkable experience, whatever price she sets, is what it is. Originally Posted by TiffanyDash

We like your rates!

Who are you to tell anyone what you think their service is worth? To each is own. Even if a girl doesn't give a remarkable experience, whatever price she sets, is what it is. Originally Posted by TiffanyDash

well i can charge my clients 1000/hr. whether it makes sense for anyone to pay that is another matter. that's what we're talking about, not whether or not providers can set their own damn rates..